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"Spring is nature's way of saying, "Let's party!"

~Robin Williams



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"Reading at meals is considered rude in polite society, but if you expect to succeed as a writer, rudeness should be the second-to-least of your concerns. The least of all should be polite society and what it expects. If you intend to write as truthfully as you can, your days as a member of polite society are numbered, anyway."

-- Stephen King



"Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes."

Mahatma Gandhi



"Our grand business is not to see what lies dimly in the distance,
but to do what lies clearly at hand."

Thomas Carlyle



"Our minds can create anxiety and suffering simply by conjuring up terrifying future scenarios. I've noticed my imagination is much scarier than reality."

Josh Baran



"Every man dies, not every man lives."

Author Unknown, Braveheart



"Our destiny changes with our thought; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do, when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire."

Orison S. Marsden



If you have a great ambition, take as big a step as possible in the direction of fulfilling it. The step may only be a tiny one, but trust that it may be the largest one possible for now.

Mildred McAfee



Choices are the hinges of destiny.

Edwin Markham



Measure your health by your sympathy with morning and Spring. If there is no response in you to the awakening of nature, if the prospect of an early morning walk does not banish sleep, if the warble of the first bluebird does not thrill you, know that the morning and spring of your life are past. Thus you may feel your pulse.

Henry David Thoreau



"Living in the moment means letting go of the past and not waiting for the future. It means living your life consciously, aware that each moment you breathe is a gift."

Oprah Winfrey



"Do not wait; the time will never be 'just right.' Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along."

Napoleon Hill




"If you have a great ambition, take as big a step as possible in the direction of fulfilling it. The step may only be a tiny one, but trust that it may be the largest one possible for now."

Mildred McAfee



"Peace begins with a smile."

Mother Teresa



"I try more and more to be myself, caring relatively little whether people approve or dissaprove."

Vincent Van Gogh



"Nothing can steal hope and beauty from the person who still believes in them."

Author Unknown



"An optimist stays up until midnight to see the new year in. A pessimist stays up to make sure the old year leaves."

Bill Vaughan



"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us."

Helen Keller



"The real power behind whatever success I have now was something I found within myself - something that's in all of us, I think, a little piece of God just waiting to be discovered."

Tina Turner



"Depression can be the sand that makes the pearl."

Joni Mitchell



"If you don't run your own life, someone else will."

John Atkinson



"It is from numberless diverse acts of courage and belief that human history is shaped. Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope.

ROBERT F. KENNEDY



"Personality can open doors, but only character can keep them open."

Elmer G. Leterman



"It is not our abilities that show what we truly are. It is our choices."

J.K. Rawling



"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."

Mother Teresa



"Angels sail through our lives like ships of light visiting us through portals to our heart."

Author Unknown



"Nothing is easy to the unwilling."

Thomas Fuller



"Nothing is unthinkable, nothing is impossible to the balanced person, provided it arises out of the needs of life and is dedicated to life's further developments."

Lewis Mumford



"... and then the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom."

Anais Nin



Nurture your mind with great thoughts.

Benjamin Disraeli



Life isn't a support-system for art, it's the other way around.

Stephen King



For the sake of making a living we forget to live.

Margaret Fuller



Just thinking about a friend makes you want to do a happy dance, because a friend is someone who loves you in spite of your faults.

Charles M. Schulz



Happiness consists not in having, but of being, not of possessing, but of enjoying. It is the warm glow of a heart at peace with itself."

Norman Vincent Peale



Have the courage to act instead of react.

Earlene Larson Jenks



Friends are the sunshine of life.

John Hay



What would you attempt to do if you knew you would not fail?

Dr. Robert Schuller



God can always hear you. Be still and know that I am God.

From the Bible



Peace is not an absence of war, it is a virtue, a state of mind, a disposition for benevolence, confidence, justice.

Benedict Spinoza



Faith is to believe what you do not yet see; the reward for this faith is to see what you believe.

St. Augustine



Let us be about setting high standards for life, love, creativity, and wisdom. If our expectations in these areas are low, we are not likely to experience wellness. Setting high standards makes every day and every decade worth looking forward to.

Greg Anderson



Never think that you're not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. People will take you very much at your own reckoning.

Anthony Trollope



Your talent is God's gift to you. What you do with it is your gift back to God.

Leo Buscaglia



Victories in life come through our ability to work around and over the obstacles that cross our path.We grow stronger as we climb our own mountains.

Marvin Ashton



Becoming generous, carrying someone else for a while, does amazing things for your self-esteem. Selfishness--even in the name of an injustice--lowers your self-respect and creates shame.

Barbara Sher



Birds sing after a storm; why shouldn't people feel as free to delight in whatever sunlight remains to them?

Rose Kennedy



An act of goodness is of itself an act of happiness. No reward coming after the event can compare with the sweet reward that went with it.

Maurice Maeterlinck



The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.

William Faulkner



A weed is no more than a flower in disguise.

James Lowell



The relationships we have with the world are largely determined by the relationships we have with ourselves.

Greg Anderson



I don't have to attend every argument I'm invited to.

Anonymous



I have always grown from my problem and challenges, from the things that don't work out, that's when I've really learned.

Carol Burnett



Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.

Franklin P. Jones



This is the miracle that happens every time to those who really love; the more they give, the more they possess.

Rainier Maria Rilke



Nothing is worth more than this day.

Johnann Wolfgang von Goethe



It’s not your aptitude but your attitude that determines attitude.

Zig Zagler



A life of reaction is a life of slavery, intellectually and spiritually. One must fight for a life of action, not reaction.

