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Celebrating the Life of Our Wonderful Friend,    ~Lyle~  Sticky, because you were so wonderful, and so many loved you, you won a Quill Award last night! This issue of Shadows Express  and the new website design are dedicated to our mentor Sticktalker  . We hope you will drop by and listen to the tribute poem, The Hourglass , written by HuntersMoon - Gone4Awhile  While you are there be sure to subscribe.Lyle's family would like to share this link with everyone: http://www.writing.com/main/redirect.php?redirect_url=http://www.legacy.com/g... The local newspaper also did a write-up on Lyle here: http://www.andersonvalleypost.com/news/2012/jan/10/amlin-73-loses-battle-cancer/...  Click below to read: Tribute to Lyle Plaque by Hannah-Paper Doll Gang  from the whole Gang.Tribute written by Myst~Congratulates PDG grads   A special thank you to: Lyle's daughter Kim & family, Storymaster, Kiya and the Angel Army, and the original creator, Stomper, of "White Case Memorial" for making Lyle a White Case.  Sticktalker  Bio:I'm a retired newspaper journalist and long time SF reader working on a novel series titled "West World Rising" set in the late Roman Republic. Journalist never can get "ink" out of their blood and I have just taken on the responsibility of editing the PDG's Shadows Express-- "Shadows Express Home Page" . I am a "Rising Star" member where my sponsor is Hannah-Paper Doll Gang .Retired newspaper publisher and printer. Married to same woman since 1962. Started writing in 8th Grade, got serious 3 years ago and joined WDC and began learning new prose writing skills needed to turn out something besides crud. Working on a novel series now that's tons of fun. When not writing or in the chat room I play in the dirt at the community garden where we raise food for our local food bank. A poem by Lyle: A Poem Of Love One can love in many different ways: The love for a wonderful spouse, Your own child or a favorite dress. It can be for a hidden fishing spot, A tiny lake reflecting a mountain top, Or even the love for a hunting dog. One can even love their home, But the saddest thing I think Is when you fail to love at all Also see: "Sticktalker's Autobiography" & "Dear Me - II" . ~~~~Click below to read: A Daughter's Tribute ~~~~The StoryMaster  Dear Lyle, Thank you for many great years on Writing.Com. We'll never forget your help and input in our "Writing.Com 101" , which will continue to bear your footnote long into the future. Wishing you all the best in the forever after. Always, ~~SM ~~~~Hannah-Paper Doll Gang ~ Hannah's remembrances of Lyle: You always made me smile, no matter how down I was! Smiling up at you now, Lyle~I first met Lyle when he signed up for the very first class of Dolls, and little did I know that he would become a Jr. Leader in just days, then a Sr. Leader by month's end, and eventually my Co-Leader of the Gang, before he even graduated! I just had to have him as my Rising Star as his writing style really appealed to me. I wrote him this letter a long time ago in thanks: "Lyle, Sticktalker, Sticky to me." . Lyle loved newbies, and he worked tirelessly to help them succeed by creating many helpful items: "Articles for WDC members" , I especially loved his "OMG, I CAN'T REVIEW!" . which is so typical of his great sense of humor! Here's a little letter he wrote to the newbies:Sticky's letter to newbies I asked Lyle to write a graduation speech, and I shall always treasure it! Lyle's Graduation Speech Not only did Lyle share his love with newbies, but when our mutual friend, Cissy, became too ill to run the "The First Peoples' Home Page" , I took it over, and Lyle became my right-hand-man, creating many items to help make the tribe run smooth. He dove right in, and even went to a sweat lodge! "Sweat Lodge experience" Besides his love of newbies, Lyle was working on a novel, "West World Rising," which WinnieKay  has graciously offered to edit for his family, in the hopes of having it published posthumously. His other "BABY" was "Shadows Express Home Page" , which Lyle took over and revamped in Myst~Congratulates PDG grads 's, the original creator's, absence. "Birth of an e-zine" . He poured his heart and soul into our gang's e-zine, and was so excited with the release of each addition. He was as equally happy to see others published as he was for his own self. That's just the kind of unselfish guy he was.Lyle was generous-to-a-fault; nearly every single GP he earned was poured right back into our gang! When I first started the Dolls, I had dial-up, and not enough RAM, so Sticky spent $40, and mailed me 2 giga-bytes! Then I finally got high-speed Internet, and we shared many a laugh as I kept telling him, "I'm Fast! I'm really FAST!"  Of course, he knew that was all the more time I'd have to find more work for him! This image was our private joke about it: Lyle is still with us, and smiling down as he just won 25% of the "Novel Witing: 101 Raffle" on a ticket I purchased for him. The funds will go to the Dolls, or maybe even to his daughter, Kim, who is considering joining our gang! That will be like having a little piece of Sticky! In parting, I would like to offer my personal condolences to his wonderful Elaine, Kim and Family, Lyle was so blessed to be surrounded by beautiful, caring and loving people like you. I thank you for taking the time to e-Mail me when all of you were hurting. I am so glad he had all of you to comfort him in his last days. May God bless all of you, and give you strength and courage to endure this sorrow, until you are reunited. If you need to hear Lyle's voice, it is forever present in his wonderful reviews: "Dad's Reviews" . And since Lyle appreciated a good laugh, here's a little humorous tale, starring Sticky: "Sticky Saves the Day" .Good-bye, my dear friend, but only for a short while~Hannah~  ~~~~Myst~Congratulates PDG grads On December 30th, the world grew a little darker. A great light had gone out, and we all feel the loss. Lyle gave so much of himself to so many people though, and it will not stay dim for long. A spark will ignite when a fellow chattie helps a newcomer, in the spirit that Lyle showed so generously. A glow will develop as a writer finds his/her feet and begins submitting their work, a goal Sticktalker encouraged in all. A blaze will illuminate when someone reaches out to embrace and mentor others. Before long, the world will be a better, brighter place, and all because of the wonderful legacy he has left. I will not miss him, for I will carry his wisdom, his generosity, his compassion in my heart and actions for the rest of my life. I will