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Unrequited Love: Have you suffered?
Have you ever suffered unrequited love? If so, drop by here, and tell me about it...
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Unrequited love. Something that alot of us go through. Being in love with somebody who doesn't love you can be a heartbreaking experience.

Glad To Be Unhappy was a song covered by artists such as Frank Sinatra, Billie Holliday and The Mamas and Papas. The song says:

Unrequited love's a bore
And I've got it pretty bad
But for someone you adore
It's a pleasure to be sad


The metal band Slipknot composed the phrase:

"She's everything to me, the unrequited dream, the song that no-one sings, the unattainable..."


Unfortunately, during my life - I have suffered this dilemma a few painful times. I know all my stories, and now I want to know yours too.

I am in the middle of designing a book with a number of characters who are suffering the 'UL symtom'... and I want to know how you felt during your UL phase, why is was unrequited, what made you fall in love with the person in the first place, and how you dealt with it. I also would love to hear if you have been the object of someone else's desires.

I promise that any story you wish to tell me will be between you and I.
I may come back to you at some point to glean a few more details, but I promise that I won't identify you at all in any of my writing.

Thank you for taking this survey!

 Reward For Completing This Survey: 25 Gift Points

"Unrequited Love: Have you suffered?" Questions
Multiple submissions allowed / (R) denotes a required field.

1.   Have You Suffered?

Have you ever suffered Unrequited Love? (R)

        Yes
        No

2.   Attraction

What made you love this person? What were their features and attributes? Did they have a certain something that attracted you to them?

     

3.   What happend?

What happened, and why was it unrequited? What were the circumstances around nothing ever happening between you? Were they with anyone else? Was it your best friend? Was it shyness and lack of confidence? (R)

     

4.   Ever Meet?

Was it love from a distance? Or did you meet, and then it was love from a far... Or did you already know each other, and it just sort of happened?

What were the circumstances? How did you meet? (R)

     

5.   Feelings

How did you feel during this time? Were you happy that you had finally found the person you had been looking for your whole life? Were you jealous becuase that person was with someone else? Did you feel rejected becuase they didn't notice you? Or were you depressed? (R)

     

6.   Getting Over It

What was your journey like when you were getting over it? Are you over it?

I know that with my experiences, there have been times of remembering, and thinking 'what if?'. Do you ever feel that? (R)

     

7.   Anything Else?

Is there anything else you want to tell me?

     

8.   Desired Person

Have you ever been the centre of someone elses attentions, and have not reciprocated the same feelings? (R)

        Yes
        No
        I think so, but I'm not 100%
        Not that I'm aware of...

9.   The Desired

How did these attentions make you feel?


Did they ever tell you how they felt?
If so, how did you react?

How did you deal with it in the end? Did you deal with it at all, or did the person just drift away in the end?

     

10.   Anything More?

Is there anything more that you want to tell me about being the desired of someone else?

     

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