Rita Mae Brown



Abilities wither under faultfinding, blossom with encouragement.

Donald A. Laird



One pound of learning requires ten pounds of common sense to apply it.

Persian Proverb



Our inheritance of well-founded, slowly conceived codes of honor, morals, and manners, the passionate convictions which so many hundreds of millions share together of the principles of freedom and justice, are far more precious to us than anything which scientific discoveries could bestow.

Winston Churchill



I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness because it shows me the stars.

Og Mandino



Worry often gives a small thing a big shadow.

Swedish proverb



Listen or your tongue will keep you deaf.

Native American Proverb



I don't know the key to success, but the key
to failure is to try to please everyone.

Bill Cosby



Live every moment as if it were the most miraculous thing you could ever imagine, because it is.

Ralph S. Marston, Jr.



Life got immeasurably easier for me when I got passionate about taking responsibility for my own situations while deferring any responsibility for your life situations to you.

Author Unknown



When I am down, I need to take an inventory of my attitude.

Karen Casey



We surrender to win.

Anonymous



Manipulation and control is the same done under any agenda. Doing it in the name of "For this person's own good" does not clean up the ugliness or dismiss the act. It does, in fact, stain the hands of the doer with a color that will never fade.

H. A. Overstreet



Hope is patience with the lamp lit.

Tertullian



Seek not outside yourself, heaven is within.

Mary Lou Cook.



We each have all the time there is; our mental and moral status is determined by what we do with it.

Mary Blake



One doesn't discover new lands without consenting to lose sight of the shore for a very long time.

Andre Gide



We must remember that hatred is like acid. It does more damage to the vessel in which it is stored than to the object on which it is poured.

Ann Landers



The past is a guide post, not a hitching post.

L. Thomas Holdcroft



I discovered I always have choices and sometimes it's only a choice of attitude.

Judith M. Knowlton



We always have enough to be happy if we are enjoying what we do have--and not worrying about what we don't have.

Ken Keyes, Jr.



Experience is that marvelous thing that enables you recognize a mistake when you make it again.

F. P. Jones



It is better to be prepared for an opportunity and not have one than to have an opportunity and not be prepared.

Whitney Young, Jr.



A good leader encourages followers to tell him what he needs to know, not what he wants to hear.

John C. Maxwell



A great leaders courage to fulfill his vision comes from passion, not position.

John C. Maxwell



A slender acquaintance with the world must convince every man that actions, not words, are the true criterion of the attachment of friends.

George Washington



Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do...but how much love we put in that action.

Mother Teresa



The act of acting morally is behaving as if everything we do matters.

Gloria Steinem



People, by changing the inner attitude of their minds, can change the outer aspect of their lives.

William James



The relationships we have with the world are largely determined by the relationships we have with ourselves.

Greg Anderson



As long a you are going to be thinking anyway, think big.

Donald Trump



I'm not against anybody; I'm just for myself said a Texas college student when members of his fraternity chided him for being uncaring and self-centered.
He is not alone. Millions of people are caught up in this dangerous view. Psychologist James Dobson has said "the philosophy of 'me first' has the power to blow our world to pieces, whether applied to marriage, business, or international politics.
If you asked ten close friends to rate your behavior on a scale of one (self-centered) to ten (others-centered), what would your ranking be?
Perhaps we need to take our cue from insects. Flies, which exist to satisfy their own interest, live in the dust and eat from the rubbish. Bees, however, with their desire to serve mankind with sweetness and honey, have been given the right to nourish themselves on the nectar of flowers Allow your life to blossom. Root out selfish behavior.
Where do you begin the transition to becoming others-centered?. Today, in a conversation with a friend, include these five words: "How can I help you?

Neil Eskelin



A man's ability cannot possibly be of one sort and his soul of another. If his soul be well-ordered, serious and restrained, his ability also is sound and sober. Conversely, when one degenerates, the other is contaminated.

Seneca



Challenges make you discover things about yourself that you never really knew. They're what make the instrument stretch - what makes you go beyond the norm.

Cicely Tyson



Friends are kisses blown to us by angels.

Author Unknown



Things don't go wrong and break your heart so you can become bitter and give up. They happen to break you down and build you up so you can be all that you were intended to be.

Charles "Tremendous" Jones



Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.

Count Leo Tolstoy



Courage is rarely reckless or foolish...courage usually involves a highly realistic estimate of the odds that must be faced.

Margaret Truman



The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.

Barbara De Angelis



You can increase your brain power three- to fivefold simply by laughing and having fun before working on a problem.

Doug Hall



A healthy attitude is contagious but don't wait to catch it from others. Be a carrier.

Author Unknown



I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness because it shows me the stars.

Og Mandino



Faith is the bird that feels the light when the dawn is still dark.

Rabindranath Tagore



I am not looking for a literary editor, just a reader's opinion. When you are perfect then you can expect perfection from me.

La Belle Rouge



Discipline is the refining fire by which talent becomes ability.

Roy J. Smith



Never esteem anything as of advantage to you that will make you break your word or lose your self-respect.

Marcus Aurelius Antoninus



An error doesn't become a mistake until you refuse to correct it.

Orlando A. Battista



A pessimist sees only the dark side of the clouds, and mopes; a philosopher sees both sides, and shrugs; an optimist doesn't see the clouds at all - he's walking on them.

Leonard Louis Levinson



Life appears to me too short to be spent in nursing animosity or registering wrong. Being a victim is such a waste of time.

