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Kit's Korner

by Kit_Carmelite

Rated: 13+ · Book · Inspirational · #1986033

I’d rather write than talk. Nobody interrupts! Posting monthly or less now--see below.

My original purpose for this blog, which I started in August of 2019, was to see if I could maintain consistency, to discover what I want to write about, and to find my writing voice. In January, I started a "niche-less" blog at Wordpress.com where I've published weekly. -- Kit’s Kontemplations

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I'm preparing to start a Catholic blog on Wordpress.com where I'll post weekly, and another site to put the rest of my writing. I also want to spend more time reading other blogs and offering thoughtful comments, both here on WDC and elsewhere. At most, I will publish once a month at no set time in this blog starting in September of 2020.

Thank you to those who have read and rated any posts on this blog. I really appreciate it.

I did NOT want to write “about” me on this blog. I wanted to share my interests, discoveries and maybe a few useful insights. If anything I've written helps even one person, whether or not they respond to the post, then this blog has been successful.

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10 Most Recent Blog Comments:

Kit_Carmelite

Aug 23, 2020 at 10:02pm
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Hi Kare,

You're exactly right. One size does NOT fit all. Each of the brainwave types have different functions. I use the Delta ones when I want to fall asleep, the Theta ones when I want to meditate. I focused on the Alpha ones in this post because they have a wide range of functions. I was especially interested in how they help creativity.

Kåre Enga in Udon Thani

Aug 23, 2020 at 6:43pm
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You do very well researching and presenting what you find but I'm still confused as to why I'd want Alpha waves over the others.

Since I live with depression, anxiety, and occasionally triggered traumas, I'm skeptical of anything with a 'one size fits all' approach.

I looked up the 5 brain waves. Not sure how they apply to me ... except that I'm too alert to sleep well. I'm a big daydreamer which I explain as "motor is running; car is not in gear".

Kit_Carmelite

Aug 11, 2020 at 11:41pm
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I sent you an email this time instead of replying here. 😃

Kit_Carmelite

Aug 11, 2020 at 11:40pm
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I admire your writing productivity, Most of my writing has been blog posts and a few essays for WDC contests. I'm not interested in fiction and only experimented with poetry. I'm drawn to non-fiction.

I keep a list of what I want to get done but I don't plan each hour. It's more like blocks of time.

Kåre Enga in Udon Thani

Aug 9, 2020 at 7:16pm
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1. I write better when I'm depressed. When I travel my creative juices go into photography and I'm a chatter-box connecting with people. I prefer strangers. At home I withdraw and write.

2. Money?

Yes, I know some people do that but I'm a creative writer not a journalist. Poetry sells ... but it's a money-maker for only a few. I write A LOT. Almost 180 pieces since Spring equinox. My goal is 300-400 per year. One year I went over 1,000. I need to do more editing, polishing, sharing, submitting. Writer's block? Who has time for that? I don't.

3. Love prompts. Love whatever comes to mind. Holding it in or holding it back = big mistake.

Persuant to #3 ... I am learning Norwegian. I do something every day. I am editing photos I took in Taiwan in February ... every day. I need to either go out or take a walk every day. I clean??? Well, that's the problem. I am overwhelmed. Which pertains to your approach to writing.

A. I have put a max (not a minimum) on my time spent cleaning (dishes don't count; they must be done regardless). If I don't I either don't clean or I wear myself out and things don't get done.
B. Enough is enough. Progress not end product. "It's better than before" is my mantra. Otherwise ... I give up before I start.
C. Very loose plan. I do whatever comes to mind. I try not to spend too much time planning instead of 'doing'.

Writing for me is 'vomit on a page ... clean up later'. Taking the same approach to cleaning is helping me overcome my barriers.

I'm trying to balance my life a bit. Not too much because ... that's not me. I don't want a 24 hour scheduled day. 'Things' would get 'done' but I'd be a cipher or numb.

Kåre Enga in Udon Thani

Aug 3, 2020 at 12:14am
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I have a weekly 'portal' in my "Porthole" blog (yes, I know that may be confusing).

I made lists of my blogs, poems, flash fictions, et cetera ... mostly to keep track! I get turned around and miss dealines if I don't.

But then ... mid-July I realized that I'm really unbalanced. My travels help with meeting people, planning, overcoming small obstacles, photography and movement (I rarely gain weight when I travel). And here I was sitting at home!

So ... I was getting up and doing the dishes; but, I decided to keep track of whether or not I went out (that's at least 42 steps down and miraculous 42 steps up). I keep track of my Norwegian lessons, and photo editing from previous trips. I also decided that I need to clean about 30 minutes max (because I'll go 'manic' and wear myself out and then do nothing for a week).

Depression and anxiety have been problems for years. This covid-19 situation makes it worse.

Everyone has their own imbalances so it's nice to read that I'm not the only one.

