HOW TO KEEP YOUR SEX LIFE ALIVE

HOW TO MAKE SURE YOUR HUSBAND IS ALWAYS INTERESTED

Let’s dispel with the advice most people would give you. Unless you are between the ages of eighteen and, say, twenty two, and unless you are in tip-top shape, buying some scanty teddy and a thong is not going to work. Sure, when I was that age and certain that my body was as hot as it could be, I wore a thong. I never wore a teddy though-I think they’re too expensive.

A simple camisole will do just as well.

But if you’re not sure about your butt and you don’t have the confidence to wear the aforementioned thong, trust me-one askance look from your husband will destroy your desires and, in turn, his. So, instead, let’s talk about the tried and true.
Everyday clothes can turn a man on, but you have to know how to use them. If you’re a busty woman, wear a blouse that buttons down, but just leave a few buttons open, enough to let your husband get a peek at your breasts. If you’re small breasted, like I am, wear a top that billows out whenever you bend over.

You see, men love to peek. My husband, for example, loves to peek at my boobs whenever he can despite the fact he can see them whenever he wants. Normally I like to go without panties altogether, but I do wear them to bed. So, in the mornings, I walk around in a tee-shirt that ends just above my belly button and plain white panties that hang on my hips. No thong for me! Just a thin pair of panties that are mildly transparent, and a tee-shirt that will expose my breasts from either the top of the bottom when I bend from the waist just a little bit or stand on my tiptoes to reach for a plate or cup.
This seems to drive him crazy! I can understand why men love to peek at a strange woman’s boobs or butt, but why they love to peek at their wives’ boobs and butt is a mystery to me. But they do, so take advantage of that fact.

On the other hand, when we are lying by the pool, let’s say, and his bathing suit is clinging to his body and his penis is outlined under it, I get unbelievably turned on, so I guess peeking goes both ways.
So, wear loose clothing that exposes your best assets and-this is important- pretend that you don’t know he is taking peeks. Innocence enhances sexiness.

To take maximum advantage of the peeking phenomenon, wear loose clothing when you go to a friend’s home so her husband can take some peeks. To ensure that he will peek at you, no matter how much he knows he shouldn’t, place your hand on your chest to keep your clothing from billowing the first few times you bend over. This sends the message-yes, I know you can see my boobs. Then forget to cover your clothing with your hand after that. Your friend’s husband, knowing that you know your boobs can be seen, will be even more thrilled that he can see them.

How does this help with your husband? If he thought that you were purposely letting your boobs be seen by another man, he may be upset. But if he thinks that the man is getting a sneak peak, then he’ll most likely be turned on. Men are like that.
This concept is different from dressing seductively. Seductive clothing is like an advertisement which, unless and your husband have agreed to have a threesome or foursome, could be counterproductive. Why do I say this? Because, once you have made the decision to dress absentmindedly, you can then proceed to show interest in another man without seeming like you are advertising.

I’m not talking about hitting on a guy in front of your husband-that would be a disaster. No, I’m suggesting that the mere fact that you talk to another man, laugh at his jokes no matter how stupid they are, and pretend to be interested in his work will be enough to flame the jealousy burning within your husband. That, in turn, will want him to prove to you that he is the best lover in the world.

One final tip. I never wear perfume except when I think I can put it to good use, and the way I put it to good use is to apply it correctly. What, you ask? Applying perfume in a certain way can turn your husband on? You bet! Assume for a second that you are going out to dinner or a party or anything you might dress up for, and let’s say your naked or, better yet, wearing only your panties. Ask him, “Do you like this perfume?” Hold your perfumed finger under his nose.

His answer does not matter. What you do next is apply some to one of your fingers and draw it slowly up one thigh. Do the same with your other thigh. Then draw a line between your breasts down to your pubic hair. If he asks why you’re applying perfume in those places, tell him, “Well, isn’t that where you’re going to spend most of your time later?” If he doesn’t ask, he already knows the answer.

Finally, you can play fantasy games. Our favorite is the repair man game, one in which my husband shows up to repair something only to discover that he is at the wrong house but, since there is a vulnerable woman in the house, he will take her. Of course, I fight him off-really fight-so to get his prize he has to work hard. It really gets our blood boiling. Then, of course, I can play the innocent girl who shows up at the wrong house.

You see, turning your husband on does not have to cost a lot or, for that matter, take much effort unless you like the physicality that fantasies require. And, if your husband doesn’t get turned on, well, someone else will, and then you have an excuse for an affair.