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Recordkeeping

         So many records to keep. Even the simplest life requires so many records. The easy ones include warranties, owners manuals, etc. Then there's bills and the proofs you paid them. Insurance policies, retirement plans, investments if any, bank accounts, loan records, claims, and so forth.

         I live with my elderly father. The dining room is his office. When I have company, I have to wait until he clears away his papers to set the table. I can decorate the mantel for the season, but will find bills between the candlesticks and photographs in a day or two. He thinks its okay to leave two seats at the table with magazines or things he's working on if we're only seating four for dinner. Mom never let him get away with that, but I can't control him. He gets mad at me when he can't find something the next day. And he has to include Medicare and many other documents.

         My things I keep with the computer in the guest bedroom. I need an office, too. My bills, my genealogy notes, my writing, my church papers, are all mixed in one space. Then when guests come, either overnight or just for an afternoon, they move whatever they want around. Then I'm lost again. At least I don't mix them in the eating area.

         I tried to set up a movable file for Dad, but he doesn't understand the principles of filing. He likes piles. I use plastic boxes for mine. Getting organized is not a problem. Staying organized on a daily basis requires time and discipline.

         I guess a lack of discipline runs in the family. It just shows in different ways.