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by Riot
Rated: 18+ · Book · Personal · #1920371
Someday, when I grow up, I want to be a real blog...
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Thank you Brooklyn for the lovely journal image!


Someday, when I grow up, I want to be a real blog...
August 6, 2013 at 6:16am
August 6, 2013 at 6:16am
#788313
Today started off fairly average. You know, the usual kind of average for a first time mother. I tried to fight the squirming nine month old next to me at the crack of dawn, but like always, she won out. It's never really too awfully hard to wake up though, as Rosalie is definitely a little morning bug. Any sleepiness quickly melts into a jumble of happiness and giggles.

Anyway, I headed to my living room and fed her. We played around for a bit, and once she was content at trying to solve the riddle of the markers in the plastic bin, I hopped on here and went through a bunch of images Brooklyn and I had picked out for a cake eating/cake something/cakey-cake raffle-auction-thinamajig I haven't quite hammered out all the details to yet. I was quickly distracted though because as much of a morning bug Rosalie is, she still hasn't quite figured out why her mouth hurts so much, so really most of today was spent with a baby attached to my hip. Try as I might, it's simply too hard to type here and hold her.

After dinner my husband decided to give me a girls night out with my best friend. I was robbing my piggy bank for twenty bucks I had saved for such an occasion. Somehow, a silver half dollar had found its way into the piggy bank, but wouldn't come out the bottom. My husband and girlfriend both agreed that it would be practically impossible to get out without smashing it. I jokingly said, "I wonder if I can flip it on its back and get it out through the top again. Wouldn't that be something? I'd have to go to the casino!"

Sure enough, that's exactly what happened on the very first try. No clangs or clanks about it--just effortlessly through the top like I had practiced it for ages. Now, none of us are very superstitious, but it was pretty funny. I tucked my 'lucky' half dollar in my pocket and on we went.

I am sort of picky about the type of slots I play. My husband works hard for his money, and what little cash I have for myself is even harder to come by, especially since I stay at home with Rosalie. I babysit bratty kids, I scrub toilets, clean houses, etc. Basically grunt work. So when I go, I'm aiming for longevity. I want to be there for a second. I never go in there expecting to win anything. I'm paying just for the 'fun time' of it. Anyway, I came across this brand spankin' new slot machine that was apocalypse themed with... ZOMBIES. Sweet!

I was quickly disappointed when it had gone so fast. My girlfriend was riding a smallish win, so I was just kind of slowly circling the drain, when out of nowhere I get a text from Brooklyn on my cell phone. She was congratulating me. I was perplexed. I asked her what it was for. She said she didn't want to ruin it, that I needed to log on to WDC right away. I tried, but the page wouldn't load. I finally got an email refresh in and saw a bunch of emails. I got flushed. I tried to text Brooke back but my fingers wouldn't work. Somehow I managed to dial her, and she started congratulating me on my promotion. I hit the button on my slot machine, my last little 'big dollar bet', and all of a sudden the total kept going up, and up, and up! I had won almost $50 in one spin. My girlfriend was screeching at me in one ear, Brooke in the other, and the machine in my face. I spun again, and won more. Then some more. Then some more!

Then a wave of anxiety rushed over me as I started to get flighty from stimulation overload. I decided I wanted to take my winnings and get the hell out of dodge before it all went back into the game. We cashed out and then began the anxious trip home. That was when I was finally able to get a signal to the site on my phone.

What a day, what a day. It shall be one I remember and cherish, always! I want to give a very heartfelt thank you to everyone who was here to congratulate me live as this happened, to my fellow peers who were promoted alongside me, and to The StoryMaster and The StoryMistress for making this site possible. As my first testimonial I ever wrote says, "There's no place like home." *Heart*
May 31, 2013 at 2:37am
May 31, 2013 at 2:37am
#783913
"Curious that we spend more time congratulating people who have succeeded than encouraging people who have not."
Neil deGrasse Tyson


I've contemplated several times creating a blog on WDC. In fact, quite awhile before it really started soaring. One of the things I pondered was what to write in it. I've read numerous blogs here. Some a mix of personal reflections, others a mix of their WDC endeavors. I always told myself that if I were to blog, it wouldn't be merely a self serving avenue for promoting any groups I run, but a few things have been on my mind that I want to share. Before I get into more, I should give anyone who may be reading this a little bit of background.

When I first started WDC, I felt relatively unknown. Then, one day, SHERRI GIBSON knocked on my mailbox and informed me that one of my items, a horrible piece in retrospect, was chosen to be part of that week's "Simply Positive Newbie Reviewers. I was over the moon, not because I thought she thought my work was fantastic or anything, but because someone had actually noticed me in a sea of tiny specks. What ensued was a full week of bombardment of my email box. Some people liked my work, others didn't, but they were all welcoming and so very kind. I felt completely honored, and it was just the sort of welcoming that really got me involved in the site's community. WDC was no longer just a place to slap up my work. It was fast becoming my home, my internet-family.

