Walking a Sexual Tightrope

It could just be me, but I’m betting most women have noticeable hormone changes throughout their cycles.  In my case, I have at least two to six days a month when I turn into a nymphomaniac.  I’m sure this sounds fantastic to the men out there.  Unfortunately, my husband seems to have no sex drive during that same week.  This is not anyone’s fault.  I have gained a sexual identity as I approach thirty.  My husband has had less interest as he gets nearer to thirty-five. I’m sure we aren’t the only couple with this problem.  So, what do you do when your sex drive is on the rise and your partner’s is on the decline?

This week of sexual tension started about eight days ago for me and didn’t end until the day before yesterday.  And, as usual, my husband had little to no interest in accommodating me.  When this situation arises, I can’t help but feel rejected and frustrated.  On the other hand, he feels inadequate.  So, we end up fighting.  This is a ridiculous way to handle it, but there seems to be nowhere else for the stress to go.  After a few days of this, we get it all out.

Apparently, reducing the pressure between us puts a balance back into our relationship.  We can work up to sex without the tension.  He started out with his fingers in my pussy the other night.  I was standing up leaning back against him.  There was a puddle at my feet after just a couple of minutes.  Don’t ask how I ever got that wet.  I do not know.  But, any hesitation he had dissolved right then.  Luckily, after that night, my hormones went back to normal.

I can’t guess how this is all going to go next month.  Hopefully, I’ll only have to days of desperation instead of six.  Just in case, I’m taking suggestions.  Doing it myself only gives me temporary satisfaction.