Poll Question:

A friend and I were talking about this very thing one day, and we determined that we're both givers. What are you like when it comes to sex? Do you like to give more than receive, or do you prefer to just lay back and enjoy?

P.S. A lot of poll-takers feel I should have included a "varied" choice, since different situations call for different levels of involvement. That is very true, and most of us would choose that. However, that still wouldn't get us to the heart of how you see yourself, deep down, and this poll would be mostly "neutral."

For example, I chose "giver" because that's what I am, even when I'm taking. I so enjoy how my lover makes me feel, that a primary thought for me throughout, is an incredibly huge desire to make him feel as good as I do. It's erotic and exciting to be tied up, yes, but it's far more erotic and exciting for me to do that to him. So in summary--of course I take, BUT, to me, giving is an incredible rush. And maybe there's some man out there who loves to make his lover feel incredible, yet deep down, his favorite positions involve taking. That's what I'm getting at with this poll. Who are you, and what do you prefer deep down?

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