Charlotte Brontë



Be flexible, not rigid. People who become dogmatic and give “yes” or “no” answers to every question often paint themselves in a corner from which there is no escape. Always leave the door ajar for change. Give yourself some breathing room to look at issues in a creative way.

Neil Eskelin



Hardening of the attitudes is the most deadly disease on the face of the earth.

Zig Ziglar



Clear the emotional barriers of your past. Don't allow yourself to make choices based on remorse, guilt, hate or anger. If your decision is motivated by “trying to get even.” you are dealing with a double-edged sword that will cause more harm to you then the person who is your target.

Neil Eskelin


Truth, though it has many disadvantages, is at least changeless. You can always find it where you left it.

Phyllis Bottome



A man may perform astonishing feats and comprehend a vast amount of knowledge, and yet have no understanding of himself. But suffering directs a man to look within. If it succeeds, then there, within him, is the beginning of his learning.

Soren Kierkegaard



If you always do what you always did, you'll always get what you always got.

Author Unknown



Do not ask for fulfillment in all your life, but for patience to accept frustration. Do not ask for perfection in all you do, but for the wisdom not to repeat mistakes. Do not ask for more, before saying "Thank You" for what you have already received.

Brenda Short



To gain that which is worth having, it may be necessary to lose everything else.

Author Unknown



If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant: if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome.

Anne Bradstreet



The time is always right to do what is right.

Martin Luther King, Jr



Success is the result of good judgment, good judgment is a result of experience, experience is often the result of bad judgment.

Anthony Robbins



Goodness is the only investment that never fails.

Henry David Thoreau



The relationships we have with the world are largely determined by the relationships we have with ourselves.

Greg Anderson



Obstacles and challenges are guideposts to our true purpose in the world.

Kabbalah



Success is not a destination that you reach. Success is the quality of your journey.

Jennifer James



If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door.

Milton Berle



Character is not a commodity that can be purchased. It is built by the decisions you permanently chisel on your heart. Strive for a reputation that will cause people to say, 'She means what she says.' Tomorrow She will say the same thing" Don't make a decision one day and ask people to act on it and change your decision the next day.

Neil Eskelin



The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him with his friendship.

Ralph Waldo Emerson


The time to repair the roof is when the sun is shining.

John F. Kennedy



When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.

Lao Tzu



It’s natural for people who are under stress to reach for foods that make them feel good. According to Dr. Emily Senay, health consultant for CBS News, “Researchers say that men yearn for fatty foods such as potato chips or cheeseburgers. Women frequently seek out sweets, such as chocolate or cookies.” What are the two things most needed by people under stress? First
they need a good compliment or praise, then they need rest. If they don't receive nurturing from people, or some way to relieve their exhaustion, they will often seek it in food. What’s the solution? Psychologist Anne Kearney-Cooke, who counsels people with stress-related eating disorders, tells her patients to deliberately wait a half hour before reaching for comfort foods - after that interval you'll likely lose your strong craving.

-Neil Eskelin



How about this miracle... God says if you plant the seed I will make the tree. Wow, you can't have a better arrangement than that. First, it gives God the tough end of the deal. What if you had to make a tree? That would keep you up late at night trying to figure out how to make a tree. God says, "No, leave the miracle part to me. I've got the seed, the soil, the sunshine, the rain and the seasons. I'm God and all this miracles stuff is easy for me. I have reserved something very special for you and that is to plant the seed.

Jim Rohn



Although our inattention can contribute to our lack of total well-being, we also have the power to choose positive behaviors and responses. In that choice we change our every experience of life!

Greg Anderson



A bird doesn't sing because it has an answer, it sings because it has a song.

Maya Angelou



Integrity is one of several paths. It distinguishes itself from the others because it is the right path, and the only one upon which you will never get lost.

M. H. McKee



Think of your life as a canoe and your decisions and actions as your paddle. You'll get where you're going one stroke at a time with the decisions and actions you make.

D. J. "Eagle Bear" Vanas



A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.

Hugh Downs



Cynicism is not realistic and tough. It's unrealistic and kind of cowardly because it means you don't have to try.

Peggy Noonan



The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present.

Barbara De Angelis



Older and wiser voices can always help you find the right path, if you are only willing to listen.

Jimmy Buffet



No person can be a great leader unless he takes genuine joy in the successes of those under him.

W.H. Auden



It takes less time to do a thing right, than it does to explain why you did it wrong.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow



Perfectionism is a mean, frozen form of idealism, while messes are the artist's true friend to help find out who we are and why we are here. So, go ahead, make big scawls and mistakes; use lots of paper for first, second and third drafts...the final draft will be your masterpiece!

Anne Lamott



Stop and carefully review what you see or hear instead of jumping to conclusions. Many situations are not what they initially appear to be.

Carol Brown



The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.

William Faulkner



If you're still hanging onto a dead dream of yesterday, laying flowers on its grave by the hour, you cannot be planting the seeds for a new dream to grow today.

Joyce Chapman



Everything that happens to you is a reflection of what you believe about yourself. We cannot outperform our level of self-esteem. We cannot draw to ourselves more than we think we are worth.