I quickly learned the ropes of reviewing. I tried my hand at a few. They weren't very good. Some people, including beloved 🌕 HuntersMoon , privately graced my email to let me know some easy tips on improvement. I changed. I became a better reader. I learned, through looking at someone else's work, how to improve on my own.

I soon joined several review groups, firstly "Simply Positive Review Forum , "Simply Positive Newbie Reviewers, and "The WDC Angel Army, but also a multitude of others that have since come and gone. I was pumping them out like crazy just a couple of months in. I wouldn't say now that I was an amazing reviewer, but I think without that crucial step I wouldn't be where I am today. I got feedback on my reviews from those I had sent them to, I learned, I grew.

I still review these days, but not at the same level I did before. Some of those are outside factors like having a baby (I love you Rosalie!) and stuff like that. My reviewing self of today is more focused on quality over quantity. That should be a given to any sensible reviewer, but it's easy to see that it's not. It's not a controversial subject I have time or energy to combat, but it's important to what I have to say next.

As if reviewing a newcomer isn't hard enough, WDC has taken a large hit on its 'newbie' reviewing groups. When I first began in 2009, I rode the short-lived end wave of the 'golden' zone for newbie review groups. Please don't misunderstand, I'm not knocking any newbie review group out there right now, or even then. I'm just pointing out that there's this evident lack of will to extend newbie compassion and welcoming like there used to be a few years ago. People, groups, and ideas have all come and gone, but what's remarkable is a few determined individuals who have captured that special mission and balled them up into a few wonderful groups, including mine.

I know I'm not the only one to think that the harder the mission is pushed to really welcome newbies, the less receptive our audience seems to be. I know from personal experience how easy it is to get wrapped up in the politics of the site, the groups, the this, the that. Then on top of all of that, there's that little thing we came here for in the first place, writing and getting feedback. So we're in this weird octopus ball of wanting to give, give, give, but also trying to promote ourselves, with every right, and still find time to actually write.

We group together in unintended cliques for ease because there's strength in numbers. We say to ourselves that this group looks nice, or that group has active people, or hey, look at that group's reviews, and we join. But more often than not we just become another name on another registry that causes some unsuspecting group leader to have nightmares trying to figure out who's really on board and who's not. Our group leaders band together with those few who are really willing to give their all to their cause. They jump through hoops and turn tricks all hours of the day to try and spark activity. I know it, I've been there, I've done that. I've been part of teams and watched other leaders experience the same thing. So I know, believe me I know, that there are a multitude of dynamics on this site to consider, but we absolutely, without a doubt, cannot ignore the needs of newbies to WDC.

It. Is. So. Important.

This site will not function without new members, not in the long haul. Like groups, people come and go. Some are in it for the long haul, perhaps forever, but others have yet to even embark on their journey to this site. When they get there, we need to be ready. More importantly, we should want to be ready, for every new person that comes across 'Read a Newbie' page may be an integral member of the community at some point in the future.

Furthermore, I've always felt that many newbies have needed more of our help than those who are already well established in the community. The quote at the top of this entry captures that feeling I have well. We spend so much time focusing on rewarding and recognizing those that are already here, but we (albeit politely) gloss over those that could really use the help.

Are we just afraid of reviewing them? I think so, in a way. Let's be honest, it can be messy. Newbies don't always post their best work right away. There's a lot of test static items. There's a lot of spam. There's a lot of rough edges. It's a lot of repetition, a lot of reiterating the same droned phrases in different ways to each newbie: rate your item, set the genres, create a tagline, make a title, don't shove 50,000 words into a static item, use a book, use a blog, set it as a short story, no set it as a poem, not my cup of tea, what's with the weird fetishes and fart stories, is this an advertisement, eat your peas and carrots, don't pet the lions--on, and on, and on!

I'm not trying to say that we shouldn't award and recognize those who are accomplished, not by any means, but I think that it shouldn't be at the cost of forgetting the basics. In a group, for example, the leaders and members are limited by their collective funds. If you're lucky, you may be able to buy some yourself, but more often than not we rely on charity raffles and auctions. We plug our cause and rely on generosity to give us the means to ambitiously fulfill our mission. It's admirable, it really is. It's a lot of hard work and networking.

The real question you have to ask is what that mission really is and how the leaders are really fulfilling it. It might look pretty, and sound all nice, but does it actually serve a real purpose? I thought my group did, and how completely wrong I was!