do everything in my power to spread the light. ~~~~HuntersMoon - Gone4Awhile I first met Lyle (affectionately known as "Sticky" - probably because once you knew him, he stuck with you no matter what ) when I came to this site. In fact, we were members of the first class of the Paper Dolls. We became founding members of "the lab rats" as we were both experimented on by Hannah as she put us through that first edition of what has become our WDC home! Sticky's Lab rat image:  What became immediately and imminently clear was that Sticky was a man of integrity, great humor, and above all - compassion. He was the first to volunteer a helping hand, whether it was for a project or to offer his insight for making the PDG better, or simply to encourage someone to not give up. This was his creed and, in the end, he "walked the walk." I, for one, have lost a friend and a brother. I will miss his active support and encouragement but I know he will still be there, reviewing each word and telling me to reach beyond my own self imposed limitations. He is not gone, only absent until we meet again. I look forward to being in his new "newbie" group
With appreciation and affection ... Ken ~~~~Gabriella  "A true friendship is a field sown with love that we harvest with thanksgiving." (Kahil Gibran} How inspiring it is to read all of these beautifully written tributes to Lyle's generosity, true friendships, and remarkable capabilities that live on in the many wonderful writers he helped and encouraged here on W.Com ! I loved the occasional email conversations we enjoyed. What started as a simple note to check in, inevitably turned into a lively conversation covering the waterfront. Lyle gave me helpful tips, attempted to introduce me to group chats, and talked cheerfully about the everyday goings-on in his life...It was a delight to have one of these special communications with him now and then. He was upbeat and a joy to talk with--even in this limited way  I have an image of him which turned out to be a perfect match with his photo, which I saw for the first time just last week. He was strong, capable, kind and compassionate. You can see that in his eyes. He was an impressive friend and a very fine man. How fortunate we were to have him here with us. I smile, thinking of Lyle standing at Heaven's pearly gates, welcoming the newbies one by one ! A bientot, dear Lyle.... Gab~~~~Cissy-  My dear friend "Sticky" Lyle, I was so sad to hear of your passing. You kept me going many days when I thought I had had enough. In your friendly and stubborn way... you would tell me that I still had writing left to do! DO NOT GIVE UP ! I consider myself very blessed to have known you. Thank you for all of your encouragement, kind words, and respect as well as your wisdom in our little group of The First Peoples Group. You were an asset to our group very much needed as well as welcomed. It was a sad day when I had to leave here for a long while due to health problems and the group had to eventually close. I will hold dear the picture you emailed to me of your Native American Sticktalker.  .Anyone who had the pleasure of knowing you will agree....that we all lost a wonderful person with so many titles that.... I can only sum them all up to be.... " OUR WDC BRIGHT ANGEL " Your sense of humor was out of this world and I really loved your honestly. You will always be in my heart... a true friend until my end. Love Cissy ~~~~Bonnie ♡PDG Grad Party  These past few months I have been praying along with my fellow dolls, for our dear friend and mentor, Sticktalker on the 30 December, God took him home... I will miss him. I have missed him these past few months.I offer my sincerest condolences to Elaine, Kim and the rest of the family. Lyle always had a lovely story or two to tell about his wonderful family. My favorite has to be how he chose his handle. 'My wife says if I had no one to chat to, I'd pick up a stick and chat away to that.' I was his bestest chat buddy, he told me so. Many a giggle we had in whisper. We giggled over his epic fails, which were many. Lyle was naturally friendly and took a keen interest in all who came into chat. I am very proud of all he did for the dolls and on WDC in general. He had a huge heart for people. Many on this site can speak of his generosity of spirit and his wonderful humor. Lyle surprised me, with this lovely sig, for my first WDC birthday in September. I will treasure it always.  My abiding memory will be of his last visit to chat. He met Silonch and signed her up for the PDG. A true doll to the end. Lyle, my bud, I will miss you, but know your vision and memory shall last on WDC. You taught me so much. Goodbye dear friend. With Love Bonnie:) ~~~~A.T.B: back mid June  I'm sad to say I only crossed paths with Lyle a couple of times, but each is remembered with fondness and a grin. He has left an amazing legacy that will not soon be forgotten. In gearing up for The Quills, perhaps my highest priority is always "In Memoriam" , honoring the loved ones we've lost. I've recently added the following quote into the "Overview" section found therein. This photograph will be on his unique tribute page. Photography is a passion of mine; each of the photos within In Memoriam are ones I've taken, and each is dedicated specially to our dear friends who've passed away. I feel that in giving of my love I honor the love of which they gave so freely. Selection from "My Summer As a Dog" Mommie reached down and patted my head, “Nice Rusty, good doggie.” And she went off doing whatever it is mommies do when they aren’t attending to washing or ironing or cooking or petting dogs. Off and on for the rest of that Summer I took up the persona of ‘Rusty’. I’d only talk dog language; I wouldn’t even answer adults unless they called me ‘Rusty’. Years later, after I married my wife and we had kids, I remembered being “Rusty” and I started searching through kids’ books at garage sales. I found a couple of the old Rusty books and bought ‘em. I said they were for our youngsters but, really, they were for me. Memories, you know what I mean? I know just whatcha mean, Sticky. Bless you, m' friend. Drew ~~~~SHERRI G ♥ SP ♥  Lyle and I met at the Paper Doll Group and my group, Simply Positive. His reviews were honest and encouraging, and he became a dear friend of mine from the beginning. He will always hold a special place in my heart. I know he is sleeping with the angels and suffering no more. ~~~~WinnieKay I’d like to share with you my first encounter with Sticktalker, and perhaps give you a glimpse of this man’s rare tell-it-like-it-is personality. Lyle seemed to have an opinion about