Iyanla Vanzant



A recent study reported in the Journal of Marriage and the Family concludes that exposure to negative emotions can give you emotional flu. It’s like a chain reaction that moves through a family - and has the same effect on a team or an organization.
David Almedia of the University of Arizona was involved in the research. He states, “This work brings new awareness that being in a negative mood, being inaccessible or generally grouchy can have a noxious effect of the well-being of our families.”
The study discovered these alarming facts: 1. Bad feelings tend to be more potent and have longer-lasting effects than positive emotions. 2. Fathers bringing home negative emotions from work that affect other family members are a common pattern. 3. Emotions are most often passed from husband to wife and from parents to children.
Almedia concluded, “We know from long study that distressed parents tend to have distressed children.”
Your attitudes are highly contagious. Stop spreading germs of gloom and reach for a positive prescription.

Neil Eskelin



All the technology in the world will never replace a positive attitude.

Harvey Mackay



Trouble will come soon enough, and when he does come receive him as pleasantly as possible... and the more amiably you greet him, the sooner he will go away.

Artemus Ward



It is the absence of immediate and compelling goals that leads to boredom, low energy, pessimism, depression and despair, among a heap of other unpleasant conditions.

Joe Klock



In the presence of trouble, some people grow wings; others buy crutches.

Harold W. Ruoff



I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness because it shows me the stars.

Og Mandino



Make small commitments and keep them. Be a light, not a judge. Be a model, not a critic. Be part of the solution, not part of the problem.

Stephen R. Covey



Aim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward with your life. Remember that fear always lurks behind perfectionism. Confronting your fears and allowing yourself the right to be human can, paradoxically, make you a far happier and more productive person.

Dr. David M. Burns



There is a road from the eye to the heart that does not go through the intellect."

Gilbert K. Chesterton



It is our duty as men and women to proceed as though the limits of our abilities do not exist.

Pierre Teilhard de Chardin



To concede your failure is not an admission of weakness but a statement of strength.

Neil Eskelin



Anger is one letter away from danger.

Eleanor Roosevelt



The young man of native ability, (with) the will to work and good personality will, in the long run, get the equivalent of a college education in the tasks he will set for himself. If he has ability and determination, he will find ways to learn and to get ahead.

Edward G. Seubert



Why is it that the more mistakes people make, the more paranoid they become about other people's mistakes?

Robert Half



Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him.

Epictetus



...miracles don't come from the cold intellect. They come from finding your authentic self and following what you feel is your true course in life.

Bernie S. Siegel



Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off the goal.

Hannah More



There is a great difference between worry and concern. A worried person sees a problem & frets. A concerned person looks to experience for a solution.

Harold Stephens



Sometimes we feel so worn down by our spirit-breaking, daily grind (or a serious loss, like being fired) that we lack the energy and hope needed to reach our goals. The creative process makes demands on us. In and of itself, it can trigger anxiety, conflict, chronic fatigue, and even intense resistance (what I've called the Big R)--the recoil, or withdrawal of energy from obligations. When apathy or restlessness undercut our plans, the Big R is usually lurking close by.

Marsha Sinetar



Science may have found a cure for most evils; but it has found no remedy for the worst of them all - the apathy of human beings.

Helen Keller



It isn't that they can't see the solution. It is that they can't see the problem.

G. K. Chesterton



Words, like Nature, half reveal/and half conceal the Soul within.

Alfred, Lord Tennyson,



Even without success, creative persons find joy in a job well done. Learning for its own sake is rewarding.

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi



Where words are restrained, the eyes often talk a great deal.

Samuel Richardson



Good communicators tell the truth. Notice when you lie, fib, hedge, exaggerate, or mislead, even with the best intentions. "Right speech" is honest, direct, but never cruel.

Oprah



The longest journey is the journey inward.

Dag Hammarskjold



I like thinking of possibilities. At any time, an entirely new possibility is liable to come along and spin you off in an entirely new direction. The trick, I've learned, is to be awake to the moment.

Doug Hall



The process of succeeding can be seen as a series of trials in which your vision constantly guides you toward your target while in your actual performance you are regularly slightly off target. Success in any area requires constantly readjusting your behavior as the result of feedback from your experience.

Michael Gelb and Tony Buzan



If you feel you are luck, then you are luck.

Author Unknown



As in all other events in our lives, the major impact of aging isn't so much what actually happens to us, especially since it is one of those things that are beyond our control.
Rather the significant factor is what we think is happening to us and what we think about what we think is happening us.

Joe Klock



The path of least resistance is what makes rivers run crooked.

Elbert Hubbard



To be ourselves causes us to be exiled by many others, and yet to comply with what others want causes us to be exiled from ourselves.

Clarissa Pinkola Estes



When people honor each other, there is a trust established that leads to synergy, interdependence, and deep respect. Both parties make decisions and choices based on what is right, what is best, what is valued most highly.

Blaine Lee



I find it wholesome to be alone the greater part of the time. To be in company, even with the best, is soon wearisome and dissipating. I love to be alone. I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude. We are for the most part more lonely when we go abroad among men then when we stay in our chambers.

Henry David Thoreau



Not everyone is interested in truth, especially when it's not theirs.

Bien-aimé



It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.

Ralph Waldo Emerson



Your own soul is nourished when you are kind; it is destroyed when you are cruel.

King Solomon



When inspiration does not come to me, I go halfway to meet it.

Sigmund Freud



You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do.

Henry Ford



We judge ourselves by what we feel capable of doing, while others judge us by what we have already done.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow



Most people are mirrors, reflecting the moods and emotions of the times; few are windows,
bringing light to bear on the dark corners where troubles fester. The whole purpose of education
is to turn mirrors into windows.

Sydney J. Harris



Love sought is good, but given unsought is better.

William Shakespeare



We often say: "There is light at the end of the tunnel." We forget there was light at the beginning of the tunnel. There was no need to get into the tunnel in the first place."

