Romance/Love: November 29, 2011 Issue [#4746]
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 This week: The Love of a True Friend
  Edited by: Lonewolf
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About This Newsletter

I thought I would explore the love of a good friend in this Newsletter due to the loss of a couple of friends just before Thanksgiving.

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Letter from the editor

A friend is someone who dances with you in the sunlight, And walks with you in the shadows.

We all want to have true friends, but the quality of our friends depend on us. If you want to have true friends, you should be a true friend yourself. By being a true friend, people will love to be around you and many of them will eventually become your true friends.

In addition, being a true friend is a good way to solve relationship problems. It's difficult to change other people, but you can always change yourself. You can then solve the otherwise unsolved problems in relationships.

How can we find true friendship in this often phony, temporary world? Friendship involves recognition or familiarity with another's personality. Friends often share likes and dislikes, interests, pursuits, and passion.

How can we recognize potential friendship? Signs include a mutual desire for companionship and perhaps a common bond of some kind. Beyond that, genuine friendship involves a shared sense of caring and concern, a desire to see one another grow and develop, and a hope for each other to succeed in all aspects of life. True friendship involves action: doing something for someone else while expecting nothing in return; sharing thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or negative criticism.

Trust is essential to true friendship. We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations. We need to be able to share our deepest secrets with someone, without worrying that those secrets will end up on the Internet the next day! Failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a friendship in a hurry. Faithfulness and loyalty are key to true friendship. Without them, we often feel betrayed, left out, and lonely. In true friendship, there is no backbiting, no negative thoughts, no turning away.

True friendship requires certain accountability factors. Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops. We love our friends no matter what and we always want the best for our friends.

I have had a few good friends in my life and recently two of them have passed on. Their loss has left me hollow inside. I don’t really know what to feel at the moment it is still new. I pray everyone has at some point been able to have a true friend.

Editor's Picks

 A sailor and the lady of the lake  (E)
a friendship without words
#958632 by AnnaFassbender

 Letter of Memory  (ASR)
to one of my muses
#297611 by Vanillafire

Dedicated to my best friend.
#906893 by AuntyNelly

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#636702 by Not Available.

dinner with friends
#557972 by Literate Bear

Best Friend  (E)
The friendship between me and my best friend.
#567212 by Kings

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