When you become a foster parent there is so much misunderstang about your roll as the foster parent one evening one of the children i was careing for wanted to spend a night a friends house and i told the child listen to me very carefully you have spent a night at your friends house two wee-kens already and i have understood that you have a new friend and i think its great but you have to understand that you can not spend a night at your friends house every weekend so tonight you are going to stay home ok so you know what he told me i don't have to listen to you you are not my mother and am going to pack my bags and run away and you know what i told him go right ahead so he stomped on in the room and starting packing and when he was finish he didnt walk out the front door but he climb out a window that had a roof that lead to the streets and he as far as a block and decided to come back because he knew he had no where to go plus he was wrong so he climb back into the window put his bag up and went to bed but never told me he was sorry he made it up to me later with a gift ok understanding.