everything, even commas. I met Lyle in January 2010 when he enrolled in my first Comma Class which I teach for New Horizons here at WDC. I had just “volunteered” to take over the class, and I was a bit nervous about teaching on-line. Then when I realized that I had a retired journalist and newspaper publisher in my class, I really began to panic. Sticky wasn’t your average student. He didn’t just study the comma placement rules and go do his homework like a good boy. No—Sticky had to know WHY you had to use a comma for non-essential elements. “Who said so?” he would ask. If I asked him to give me the Comma Rule number for not using a comma here or there, he would argue the logic of this. On one occasion, his exact words (I dug this out of my archives) were: I guess I fail to see any rule here that requires a comma, therefore, there IS no rule that applies. Sorry, but that's the way I see it. It's like saying, "I think I can swim in this pool because there is no sign saying NO SWIMMING ALLOWED IN POOL." That, of course, doesn't make any sense at all. Neither does having to find a rule for NOT using a comma. So, okay, I simply told him I understood his logic, and I went on with my teaching, a bit rattled, to say the least. When I explained to the students that, in my class, they were required to use the optional serial comma—that’s the one before the “and” in a series of elements—Lyle said he couldn’t do that. He said he was a newspaper man, and they didn’t use serial commas in newspapers. Oh boy, I thought. What have I gotten myself into? I came to admire Lyle’s refreshing, delightful honesty, and we quickly became friends. Over the next two years, we bantered back and forth about grammar and punctuation. Soon, he became my mentor and advisor in the editing business. He encouraged me to grasp a dream that I thought was out of reach. When he entrusted his book, West World Rising, to me for editing as my first customer, I was honored and touched by his kindness. Of course, Sticky didn’t agree with ALL my editing advice. He had his own opinion. After all, this is Lyle we are talking about. I must have done something right because he asked me to be on the staff of Shadows Express. He said he needed someone to check the serial commas. Thanks, Lyle, for teaching me to believe in myself. I will miss our debates, your charming opinions about punctuation, and your friendship. You may have laid your keyboard to rest, but your inspiration will live on.  ~~~~iKïyå§ama  You will be missed by so many in the writing community, Lyle. You were a symbol of excellence in so many ways, and we hope your legacy continues with the words you have blessed us with. Rest in Peace. ~~~~Karen  New Horizons Academy sends condolences to the friends and family of Sticktalker .~~~~Ѽeb~Ѽitch  Lyle, you were unique, personable, tireless and always friendly. You leave quite a big footprint here on WDC. That footprint will be permanently retired, for no other could fill it. God bless your family at this sad and difficult time. I know you are at peace with the Lord and still managing to send a little "magic dust" from above to all of us here who knew and loved you. It hits us every time we stop and think about you and it fills the little hole left in our hearts because of your passing. You were one amazing man! Rest in peace, dear one. Web~Witch ~~~~Meeple's on haitus, mostly  I was lucky enough to be in the first class of Paper Dolls with Lyle (AKA Sticktalker). He was a wonderful friend to have, always encouraging, always positive - even in his critiques and suggestions. I appreciate that he was always willing to answer silly questions or read over something in need of proofing even though I know he was really busy with both Dolls things and off-line. I did not know he was sick. If I had known that I wouldn't be seeing him again I would have made sure to let him know how important he was to me...to all of us. I would have given him one last ((hug)) or sent him a merit badge for positivity. He was a rock...and I didn't know how important that rock was until it suddenly disappeared. I'll miss him, and I will keep his family and friends in my prayers. For, as important as he was on-line, I can only imagine what grief a loss like his is causing in his physical world. Bless you, Sticktalker. Rest in Peace, Lyle ~~~~Ghostranch  I first met Sticktalker when he joined the Paper Doll Gang. I was running the poetry contest and although I know Lyle didn’t consider himself a poet, he seemed to throw himself into the challenge whole-heartedly, which I really appreciated. I will remember him fondly as a kind, friendly and polite person, who was always willing to give help whenever and wherever it was needed. He was a true gentleman. ~~~~jimminy  I have known Lyle, A.K.A. ‘Sticky’, to be someone who would willingly offer kind words of advice. Lyle wasn’t afraid to tell me when he disagreed with me, but even then, he did so with great kindness. In his wisdom, he knew everyone must go their own way; everyone would do whatever they must do. It saddens me that he won’t be here but I believe he has a place in Heaven. God bless you and yours, Lyle. ~~~~Phoenix  I met Lyle during my Newbie class of PDG. I had briefly emailed him during my application process, but it was when my pal dropped out of our class that I really got to know him. He and I were paired up for a couple of challenges, and during each of those I got to know him quite well. I was instantly struck by both his frankness and dedication. It was November of 2009 and Lyle was doing his first Nano, and his commitment to that process was so intense that he would get up at four in the morning to do some of his writing. That level of dedication tells me so much about Lyle, and I'm not surprised at all that he finished his book. Several other occasions brought us together, but it was those pairings that left the biggest impression on me. Here are the links to the two items me and my pal created: "Introduction of Sticktalker" and "Dolls in the Fire" .I will miss you, my friend. Kim ~~~~Scarecrow  I first met Lyle (aka Sticktalker) during the very first class of the PDG of which we were both students. Even through our limited correspondance, I always noticed how his youthful and vibrant charisma fairly jumped out of the screen at me, and found myself feeling a sense of cheerfulness just by seeing a new message from him in my Inbox. Always there to offer a hand in so many different ways, and always gladly welcoming criticism of his work ( even from an un-accomplished whipper-snapper such as myself), I think Sticky was the epitome of what the Paper Dolls, and