Story Cafe

I'm sure you must have been told this a million times,but if you can't learn to respect yourself, nobody else will. Your dislike of yourself comes from the fact that you are not following the rules which you would like to govern your life. Sit down and think about what those rules are and learn to live by them. Reading something like 'The Moral Animal' by Robert Wright may help you to understand the totally different instinctive drives which motivate men and women. Go talk to your grandmother and grandfather about people; this will help a lot. Ordinary people are better psychologists than trained psychologists. If boys think you're easy,they'll chase after you. Have patience; Mr Right is out there. Get it wrong and you will wreck your life.
jim