Kåre Enga in Udon Thani

Jul 12, 2020 at 2:15am
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1. I write because at times I am compelled to (inner reasons). I write as therapy. I write to connect to others. I write because I have to (contests). I write more when I'm bored (like now), daydreaming, depressed.

Not to: sell a product, make money, have a 'job'.

2. At times very important because emotions can well up and at least a good cry or rant lets it out. Once 'outside of me' I can then decide what to do with it.

Not: when my anxiety is high or when I'm meeting lots of interesting people on my travels (I do write some and jot down notes but photos become more important).

3. I love certain types of mysteries-detective stories and sci-fi-fantasy and all types of poetry, but I'll read a mix when I'm in the mood for reading. But reading and writing are two different questions. I write poetry, flash fiction. I tend to be lyrical. I focus more on characters than action. I read news and op-eds but write rants.

Not: shallow tourist blogs 'I'm 20 and looking for beer, sex, action' or 'I have thousands of dollars to miss-spend on a luxurious catered vacation' or 'I have something to sell you'. Don't read or write much romance or western and don't write much humor or suburban or millenial angst. I avoid conspiracy theories; they give me headaches.

So there I am.

Now I need to copy/paste and put it in my personal blog to contemplate and revise.

Kit_Carmelite

Jul 5, 2020 at 8:42pm
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I want to write every day but I struggle to come up with something to write about. I have my pen and notebook in hand then feel "frozen". Even having prompts don't help.

Kåre Enga in Udon Thani

Jul 5, 2020 at 2:05am
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I write to connect to myself and others. I write when inspired and when I'm not inspired. I write crap knowing that some days it's much better than that. I'm old, pensioned and don't need to aswer to no one. Yes, I'm fine with double negatives. I write mostly fiction. Language is my creative tool.

Editing later is very good advice. The internal critic need to shut up. This is not grade school where one has to write a perfect essay in 2O minutes about a topic one knows nothing about or cares about even less. Just my opinion.

Kit_Carmelite

Jun 23, 2020 at 8:25pm
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No advice "fits all sizes". There are periods when "write every day" sounds inspiring and other times when it feels like a ploy to make me feel guilty or inadequate. I'd like to write more than I do yet I put off doing it without knowing why - especially when I always feel better afterward

January 10, 2020 at 3:11pm

#973110

Why I don’t expect to be a successful writer

I’ve been reading Jeff Goins book {/u}You Are a Writer (So Start Acting Like One) {/u} and I like the point he makes that if all we do is talk, think and read about writing, then we’re not writers. We’re writers if we write. Like so many other writers, he says we need to write at least 300 words every day. It doesn’t have to be good - it just needs to be words on the page (or screen). Makes sense to me. I’m not a guitarist if I never play my guitar, however badly, to start with.

Then he says, we need to share our writing with others - to put it out there. I’m OK with that. I’m a member of Writing.com, I enter contests and I have this blog where I publish posts twice a week. I plan to start a blog on WIX or Wordpress.com within the next month. So I’m OK with putting my writing in a public place. When he talks about the lifestyle of a successful writer, including speaking engagements, travel and even offers from publishers, I want to put on the emergency brake and jump out of the vehicle.

Am I afraid of success in writing? Probably, even though it’s extremely unlikely that I’ll ever be what most would call a “successful writer”. This is because I live a hidden life and I want to keep it that way . I don’t want to have the pressure of deadlines, combined with writers’ block I have no interest whatever in getting into the aspects of being “successful” that have nothing to do with the actual writing.

I have a talent for writing and the willingness to work at it. People who’ve read my stuff have found it enjoyable and interesting. I’m not going to be “successful” by most people’s definition because I don’t want to follow the rules - and I don’t mean grammar rules. I don’t want to have my own name or picture on my blog. I don’t want to “market” myself and I could care less about SEO. I don’t want to sell anything through affiliate marketing, at least not now. I don’t want to be “branded”. I may be overweight at times in my life, but I’m not a cow. I’ll share my posts on a couple of social media networks and whoever is meant to find my articles will come across them and hopefully be intrigued, amused or even inspired.

I definitely don’t follow the crowd and my views on a lot of things are counter-cultural. I expect most people to disagree with me on almost everythng. That’s fine with me — I just don’t care to hear about it. So there’s another rule broken. It wouldn’t be because of arrogance or because I think my opinions are the right ones that I might opt to disable comments. It would be because I’ve got more important and interesting things to spend my energy on than arguing with someone when it wouldn’t make any difference anyway.

Even an article that comes across as persuasive isn’t motivated by a desire to change anyone’s mind about the topic. I want to explain why I believe a certain thing based on what I’m learning. My reasons may have the weight of a hammer for me and the weight of a feather for you. But you’ll come away knowing that at least I’ve given plenty of thought and hopefully expressed my ideas in a clear logical way.

Sources:

You Are a Writer (So Start Acting Like One)

Jeff Goins’ blog

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