I set up my group with well thought out and admirable goals but you know what happened? In the end it was a cycle of rewarding members for hashing our quantity over quality. Our members worked hard, but had the wrong focus. Instead of taking our funds and actually using them on newbies, we were grasping at straws for activity so hard that we overcompensated by rewarding our veteran members just for participation. But, but, we had to have activity to keep up the funding, right? We can't have the group if there are no members! However, it became a vicious cycle of conflict in whether to spend our precious Gift Points on keeping our group alive and active or putting it toward what we collected it for in the first place. We lost ourselves in the race, but then, it was never a race to begin with.

All of this is why last week I made some changes to my group. Now, we still reward our veterans, but we are back on track and focused with what sparked our group in the first place. I invite you all to check it out and participate as you can!


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Sincerely,
A once (or twice) newbie herself,
Riot
May 22, 2013 at 9:03pm
May 22, 2013 at 9:03pm
#783231
I thought in order to give my blog a proper send off, I'd talk about the most incredibly boring topic I could think about: the weather. If I can manage through this topic, I can manage through any! *arm flex*

I live near Seattle, so we get a lot of rain. Honestly, it's not as much as people joke about or think, though. Tourists seem to have it in their head that they absolutely have to carry their umbrella with them everywhere and a few even walk down the roads in raincoats that remind me of Curious George. We joke about it over here; we can tell a native from a tourist any day because the natives wear t-shirts and shorts regardless of the season.


A few Seattle weather jokes:

What do you call two straight days of rain in Seattle?
A weekend.

What comes after two straight days of rain in Seattle?
Monday morning.

It only rains twice a year in Seattle:
August through April and May through July.

What does daylight-saving time mean in Seattle?
An extra hour of rain.

What's the definition of a Seattle optimist?
A guy with a sun visor on his rain hat.

What did the Seattle native say to the Pillsbury Doughboy?
Nice tan.


Okay, so maybe it does rain as much as people think.I don't know though, when it's not raining we have a lot of cloud coverage. Even when it's warm out, there's those damned clouds, trapping in all that terrible sticky heat. We can't even have dry heat, it's all about humidity here. The worse part though, by far, is the yo-yo affect. For instance, last week it was relatively warm and sunny. I even opened up my windows and screen doors. Yesterday, though, it was cloudy, rainy, and freezing. No wonder my bones and joints ache!
May 21, 2013 at 7:33pm
May 21, 2013 at 7:33pm
#783174
"The time has come," the Walrus said,
"To talk of many things:
Of shoes--and ships--and sealing-wax--
Of cabbages--and kings--
And why the sea is boiling hot--
And whether pigs have wings."

The Walrus and The Carpenter by Lewis Carroll
(From Through the Looking-Glass and What Alice Found There, 1872)


I'm not really sure what to blog about, but I figured I'd go ahead and jump on the bandwagon and join in the blogging efforts throughout WDC. If anyone wants to jump in and add my blog to their watch list, I'd be happy to reciprocate. I suspect a lot of babbling may ensue! *Smile*

My daughter Rosalie Octavia   is turning seven months old tomorrow, so I figured this would be a good time to talk a little bit about her.



This is a pretty accurate photo of how Rosalie is. She's full of trouble already!


Rosalie enjoys My Little Pony...


...and really digs Care Bears!


I'm always amazed at her attention; she's a very focused infant.


She has many Dr. Seuss friends and likes it when Mommy reads the books to her.


Rosalie is a cuddle-bug and knows when 'ni-ni' time is. She is an excellent sleeper, thank goodness!



*Bullet* She has two teeth, right on the bottom, and she likes to use them for gnawing on just about everything.
*Bullet* Her hair is strawberry-blonde and gaining curls.
*Bullet* Her eyes are an amazing blue and they're big, bright, and cheerful!
*Bullet* She is such a ham; she's adorable and she knows it. She poses for pictures and will smile on command.
*Bullet* There are many ticklish spots, including her sides, armpits, neck, and cheeks.
*Bullet* She has feet, and likes to grab things with them, swing them around, hug them, and lick her toes.
*Bullet* When Daddy comes home, she sing-songs "Dadadadddadaddadaa!" but recently has said "Momma" on purpose.
*Bullet* She rocks pink, vivid colors, and pretty much anything girly.


Rosalie makes me feel like the luckiest person alive. It's like when you meet your other half; you simply cannot imagine what life would be like if fate hadn't brought you two together. Well, that's how I feel about my daughter. Regardless of what's going on, she always makes me feel important, grateful, happy, lucky, and special. I am so fortunate to have such a sweetie-pie. After years of struggle, she's finally here, just like that. It was meant to be!


So, this blog entry is dedicated to my darling daughter. This one's for you, baby-girl! Mommy and Daddy love you! *Heart*



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