Shabbir Banoobhai



Could a greater miracle take place than for us to look through each other's eyes for an instant.

Henry David Thoreau



If I'm such a legend, why am I so lonely?

Judy Garland



Do not ask for fulfillment in all your life, but for patience to accept frustration.

Do not ask for perfection in all you do, but for the wisdom not to repeat mistakes.

Do not ask for more, before saying "Thank You" for what you have already received."

Brenda Short



You can clutch the past so tightly to your hest, that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present.

Jan Glidewell



Three things in human life are important:
The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind.

Henry James



To expect to rule others by assuming a loud tone is like thinking oneself tall by putting on high heels.

J. Petit-Senn



The significant problems we face cannot be resolved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them.

Albert Einstein



Saying no can be the ultimate self-care.

Claudia Black



Laugh at yourself and at life. Not in the spirit of derision or whining self-pity, but as a remedy, a miracle drug, that will ease your pain, cure your depression, and help you to put in perspective that seemingly terrible defeat and worry with laughter at your predicaments, thus freeing your mind to think clearly toward the solution that is certain to come.

Og Mandino



Loneliness is the most terrible poverty.

Mother Teresa



People who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity, no matter how impressive their other talents.

Andrew S. Carnegie



If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow



Adversity has the effect of eliciting talents, which, in prosperous circumstances, would have lain dormant.

Horace



You often meet your destiny on the road you take to avoid it.

French Proverb



While it is wise to accept what we cannot change
about ourselves, it is also good to remember that
we are never too old to replace discouragement with bits and pieces of confidence and hope.

Elaine N. Aron



When you are in doubt, be still, and wait. When doubt no longer exists for you, then go forward in courage.

White Eagle



Obstacles are those frightful things you see qhen you take your eyes off the goal.

Hannah More



Never let formal education get in the way of your learning.

Mark Twain



Hope is always available to us. When we feel defeated, we need only take a deep breath and say, "Yes," and hope will reappear.

Monroe Forester



Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.



Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect.

Margaret Mitchell



There is nothing so fatal to character as half finished tasks.

David Lloyd George



You live longer once you realize that any time spent being unhappy is wasted.

Ruth E. Renkl



Every moment that I am centered in the future, I suffer a temporary loss of this life.

Hugh Prather



A knowledge of the path cannot be substituted for putting one foot in front of the other.

M. C. Richards



Indirect messaging, sarcasm, and egocentric behavior are blocks that build a wall that says. "I'm better than you." Being direct and honest may not be popular at first, but in the long run creates relationships based on truth and love.

Anonymous



I thought I could change the world. It took me a hundred years to figure out I can't change the world. I can only change Bessie. And honey, that ain't easy either.

Bessie Delany



True Intimacy with another human being can only be experienced when you have found true peace within yourself.

Angela L. Wozniak



Perhaps the most valuable result of all education is the ability to make yourself do the thing you have to do, when it ought to be done, whether you like it or not.

Thomas Henry Huxley



Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadow.

Helen Keller



Hope never abandons you, you abandon it.

George Weinberg



When Angels fly by God smiles.

Susie Frank



Creativity is so delicate a flower that praise tends to make it bloom, while discouragement often nips it in the bud. Any of us will put more and better ideas if our efforts are appreciated.

Alexander Osburn



Sometime in your life you will go on a journey. It will be the longest journey you have ever taken. It is the journey to find yourself.

Katherine Sharp



You will recognize your own path when you come upon it, because you will suddenly have all the energy and imagination you will ever need.

J. Giles



Memory is the treasury and guardian of all things.

Cicero



To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to one's family, to bring peace to all, one must first discipline and control one's own mind. If a man can control his mind he can find the way to Enlightenment, and all wisdom and virtue will naturally come to him.

Buddha



"The popular actor, Tom Selleck, had an experience
that taught him a lesson in humility. He recalls,
“Whenever I get full of myself, I remember the nice, elderly couple who approached me with a camera on a street in Honolulu one day. When I stuck a pose for them, the man said, “No, no. We want you to take a picture of us!”

It’s been said that humble pie may taste awful, but it contains much nourishment. If you want to move higher, try humility, not arrogance."

Neil Eskelin



Love seems the swiftest, but it is the slowest of all growths. No man or woman really knows what perfect love is until they have been married a quarter of a century.

Mark Twain



If we cannot walk away from a relationship in peace, we have not yet learned our lesson. That may mean we'll have another go-around with that lesson before we're ready to move on.

Melody Beattie



There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. That will be the beginning.

Louis L'Amour



Christmas is not a time nor a season, but a state of mind. To cherish peace and goodwill, to be plenteous in mercy, is to have the real spirit of Christmas.

John Calvin Coolidge



The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to overlook.

William James



Most people are so busy knocking themselves out trying to do everything they think they should do,
they never get around to what they want to do.

Kathleen Winsor



Believe that life is worth living, and your belief will help create the fact.

William James



A coach is someone who tells you what you don't want to hear, who has you see what you don't want to see, so you can be who you have always known you could be.

Tom Landry



To laugh with others is one of life's great pleasures. To be laughed at by others is one of life's great hurts.

Frank Tyger



If you think you have no faults that makes one more.

Author Unknown



Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.

Martin Luther King, Jr.



The nobler a man, the harder it is for him to suspect inferiority in others.

Cicero



Most people are mirrors, reflecting the moods and emotions of the times; few are windows, bringing light to bear on the dark corners where troubles fester. The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.

Sydney J. Harris



People of little understanding are most apt to be angry when their sense is called into question.