even the WDC is all about, which is why his passing comes as such a blow. So farewell to you Lyle, you will be greatly missed and never replaced. Scarecrow ~~~~Christina~save my membership? I got to know Lyle through PDG. Once in 2009 when I opted for a leader position and Lyle helped me out with the proceedings and second time last year with the Rockin' Review class that I opened. Both the time, he helped me encouragingly, coming to my rescue each time and with a great sense of humor. I looked forward to receiving his mails and bantering with him back and forth. He helped me edit a piece of my writing for which I am eternally thankful. I wish I could have known him better and had more time to talk to him. I remember wondering when he left Shadows that why did he do it. But I guess I know now. I hope he is happy in Heaven and perhaps God wanted some of that great humor for himself to have taken him so early. I miss you Lyle. Christina ~~~~JOY-on LOA Returning from vacation with family on the 1st, I said hello to the new year and goodbye to an old friend. My heart hurts for Lyle's family as they deal with the loss of such an amazing man. But even as I mourn his passing, I cannot help but smile in knowing how many countless lives he has touched, including my own. My introduction to him came in the form of an invitation to join the Dolls a few years back. At first, I was intimidated. His questions were scary ! But then, even through the barrier that internet chat can present, I began to sense the twinkle in his eye and the compassion behind his brutal honesty. By the end of our first conversation, I was breathless from laughter. To conclude the "interview", he asked me..."Why haven't you asked my age?" to which I replied, "Because it doesn't matter to me." He laughed and said, "Good, because you will be working with a 70 year old geezer. I hope you can handle it." *Pthb* He blatantly refused to review any of my work until I had won my first contest, and when he finally did, he wasn't afraid to point out which parts were crap. LOL! But then, in his special way, he gently told me WHY they were crap and taught me how to fix it. I have learned more from that one review than I can even express. The points he made have been passed on to many others as I do my own reviews. Each time I was published, he congratulated me heartily while still encouraging me to keep working harder. It was an honor to be on the Shadows Express team under his leadership. Lyle was my mentor and friend and we are all a part of his legacy. I pray that special memories of him will ease the heartache of having to temporarily say goodbye. ~Joy ~~~~Puja- 3 Years on WDC! I met Sticktalker when I joined Paper Doll group as a newbie. He was very helpful and great as a classmate. Later, by the time we finished the term, he was a good friend and guide. Whenever I was confused about the publishers or the publishing process, I would mail Sticktalker for his opinion. He would reply promptly with lots of research and then I took my decision. Many times he saved me from accepting wrong publishers. So, he has always been a mentor for me! Below is a quote from one of his emails; "What it looks like is they have written these books, which are illustrated heavily by local children in elementary schools in a number of small towns in their area, paid to have 1,000 copies printed and then are peddling them for $18.75 each and then donating $1.75 toward several local non-profit organizations. I did a search via google on their "Publishing House" name as well as googles on their names and the publishing house, and found ONLY the seven books they have written...no one elses. Now, I'm not saying that this is a con at all (in fact it looks like a real money-maker for them ... I'm guessing that 1000 copies of a four color 8.5x11 booklet done on a color laser printer can be produced for maybe $2,000, and if they sold all 1000 copies at $18.75 that would be $18,000 in sales with a net profit of about $14,000." I am very thankful to him. I have had a couple of sessions with him online when he was training me for Shadows Express Circulation Manager. It was for about an hour each. He was a great tutor. I really miss him. One more last thing, I hope it is not too silly.  From the beginning I had an image for Sticktalker in my mind and a voice too. My son watches Nick Jr and there is a voice of a character, "Moose. A. Moose" (An elderly/ intellectual voice). Whenever moose speaks I feel that is sticktalker's voice. So, every time I hear moose's voice I still remember Sticktalker. The voice may not match his at all, It's just my feeling. I apologize to his family members if I have hurt their feelings. I just wanted to share.. I pray for his family! Puja ~~~~ShelleyA ~ 4000+ Reviews given Lyle was such a good leader and mentor in the Paper Doll Gang. I met him when I first joined the PDG, and he was so helpful and caring. He listened to my concerns at a time when I didn't really know anyone at WDC.com. He was always upbeat and ready to help us, whether Newbie or a long time member. He had a kind heart which many of us flourished under. He helped us grow and stretched us in our writing skills. We learned much from his example. He will truly be missed. Shelley ~~~~Miz Kitty It is with great sorrow of heart to hear of Lyle passing. I had come to Writing.com before Lyle had joined, I encouraged him to come in. We were friends a long time back, along with us working on a book he thought of writing, but got so busy in here with all going on. Makes me smile, it was his thing for sure. My love and respect for the help he offered me in my writing. God Bless Him and His family. Marie L. Tibbetts Miz Kitty He gave me that name, smiling. ~~~~Ashley Daeschlein Thanks for all you did to welcome me to WdC and the Paper Doll Gang, Lyle! I will miss you. Ashley ~~~~Sandy~HopeWhisperer  I can only repeat all the wonderful comments left in this forum for Lyle (Sticky to me). He helped me so much when we were members of The First People's Tribe. I'm sure he and Hannah shouted many a time, "What does Sandy want now?" Both helped me with articles and forums. Sticky taught a class on how to use MLWriting at WDC. He was tireless in helping me understand how to use this invaluable tool. He read and rated and assisted with my writing and ideas. He taught me how to navigate WDC better and how to use chat. He was a mentor, an instructor, an author, best of all, he was a beloved friend. See you in heaven, Sticky! My prayers are with his family and Kim we at WDC hope you will opt to also become part of this family as well. With Love, Sandy ~~~~PLScholl2 (A.K.A. Pepper) When I joined the staff of ShadowsExpress, I had no idea how blessed I would be by my friendship with Stick. He took me under his wing -- providing guidance, support, encouragement and even constructive criticism when needed. He was truly gifted with the ability to mentor others, and he used that gift generously. So thank you, Lyle - for the many lives you have touched professionally and personally. I will miss you! Pepper ~~~~Finn O'Flaherty I met Sticktalker before I joined the dolls, he gave me some great advice on a story I had written for a competition. I was really pleased to meet him again at the Paper Doll Gang. He has been so encouraging and given great advice. I wish I could have got to know him even better. I wish you luck on your journey Lyle and may the angels be smiling with you. God bless. Fin You will be greatly missed. ~~~~Bikerider  I met Lyle during one of the PDG graduation exercises. After that we met regularly in the chat room to discuss many topics related to writing. I once helped him iron-out a police procedure item he was writing. I was impressed that he asked me to help him with that because he once told me he roomed with a police officer when he was a reporter. When Lyle became editor of the PDG Shadow's Express he contacted me to submit a few stories. I didn't believe my stories were good enough for this but he said he had scoured my port and wanted to include two of the stories he read there. He helped me polish a couple of pieces, then he put them in the express. I was thrilled that he had picked me to submit. I wrote and told him I owed him big time for that. He replied telling me I didn't owe him anything, it was his pleasure to have helped me...and that was Sticktalker, in a nutshell. Always willing to help. I'll miss Lyle in the chatroom, and I'll miss reading his writing. It was said by someone that the only thing you take with you when you leave this world is the love you leave behind. I'd say he took plenty with him when he left. Rest in peace, Lyle. You'll never be forgotten by those of us whose life you touched. Angelo ~~~~jannie one seven What most reminds me of Stick are those he befriended here, coffee and Spanish. He... always used to try a hand at Spanish in chat - I, though I loved Spanish and studied it for a while, was never quite sure of their meanings, but it was fun guessing. I can't remember a time in chat when he wouldn't leave for coffee - he always had his own instant before a proper cup was made. His positivity and honesty and genuine appreciation for all, I can never forget. He was a wonderful friend to have. I'm honoured to have known him. Stick was the nicest person on WDC. He was ...good and kind and generous. Everything he said and did was heartfelt. Stick was the nicest person I knew. He made this sig for me, when I became a Jr. Leader in the gang: **Image Unavailable** ~~~~PatrickB-new biz with MissBee I just finished writing a review for Ken's excellent Villanelle poem "The Hourglass" that he wrote for Lyle. I had been getting together in my mind what I was going to say about Lyle, and as I read the poem and wrote the review, I realized that what I said in the review is exactly what I wanted to say. Because I want to feature a link to Ken's Villanelle in my response, I will just link the review so that those reading can enjoy the poem for themselves as they read my comments. Here is the review: Review of "The Hourglass"  Goodbye Lyle. You touched a lot of people, here, including me. Wherever you are, write us up a quick "eye-on-the-scene" story and be sure the lead is a gooser! PatrickB-new biz with MissBee  ~~~~Yuuyake :I had only gotten the opportunity to talk to Lyle a little bit. I was extremely shocked to hear the news. He was always positive in the chatroom where I first met him and it showed that he had a passion for writing. I feel as if I have lost an opportunity to get to know a great member of WDC and PDG. I hope his family is well and I will always take to heart the advice he gave me when I first met him. That was just the kind of person he seemed to me. ~~~~Ali ~ novel planning Like many of the newer PDG members, I did not have the opportunity to get to know Lyle as much as I would have liked. Despite this, I was always aware of his presence and the massive amount of work he did to help keep the gears of our group turning. Just the amount of effort he put into running our ezine, Shadows, is proof of this; each issue is a tribute to his dedication to helping others succeed in their writing goals. Lyle had a goal of his own: to publish a novel. I hope one day I get a chance to read it. Until then, I am comforted by the fact that the dolls will continue on his legacy of helping one another grow as writers. Rest in peace, Lyle. You will be missed. Ali ~~~~Breaker ~A Vigilante Ranger~  Remembering Lyle:  Dear Lyle, Elaine, family and friends, I do not have any words today to convey how I grieve at your loss. My deep prayers and thoughts are always there with you and especially your family and friends during these hard times. Your loving memories will always be cherished deep in my heart. Remember that I love and care about you very much, mentor! May your soul rest forever in peace! Metu, your lonely PDG newbie.I first met Sticktalker here at WDC on the 9th of May, last year. He first wrote an email to me, asking me to consider joining PDG, in fact, it could help me in navigating WDC and stuffs and to learn more about the writing skills. I did what he told me and from that time, he became my guider, my friend, the storyteller to me who later becomes my mentor of PDG and continues his support to me until the 30th of December, the day he had passed away, leaving me in the sea of heartbreak. Lyle, you will always be missed here at WDC and PDG, but we can’t forget about you, especially me, your newbie. Your pictures, your Yahoo address, and the book you sent to me in a brown hard cover with your handwriting and signature on it. I will always be my treasure and will be a remembrance of you. Your thoughts and opinions will always forever in my mind. I will miss your emails and will also miss your jokes at the chat-room. I won’t get your slang words again, mentor! Today, I’m going to give you a cup of Arbuckle's once again, proving that you’re an Ace high who always give me A hog-killing'’ time. Which no one could ever replace his place in my mind. I miss you, my friend! Thank you for being my friend and mentor. Thank you for giving me constructive private reviews. Thank you for editing some of my items. Thank you for teaching me the English language. Thank you for telling