Dear May

Dear May,
People always talk about the benefits of hindsight, and being able to look back on actions and know where you've gone wrong.

You don't know who I am, and I doubt you'd recognise me, but I once knew someone who was a lot like you, and I'd like to offer you some advice that she didn't have.

You're coming up to the end of your years at primary school. I know you're feeling a little nervous about going to your secondary school, but don't worry about it. It's going to be a very educational year, and if you're careful it could be good fun.

Try not to let people tell you that being intelligent and hard working is a bad thing, but also don't show off to them. No one ever likes a know-it-all.

There are lots of people you're going to make friends with, but remember that you don't have to be friends with any of them and if they're doing something you think is wrong, tell them so. Anyone who doesn't listen to your opinion isn't worth your time.

Your family are probably getting you down at the moment. I hate to sound just like every other adult but when you're a bit older you'll suddenly realise that all the things they're saying to you are true. Particularly the ones about food: don't get too hung up over your weight, dieting doesn't help and anorexia is a real worry.

Now that those things are dealt with, I can tell you that the next few years are going to be your best yet. The new school isn't going to be the one you stay at, but I think you know that already really. But when you've decided, stick to your decision because it's a good one. You're going to have the time of your life as you approach your teens. And you won't need alcohol either, so don't give up your beliefs in that respect!

Just a few last pointers. Your music is going to be a real benefit to you as you grow up, so keep working hard. You've got so much potential, but if you let it slip over the next few months then you'll struggle very hard to catch up.

That boy you're going to fall for when you're twelve isn't worth the time of day, I promise you. He's one of those with a new girl every week; give up any dreams of him and find someone when you're a bit older. Boys mature a lot more slowly and he's younger than you to start with. It isn't worth the pain and you're worth more than him.

Finally, don't ever despair because there are a lot of brilliant people waiting for you in the future. You've already met a lot of them, but you probably don't realise how special they are.

I think that's about all the help I can offer you. You're going to learn a lot of important lessons in the next few years, lessons that will stay with you for the rest of your life. Don't make rash judgements and keep a check on your temper.

Oh yes, one last thing. Keep in touch with that special teacher, because you're going to miss her a lot when you leave.

All the best of luck,
Marie