Samuel Richardson



View a negative experience in your life like you'd look at a photo negative. A single negative can create an unlimited number of positive prints.

Gerhard Gschwandtner



The best man in his dwelling loves the earth. In his heart, he loves what is profound. In his associations, he loves humanity. In his words, he loves faithfulness. In government, he loves order. In handling affairs, he loves competence. In his activities, he loves timeliness. It is because he does not compete that he is without reproach.

Lao-Tzu



There is a great difference between worry and concern. A worried person sees a problem & frets. A concerned person looks to experience for a solution.

Harold Stephens



A healthy attitude is contagious but don't wait to catch it from others. Be a carrier.

Author Unknown



In bed my real love has always been the sleep that rescued me by allowing me to dream.

Luigi Pinrandello



I imagine one of the reasons people hold onto their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal
with pain.

James Baldwin



We cannot hold a torch to light another's path, without brightening our own.

Ben Sweetland



Poetry is not a turning loose of emotion, but an escape from emotion; it is not the expression of personality, but an escape from personality.

Eliot, T.S.



I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness
because it shows me the stars.

Og Mandino



Etiquette is not limited to knowing how to make a proper introduction or learning which knife or fork to use at a formal banquet. Courtesies reflect your basic values of honesty, fairness, caring and accountability.

Neil Eskelin



Do not ask for more, before saying "Thank You" for what you have already received.

Brenda Short



Wherever you are, whatever your circumstances may be, whatever misfortune you may have suffered, the music of your life has not gone. It's inside you -- if you listen to it, you can play it.

Nido Qubein



Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will.

Martin Luther King Jr.



Let your conscious be your guide.

Jiminy Cricket



Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.

Melody Beattie



The most drastic and usually the most effective remedy for fear is direct action.

William Burnham



Forgive me my nonsense as I also forgive the nonsense of those who think they talk sense.

Robert Frost



To grow, you must be willing to let your present and future be totally unlike your past. Your history is not your destiny.

Alan Cohen



We are born believing. A man bears beliefs, as a tree bears beauty.

Ralph Waldo Emerson



True humility is intelligent self respect which keeps us from thinking too highly of ourselves. …it makes us modest & respectful of others.

Ralph W. Sockman



Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence.

Robert Frost



The discipline of desire is the background of character.

John Locke



Faith goes up the stairs that love has built and looks out the window which hope has opened.

Charles Spurgeon



A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back
to you when you have forgotten the words.

Author Unknown



Today I have faith and perseverance to stay on my path and to do what is necessary whether or not it gives me immediate results and gratification. I am letting go of my impatience, procrastination, fear and doubt. I trust that God knows the right time for the right results.

Ruth Fishel



Death makes angels of us all and gives us wings where we had shoulders smooth as raven's claws.

Jim Morrison



A happy family is but an earlier heaven.

John Bowring



Happiness is not a station you arrive at, but
a manner of traveling.

Margaret Lee Runbeck



We begin to die as soon as we are born, and the end is linked to the beginning.

Manilius



Without forgiveness life is governed by... an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation.

Roberto Assagioli



The Way of Heaven does not compete, And yet it skillfully achieves victory. It does not speak, and yet it skillfully responds to things. It comes to you without your invitation. It is not anxious about things and yet is plans well. Heaven's net is indeed vast. Though its meshes are wide, it misses nothing.

Lao-Tzu



Like taking a morning shower, make the planting of positive thoughts a daily practice.

Neil Eskelin



Wit is the salt of conversation, not the food.

William Hazlitt



The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people.

Theodore Roosevelt



The pen is the tongue of the mind.

Cervantes



Live truth instead of professing it.

Elbert Hubbard



It isn't that they can't see the solution. It is that they can't see the problem."

G. K. Chesterton



There is no index of character so sure as the voice.

Benjamin Disraeli



Humor has justly been regarded as the finest perfection of poetic genius.

Thomas Carlyle



A wise man makes his own decisions, an ignorant man follows the public opinion.

Chinese Proverb



Our minds work like a garden. It is fertile ground that accepts any and everything we plant. Good or evil, constructive or destructive, our lives will bear the fruit of the seeds we plant in our minds.

Ivanla Vanzant



You are not angry with people when you laugh at them. Humour teaches tolerance.

W. Somerset Maugham



Look at a day when you are supremely satisfied at the end. It's not a day when you lounge around doing nothing; it's when you've had everything to do, and you've done it.

Margaret Thatcher



Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.

Lao-Tzu



The strongest oak of the forest is not the one that is protected from the storm and hidden from the sun. It's the one that stands in the open where it is compelled to
struggle for existence against the winds and rains and the scorching sun.

Napoleon Hill



Every time I've done something that doesn't feel right, it's ended up not being right.

Mario Cuomo



I have learned to live each day as it comes, and not to borrow trouble by dreading tomorrow.

Dorothy Dix



Life is like a ten-speed bike. Most of us have gears we never use.

Charles Schultz



Sooner or later we must realize there is no station, no one place to arrive at once and for all. The true joy of life is the trip.

Robert J. Hastings



Courage is reclaiming your life after a devastating event robs you of your confidence and self-esteem. It is facing tomorrow with a firm resolve to reach deep within yourself to find another strength, another talent. It is taking yourself to another level of your own existence where you are once again, whole, productive, special.

Catherine Britton



A pessimist is someone who complains about the
noise when opportunity knocks.