me stories of your life. Thank you for sending me an English useful book. Thank you for teaching me how to review. Thank you for encouraging me. And thank you for everything. It's you the reason why I changed to yellow case. I owe you so much, Lyle and I can't ever ever forget all the things that have told me. We still have many things to do as you told me, but do not worry about them. You're done and your tired, and that's the reason why the angels from above came by and take you to your rest place. I'm sorry for making you mad in some of my reviews to other authors. My biggest apology to you for not comforting you in your last days. I'M SO SORRY! Lyle, I’ll be there with you soon, so POOF! I'm happy because you're now in your real place. Go well in there. ~~Metu Key Arbuckle’s—slang words for coffee Ace high—first class/respected person A hog-killin’ time— a real good time. POOF-- the word Lyle used to say goodbye before left the chat-room. Above are some of the slang words I used with him when we're in the chat-room. ~~~~Lyle, I'll miss you. Peace. Giselle ~~~~Purple Star Jr. Leader  I am told Lyle would have liked me. But I never got the chance to know him. I am sorry for all of you who lost a friend. The time has come for us to say good bye to you. I knew you only had a little longer. You were getting tired. I would watch you in that and say to myself that is not you. You were a man would loved life and now you are so still. You worked hard for us you provided well. It is time now you can go. We will miss you and always love you. You will be free in heaven again no more sickness. Time to say good bye now the circle has closed for you my friend. The cycle of your life is complete. Heaven has a new Angel. We will miss you. I wrote this for my dad who passed 10 years ago. Take Care Everyone, Cath ~~~~Bird♥ I will miss you even though I didn't get to talk to you much.... Stick was always one to help everyone out....I admire that about him.... It was always an interesting chat when I would find him in the wdc chatrooms. If I could I would tell you..... You were right...I was wrong..... :) He knows what im talking about :) RIP ~~~~Liam  I never met or had very much interaction with Sticktalker. But I do know that a good measure of a man is reflected in those that respected and loved him. It's easy to see that he was a man of great worth who will be sorely missed. Liam ~~~~WhoMe???  You will be missed my friend. ~~~~janice48 Enjoying Nice Weather  I send my deepest condolence and prayers to Lyle's family. May God help you get through this very trying time. Lyle will always be remembered. He was a fantastic man, and helped everyone on WDC!! Gone but not forgotten!! R.I.P Lyle!! ~~~~Rose Montgomery I've been logging on to chat for almost a year now. Sticktalker was one of the first chatters I met. I remember how kind he was that first day when I stopped in, talking to me and answering my questions about the chat system. I had been nervous about using chat, and one of the reasons I stayed online was because I knew there were good people on there. Thanks for that, sticky. He was a good guy with a kind word for everyone and could always make me laugh (usually at my, or someone else's expense *). You will be missed dearly by all of your friends on chat.~Rose ~~~~Lottie--The Reviled Stickly Dear, you were ever the gentleman. Your warmth is legendary and your wit unforgettable. I remember when you told me you weren't going to live forever, I didn't know how to console you; but you weren't asking for consolation--you were preparing me. Even in your time of need, you put my needs--everyone's needs--before your own. You were the epitome of selflessness and gallantry...and you know what else? I didn't see a thing I could fix when you sent me those novel chapters; they were pristine.  We'll all miss our classiest chattie. ~~~~Amy When you write a memorial for someone, you usually write about things you remember about the person, but Sticktalker was a great man who will be hard to forget. Leader, mentor, friend, family. You were so many things to so many different people, but to me, you were all of these. I have learned so much from you in the short couple years I have known you, and those lessons I will always cherish. You were hillarious, and whether you tried or not, ( failed whispers anyone?) you always managed to put a smile on everyone's face. You maybe gone, but you will never be forgotten. xoxo Sticky. ~~~~Neon Cave Paintings Where do I begin? I'm not sure there is a proper place to begin because all I can do is cycle through all my memories of him and try my hardest not to be sad. But then I remember that there was never anything he'd ever said to me that could warrant my being sad. Indeed, his conversations often brightened my days. The last time I talked to him he told me he was sick--he told me he was at peace with his fate and I couldn't help thinking that I hope when my time comes that I'll be just as mature and just as graceful. I have grown as a writer and as a person as per his friendship and advice. For all that he did for me, I will never forget him.  Keaton ~~~~Zoe Well, where to begin... Sticky's death came as a huge shock to me and still does today. I've been so busy with RL and away from WDC, to even know he was unwell. I wish I could have spoken to him sooner, before he left this world. I'll always cherish our memories. I was Sticky's 'fav aussie gal' his greetings always made me smile. He was one of the first 'chatties' I ever met and definitely one of the most memorable. Back as a newbie, Sticky helped me feel welcome and showed me the ropes of WDC. We shared many jokes and he taught me a lot about America and I him about Australia. It is truly amazing how close you can be to someone you have never met in person. We also had some very serious conversations, I loved his versatility. I remember, the first time we spoke, ever the gentleman, sticky asked if his age was an issue. I guess he assumed that being older automatically made him a 'creep'. Well, he was the opposite. I quickly replied that age was only a number. I'll never regret that. He was always quick to share a virtual coffee and I will always think of him when I make my coffees, now. Sticky wasn't only a friend to me, he was my mentor - in life as much as writing. I know for a fact that I wouldn't be who I am today, or published, without having him in my life. His advice and vast knowledge helped me through many struggles. I can't express how much I am going to miss him. I'm sad, yes, my heart is broken. But, I can just imagine him looking down on me and telling me that it's okay. He