Dear Amy

Dear Amy,

My husband is driving me crazy. All in the little things, like how he says he's going upstairs to get something, but returns less than 5 minutes later, not doing what he said he'd do, but obsessing about something that needs to be done. Tonight I told him at dinner he's a little OCD and he didn't deny it. He doesn't really know if he is or not, but I wouldn't be surprised. Is there any way to turn his powers to good? They're great at work, and he's amazing at what he does, but at home, I could use a break.

Frustrated in Fantasyland