Michael Levine



After climbing a great hill, one only finds that there are many more hills to climb. I have taken a moment here to rest, to steal a view of the glorious vista that surrounds me, to look back on the distance I have come. But I can rest only for a moment, for with freedom comes responsibilities, and I dare not linger, for my long walk is not yet ended.

Nelson Mandela



Let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is fear itself.

Franklin Roosevelt



Let us go forth with fear and courage and rage to save the world.

Grace Paley



People may doubt what you say, but they will believe what you do.

Lewis Cass



The beginning is always today.

Mary Wollstonecraft



True nobility is exempt from fear.

William Shakespeare, Henry VI



Ability may take you to the top, but it takes character to keep you there.

John Wooden



I never desire to converse with a man who has written more than he has read.

Samuel Johnson



Try something new....do a favor and don't expect one in return.

Author Unknown



We don't need to blame ourselves for everything that happens or
doesn't happen. We don't need to blame others either. The time we
spend in blaming could be used for solutions.

Melody Beattie



We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are.

Anais Nin



I have accepted fear as a part of life -specifically the fear of change. I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back.

Erica Jong



People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither
does bathing that's why we recommend it daily. JUST DO IT

Zig Ziglar



Dreams, indeed, are ambition; for the very substance of the ambitious is merely the shadow of a dream. And I hold ambition of so airy and light a quality that it is but a shadow's shadow.

William Shakespeare



Just how & when we tell the truth - or keep silent - can often reveal the difference between genuine integrity & none at all.

Bill Wilson



Why is it so difficult to realize that others are more likely to listen to us if first we listen to them.

John Wooden



The person who seeks all their applause from outside has their happiness in another's keeping.

Claudius Claudianus



Adversity is the first path to truth.

Byron



Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you respond to it.

Charles Swindoll



We should have no regrets. The past is finished.
There is nothing to be gained by going over it.
Whatever it gave us in the experiences it brought
us was something we had to know.

Rebecca Beard



A person who doubts himself is like a man who would enlist in the ranks of his enemies and bear arms agains himself. He makes his failure certain by himself being the first person to be convinced of it.

Dumas, Alexandre (père)



Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance.

Author Unknown



True humility is intelligent self respect which keeps us from thinking too highly of ourselves. …it makes us modest & respectful of others.

Ralph W. Sockman



My opinion is that you never find happiness until you stop looking for it.

Chuang Tzu



The nobler a man, the harder it is for him to suspect inferiority in others.

Cicero



There will come a time when you think everything is finished. That will be the beginning

Louis L'Amour



A closed mouth gathers no feet.

Author Unknown



Men often oppose a thing merely because they have had no agency in planning it, or because it may have been planned by those whom they dislike.

Alexander Hamilton



The next time you feel unhappy, take a close look. You will detect its link with something that has already happened or that you think will happen. The two terrible thieves of happiness are regret of the past, and fear of the future. These thieves operate in the dark, that is, unconsciously. Self-observation exposes them to the light of awareness.

Author Unknown



Life can be hard, but we don't have to make it more difficult by neglecting ourselves.

Melody Beattie



He that fears not the future may enjoy the present.

Thomas Fuller



People have to find the way to the bottom of their soul before they can start to build an honest life.

T. Jordan



When you recover or discover something that nourishes your soul and brings joy, care enough about yourself to make room for it in your life.

Jean Shinoda Bolen



I generally avoid temptation unless I can't resist it.

Mae West



I believe that every single event in life happens as an opportunity to choose love over fear.

Oprah Winfrey



With time and patience the mulberry leaf becomes a silk gown.

Chinese proverb



We are born believing. A man bears beliefs, as a tree bears beauty.

Ralph Waldo Emerson



It is the Law that any difficulties that can come to you at any time, no matter what they are, must be exactly what you need most at the moment, to enable you to take the next step forward by overcoming them. The only real misfortune,
the only real tragedy, comes when we suffer without learning the lesson.

Emmet Fox



But as I look back at my life, it is easy to see that the times when my wisdom and understanding grew to new levels; those times when I approached becoming the person I long to be; it was always the times that followed negative circumstances.

Vic Johnson



When in doubt, tell the truth.

Author Unknown



It is a wise father that knows his own child.

William Shakespeare



Caresses, expressions of one sort or another, are necessary to the life of the affections as leaves are to the life of a tree. If they are wholly restrained, love will die at the roots.

Nathaniel Hawthorne



If you are all wrapped up in yourself, you are way overdressed.

Jane Anne Clark



Face your deficiencies and acknowledge them; but do not let them master you. Let them teach you patience, sweetness, insight... When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in
the life of another.

Helen Keller



I believe the time we really look big in a child's eyes is when we go to them and apologize for our mistakes and we say, "I was wrong. Will you forgive me?

Kevin Leman



The secret of success is constancy of purpose.

Benjamin Disraeli



If you haven't forgiven yourself something, how can you forgive others?

Dolores Huerta



The rule of friendship means there should be mutual sympathy between them, each supplying what the other lacks and trying to benefit the other, always using friendly and sincere words.

Cicero



Mistakes are painful when they happen, but years later a collection of mistakes is what is called experience.

Denis Waitley



During the past several years I have heard many people try to explain their personal failures. Here are just a few examples. "Things are totally out of my control. Whatever will be will be." "I guess I must be a bad person since so many bad things happen to me." "Change is too tough. I'm not sure I have the will power." "Nobody wants to help me and I certainly can't succeed on my own."

Self-criticism is a barrier to change that must be removed. And I believe you already have the talents and qualities necessary for achievement. Why am I so convinced? Because I believe you posses the greatest power - the power to choose.