wouldn't want me to be upset. So, all I can do now is cherish the moments I shared with this wonderful, beautiful and kind hearted man. I'm so privileged to have known you, Sticky. I hope you are content and being treated as well as you deserve, wherever you are. The coffee better be damn good. I love you, Stick. Life just won't be the same without you. I look forward to the day we can meet again. My deepest sympathy and condolences to Sticky's family. He always spoke so fondly of you all. Zoe. ~~~~drboris Lyle, I am going to miss your friendship and wise advice. You have left us all with some big shoes to fill, but we'll do our best, just as you would want. Hooroo mate, Ian ~~~~LLC- PDG Newbie! I have read most of the wonderful postings here, and I keep seeing, 'When I first met Stick, it was in the PDG Class." I, much to my regret, never had the time to sign up for it, although I would like to think Lyle would have loved to see me there. No, the first time I met Lyle, was one of my very first days in chat. I'd never been in a group chat such as the one on WdC before, so you can imagine how nervous I was. But Lyle was always there making some joke or giving someone -anyone, including myself, including the oldest members of WdC that come into chat- a helping hand. Occasionally a lecture, even, although that too was in good nature with a wish to help. I only ever saw him get mad once, once in nearly a year of chat. Lyle, or sticker as I often called him for no other reason than it was originally a typo, was always encouraging me to do things I normally wouldn't have- he was the reason I got published in the Shadows Express. He made some die-laughing jokes, but even if it was, as Rose said, at someone's expense(even my own) he was just the kind of person that you knew was joking, who you knew was only saying 'You're great,' in his own way. I dearly wish I had gotten to know Lyle better, as I, unlike most of the people here, I only knew him for what feels like a few short months. I also wish he was here to see all this amazing gratitude and love, although I like to think that in a way he is, and I'd bet he knew all of this before he was taken to a more peaceful place, which I am sure he is loving. And even if there is a ton more he could have taught me, I learned a lot from him and will never forget it, the same way I will never forget you, Lyle.  and lots of Nicole~ or pooh, as I was known for the most part to Lyle ~~~~Dawn☆Embers  I remember Stick from a couple of years ago, back when I was more active in Chat on here. His case sticks out when I think of those times because he was always a joy to talk to and everyone happily greeted him whenever he entered Chat. My memory is fading but I do remember that Stick was one of the most wonderful members of Chat and will always have a memory of fondness surrounding his username. He will be greatly missed. ~~~~Blue-Inspired Like many others, I met Sticktalker in Chat. Although we didn't talk often, the times we did were a lot of fun, because that's the kind of guy he was. Fun-loving, full of good humor, and always quick to lend a hand or give good advice when another member was having trouble. I've taken breaks from writing for long periods of time, but Sticky was always there watching over Chat when I came back. Upon my return this time, it came as very sad news to find out he won't be returning again. But I believe he is somewhere up on a cloud, still watching over us with a loving heart. I send thoughts and prayers of strength and comfort to Lyle's family and friends. This Forum is a wonderful tribute to a man who was very much well-loved and respected. I hope the sincere words spoken by all the people who's lives Sticky touched will help his family through this difficult time. It's healing to hold fast to the fond memories of those we've lost. BIG Thanks to those who put this Memorial together for all of us. Rest in Peace, Lyle. You will be very much missed by all. ~~~~Susan M Ferguson  I knew Lyle for such a short time and I sincerely wish it had been much longer. He was always so cheerful, so outgoing and ready to help a new author. I remember one September night when I logged into my email and saw his polite request to publish one of my stories in Shadows Express.... I cannot describe the joy and amazement I felt. Lyle helped me polish the story and it came out in the December 2011 issue. How I shall treasure his advise, encouragement and kindness. He taught me so much in so short a time. What a warm, incredible person he was. I will miss you, Lyle. RIP dejavu ~~~~Ember_Rain  I didn't know Lyle well. But, I knew him well enough to smile every time I saw his handle come across my screen. He was one of those people that seemed to exude Love, Light and Harmony. Just knowing he was participating in something I was doing as well was enough to make my day. We weren't close, but he was someone I considered very important to the life of WDC. It's just not the same without him. ~~~~Jess [remembers this holiday] I didn't know Lyle well; I want to leave my condolences and offer prayers to the family in this very difficult time. ~~~~Tanisha I have never had any interaction with Lyle but I wish I had. From all that I have read above I guess he was a wonderful person who will be greatly missed here at WDC. My deepest condolences to his family. God bless them. ~~~~The Irishman I didn't know Lyle, but from reading a few of the notes about him posted in "In Fond Remembrance of Our Friend, Lyle" he is such an accomplished and inspiring person. I am going to read more about him and get ideas on how I can improve the way he did. We all need mentors. Even though he he has passed on, I hope his port will be kept open so that we can all read and learn from his writings. Way to go, Lyle. Sincerely, The Irishman  ~~~~BBWOLF Turning 23 6/3 I never had the pleasure to have Stick grace my portfolio, or I grace his. However, it seems that a bunch of my friends, whom I've reviewed, and been reviewed by, were graced by his presence, in one manner or another. So Stick, if you're listening, this is for you- HOWLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ~~~~The Chessy Cat It was a good while ago when we met and a good while it's been since we chatted, but I remember you fondly from the days when I lived in our wdc chatroom. You always seemed to be such an extraordinary human being as made even more evident by the beautiful words that your loved ones here write for you. The world lost an amazing man, though we all gained an Angel. You will be remembered fondly and kept warm and loved within our hearts. May your new journey prove