Since I really don't know what I am doing I should hope someone would pull me aside and say, "Hippie chick, you are too old for what's going on in here so get out?"
Before I get out I see in my eyes what you are trying to show me through your redocorating because I plan to do the same. I need coloring. I have paneling and it's all a dark color in a log cabin like decorating style then you can do more than I can. I want to see it. I to someone's beautiful house the other day. They took a lot of their old stuff and had it reframed it brought out the faded color of the painting. Like our lives need color. You are a great communicator when it comes to telling us what you want. There's no need for a picture cause you painted it for me. Good job