I wouldn't mind reading the 50 shades books but I know they are awful. It's main pitch is sexuality and not classical either. I don't mind reading the whole trilogy but I want books with more substance than that.

I think there is more to a relationship, a real one, then sex, power and a feeling of financial security. The problem is that people like to barter sex and power too much. I don't think marriage at least not all are associated with money and sex or the feeling of security. I do actually believe in liking someone and marrying them for conversations and other goodies regardless of sex and power. But of course there will be men and women who marry for power and sex and there might always be these kinds of people. However, we must really appreciate our partners regardless of the money and sex they bring us after all marriage is more than an influence of power it is an union between two souls who have found deep meanings in each other be it linked to religious, spiritual, conversational and well friendly gestures and acts.

Oh come on! Everyone likes boy bands and their husband's pillow!

*starts humming "Show Me The Meaning"* Holy crap, I think I just dated myself here. No one cares I listened to that 10 years ago, right?