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A change

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How do you effectively make a change in your life or in anything you do? (i.e. a habit, a routine, a system, etc)

First of all I think a lot about it, do research if it’s a change of housing, jobs that kind of thing. Then I simmer a lot on it. I work on it internally, probably talk some with others about it. But then suddenly, out of the blue I make the change. The actual point of making the change is always somewhat abrupt.

For instance, because I was busy in my mind thinking about my sister and her ex-boyfriend, I suddenly thought about my own circumstances and decided, out of the blue, that I didn’t want to be alone for the rest of my life. So on a Sunday afternoon I suddenly subscribed to an online dating site. Monday morning M. reacted, and the rest is history. I found my true love. The actual point of changing something dramatically in my life was made in minutes.