Transformation should not be something that happens "to" us, but a change we initiate. If we can learn to reprogram our computer, why can't we reprogram ourselves? As columnist Sidney Harris states, "Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we want is for things to remain the same but to get better."

Today, instead of looking for and excuse to explain your errors and failures, be willing to change.

Neil Eskelin



If you want to see the sun shine, you have to weather the storm.

Frank Lane



50) For many people, the three most difficult words to say are these: "I was wrong." They will invent excuses, deflect blame or simply remain silent to avoid confessing they are at fault. We know that confession is good for the soul, but it's certainly tough on the ego.

Author Unknown



49) Once you face your fear, nothing is ever as hard as you think.

Olivia Newton-Jonn



48) People may doubt what you say, but they will believe what you do.

Lewis Cass



47) The best part of beauty is that which no picture can express.

Francis Bacon



46) Stress is an ignorant state. It believes that everything is an emergency.

Natalie Goldberg



45) One problem with gazing too frequently into the past is that we may turn around to find the future has run out on us.

Michael Cibenko



44) Dream is not a revelation. If a dream affords the dreamer some light on himself, it is not the person with closed eyes who makes the discovery but the person with open eyes lucid enough to fit thoughts together.

Author Unknown



43) I have noted that persons with bad judgment are most insistent that we do what they think best.

Lionel Abel



42) Might we not say that every child at play behaves like a creative writer, in that he creates a world of his own, or, rather, rearranges the things of his world in a new way which pleases him?...The creative writer does the same as the child at play.

Freud



41) Laziness is a secret ingredient that goes into failure, but it's only kept a secret from the person who fails.

Robert Half



40) Silence fertilizes the deep place where personality grows. A life with a peaceful center can weather all storms.

Norman Vincent Peale



39) I am a big believer in the 'mirror test'. All that matters is if you can look in the mirror and honestly tell the person you see there, that you've done your best.

John McKay



38) When nobody around you seems to measure up, it's time to check your yardstick.

Bill Lemley



37) If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up.

J.M. Power



36) Integrity is telling myself the truth. Honesty is telling the truth to other people.

Spencer Johnson



35) God listens to my prayers, but He watches my feet.

Author Unknown



34) No change of circumstances can repair a defect of character.

Ralph Waldo Emerson



33) Almost any difficulty will move in the face of honesty. When I am honest I never feel stupid. And when I am honest I am automatically humble.

Hugh Prather



32) There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity. People who do not experience self-love have little or no capacity to love others.

Nathaniel Branden



31) Poetry begins in delight and ends in wisdom.

Robert Frost



30) The privilege of a lifetime is to be yourself.

Joseph Campbell



29) Character is always lost when a high ideal is sacrificed on the alters of conformity and popularity.

William Arthur Ward



28) If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way
you think about it

Mary Engelbreit



27) Begin somewhere; you cannot build a reputation on what you intend to do.

Liz Smith



26) When you are younger, you worry about what people think about you. When you are older, you realize that no one was ever thinking about you at all.

Brian Tracy



25) In the final analysis it is not what you do for your children but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings.

Ann Landers



24) When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete, everybody will respect you.

Lao Tzu



23) We say we waste time, but that is impossible. We waste ourselves.

Alice Bloch



22) When I am using all my energy to get other people to act a certain way, the problem is me and my need for control.

Author Unknown



21) Fear is always a dead end. Faith always has a future.

Joyce Meyers



20) Until you value yourself, you won't value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it.

M Scott Peck



19) Often we seek to grow or change ourselves by adjusting the external aspects of our lives. We all too often forget that permanent or real change only comes when the center of our being, our inner drives and motivations, undergoes transformation.

Errol Strider



18) Let us look at our own faults, and not other people's. We ought not to insist on everyone following in our footsteps, nor to take upon ourselves to give instructions in spirituality or how others should feel or behave. All we can do is share our experience, not try to control others experience.

Saint Theresa of Lisieux



17) The greater the sense of guilt, the greater the need to place the blame.

Author Unknown



16) The road leading to a goal does not separate you from the destination; it is essentially a part of it.

Charles DeLint



15) Success is that peace of mind that comes from knowing you've done everything in your power to become the very best you're capable of becoming.

John Wooden



14) Criticizing another's garden does not keep the weeds out of yours.

Author Unknown



13) The fewer clear facts you have in support of an opinion, the stronger your emotional attachment to that opinion.

Author Unknown



12) When you blame others, you give up your power to change.

Author unknown



11) I'm worried that the universe will soon need replacing. It's not holding a charge.

Edward Chilton



10) The greatest grief's are those we cause ourselves.

Sophocles



9) Thoughts, positive or negative, grow stronger when fertilized with constant repetition.

Author unknown



8) The voyage of discovery lies not in finding new landscapes, but in having new eyes.

Marcel Proust



7) Procrastination is the thief of time.

Edward Young



6) A Great Spirit always experiences opposition coming from mediocre minds.

Einstein



5) You don't know where you are until you know where you have been.

Barbara Streisand



4) Isn't he a bit like you and me.

John Lennon



3) It is not the perfect picture we are looking for, but rather time spent to be captured.

Author unknown



2) If we seek to be loved, if we expect to be loved - this cannot be accomplished; we will be dependent and grasping, not genuinely loving.

M. Scott Peck, M.D.



1) Remember, Ginger Rogers did everything Fred Astaire did, but she did it backwards and in high heels.

Faith Whitlesey
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