to be the very best. Sleep soundly, my friend. ~*~*~*~*~*~*~ ~*Lauren, your True Romantic*~ ~~~~Beck the Boilerlady  Lyle was always a pleasure every time I came across him on the site. He was a positive influence when I happened across him in the chat room, and was an awesome addition to the Writer's Workshop when he was invited in to be with us. He was a positive influence overall and will be greatly missed. It's funny how someone you have never "met" can leave such a hole in your heart when they are gone. But, I suppose, it is to be expected, when that same person brought such a full life when he touched yours.... even though you never met in the "real world". Sticky, you will be sincerely missed! Beck ~~~~Jen d'Arque - Busy Bee  Heyas Buddy, I just spoke with you not that long ago. You were so full of life, exuberant with your friendships all over WdC. You started out small, struggled to learn the ins and outs of fiction writing, and you and I had many conversations about short story writing. I lost touch with you, but apparently you were always in good hands here with the PDG and their friends. I don't know how or why you could leave us so soon, but like Hannah said, it won't be for long. I give you the long kiss goodnight.  Thank you for bringing a spark and a smile to everyone here that you knew. - Jen ~~~~Feather Duster  I read most of the posts for this tribute to Lyle (Sticktalker) before I added a quick note of sympathy to his loved ones and those also who really knew Lyle. I felt he was so brilliant and a jump ahead of common-ground authors since I started to wander portfolios and came upon Sticktalker. I'd run into him with donations and other events. It is a sad loss for WDC. So many agree. Bless you, Lyle. You are in heaven now and that's where the glory shines.  Feather Duster aka vicki ~~~~Charles-Gone Until June 10th  Well, Lyle, I never knew you, but I heard about you. Of all the people that told me about you, it sounded like you're a pretty swell guy. Many people liked you, and I hope that someday I will be able to meet you, and maybe you could give me some tips on writing. You will always be on my prayer list.~~~~I just learned Stick passed away, and though I didn't speak with him that often when I was in chat, I was reading what others that really knew him said about him. I know the pain of losing a loved one because I too lost a loved one to cancer. I wish to give my best to his family, friends, and other people that knew him. He was a good friend when he and I talked in chat, and he understood and helped me with some of my problems. Stick, I hope to see you again. From Ryan, Friendly Thinker ~~~~Bertiebrite was given Light I did not know him well, but his name was all around me as I perused the pages of the WDC website. His influence was apparent. All Blessings to his family. ~~~~Kasia ~ ID#1868420  Even though I never knew you well, Lyle, I don't think I could forget the first encouragement I received from you – just one of many. You gave me a good laugh, too, and I think that laugh is one you gave to many, and because of that it will go on, even while you aren't here. (We're racing to catch up with you, man. My heart goes out to Lyle's family and friends. Rest in peace, Lyle. ~ Kasia ~~~~Catherine Hall Ah, Lyle, You were humble when you reviewed my poem And you didn’t point out my misreading of your handle. When I reviewed your autobiography You told me how to earn more GPs by making reviews public. I learned from you, in the few sentences we exchanged As, reading these tributes, so many other people did. We talk of what you did Yet we talk more of our feelings about you. You were a great man, Sticktalker, And you leave a growing legacy of friendship and knowledge. I’m glad to have met you And sad to have lost you. I hope God rooms you with somebody nice. Best wishes to all Lyle’s family and friends, Cathie/Kath 19 January 2012 ~~~~markymark Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there, I do not sleep I never met Lyle, the penalty for living in England I suppose, but in a virtual world he was a real personality. We shared many conversations, none of which were high-brow or earth shattering, but they they were mostly fun and funny--and I liked him. My deepest sympathies go out to his family and friends. A part of me wants to smile, as I can almost see the last word on his memorial... POOF!!! ~~~~Calypso I only met Lyle on chat but would look forward to presence there for I knew there would be lively chat and banter and my spirits would be lifted. He had a quick wit and I was inspired my many of his comments. I am much saddened to learn of his passing. In our last conversation, he shared some words of comfort as I was having a difficult time dealing with the birthday of my father who had passed away. My thoughts and prayers will be with the family during this time and in the future for I know that he will be missed by all who knew and loved him. Robin ~~~~LPS_Round6_Open We spend so much time with people on WDC learning what we can about them. Oftentimes, we hold them in higher regard than their real-life persona would had we known them in that way. Sticktalker is not one of these people. 'Sticky' was a giving person who was always willing to drop his own projects to help others. We debated many times in the chatroom and I consider myself lucky to have had his unique insights on writing--and life--during these times. In real life, he was the same man and more.WDC has a vacant spot in it that, like a black hole, can never be filled. The world lost one of the good guys on 12/30/2011. Knowing Sticky, the best thing any of us can do to honor his memory is be like him if only for one day. Reach out and help someone, not because you must, but because you can. Whether it be helping your neighbor with their yard work, holding a door for an elderly person, or just giving an honest, helpful, and integrity-driven review, do something to let Sticky know we remember him. He will smile on you from whatever afterlife he now lives in. We will never forget you Sticky. We miss you like you've been gone a million years and will always love the person you were. Please check out "Last Pen Standing." , which is dedicated to Sticky this round. Winner!  "Resistance is Futile" &  Honorable Mention. "The Bottle" .Gary -30- |
#82. Entered, thank you. #81. You will be missed #78. TO A VIRTUAL FRIEND #76. Sticky Lyle #74. To Stick's family #71. Miss you, Lyle #69. Updated to here. #68. Dear Lyle, #67. {e:Cry} #66. Finished updating #65. Updating #63. Entered to here! #62. Remembering Lyle |
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