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Printed from https://www.writing.com/main/books/entry_id/344920-930AM-Teens-in-general-today-pt3-Sex
by Fig
Rated: 18+ · Book · Teen · #956453
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#344920 added May 13, 2005 at 2:31pm
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9:30AM Teens in general today... pt.3 Sex
Hey peoples...Today's topic; Teens in general today... pt.3 Sex .

Oral sex! I see no problem with it! What's wrong with a little h***job or b***job. Small thing. What's wrong with playing with the opposites sex genitals be it their breasts, vagina or penis. Why do people overreact? You wanna know why... this is why...

Isn't sex sacred anymore? I thought sex was when two people who love and care about each other and was at least in a holy union with one another came together, as an act to show that they are not only going to give their mind to that one person, but their body as well. Sex was supposed to be something sacred, well not sacred, but at least something special. Notice when i said that i kept saying was. This is because that is no longer how society/the world views it. Sex is something that is done a regular. It is no longer a special moment between two people.. no it's far from that. Now, it's just something you do when you're at a party. If a guy sese someone in a party who he thinks is hot, after a couple of drinks and making them laugh a bit the girl thinks he's cute and she's more than willing to give herself to him because he made her laugh and bought her some drinks, so they go to the bedroom and they have a 'one night stand'. Nothing complex, just sex for one night and then they probaly never see each other again. Why do people do this...? I can't seem to understand... Oh! and for all of you who didn't know out there oral sex IS a form of sex.

There are so many things i want to say on this topic i don't know where to start. Okay, for one thing why are people having such casual sex if they KNOW about all of the dangers in the world right now? You know about the STD's (Sexual Transmitted Diseases) in the world! Of course everyone knows the #1 STD which is AIDS, but then there are others such as Crabs, Gonorrhoea, Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B,Hepatitis C (yes there ARE 3 kinds),Herpes, Scabies, Syphilis, Warts and these are naming the popular ones. What about the others you don't know about like Chancroid, Chlamydia, Trichomoniasis etc.? You're well aware of ALL these things yet you're STILL risking your health for what? The simple thrill of putting your penis into a vagina or getting a penis pushed into your vagina? No, i'm not censoring this post because if you're brave enough to be doing this, then you should have no problem reading this. Once again i hope people understand that i am not writing this and pointing fingers at everybody in the world saying that they're doing something bad. There's no way i could possible do that. I'm writing this for the people who are guilty of doing these things, i'm pleading to alyuh stop it... look at these statistics:

Number of people living with HIV/AIDS in 2004

Adults 37.2 million
Women 17.6 million
Children <15 2.2 million


People newly infected with HIV in 2004

Adults 4.3 million
Children <15 0.64 million


AIDS deaths in 2004

Adults 2.6 million
Children <15 0.51 million


These figures are ridiculous... That's ALOT of deaths and infections. And these are only estimates because there alot of people in the world who has AIDS but don't say they have it, so they're not recorded. People aren't realising the seriousness of their actions. We're wiping ourselves out for some simple pleasure/desire? And more than 75% of the time people say that they don't enjoy it.

"It's not good because there's no special connection between us. I remember when i was with my woman and we were having sex, it used to be so good, like i used to see fireworks and all sorts of stuff, even though it didn't last long it used to be amazing. But, now all of these other girls, it's just like nothing to me... they don't even show some form of satisfaction they just lie there..."

I not saying how other generations weren't as promiscuous as this current one. Of course they were! Dare i say they were even worse? Need i mention the infamous disco era in the 1970's-1980's? There was alot of casual sex going on without the uses of condoms or any other form of contraceptives. But, this was before the massive AIDS scare (Well actually people were still having casual sex when AIDS came out in the early 1980's, but it was widely thought that it was only spread among gay people), my point is our generation just taking it a step further. Aside from the whole STD's thing our generation is having sex at young ages like 11 and sometimes even younger. I'm not talking about rape cases, that's an entirely different topic altogether...damn sickos..., i'm talking about those young 12 and 13 year olds that WANT sex from older men and vice versa. Quoting from a Dr. Andrea Pennington, she commented,

"Over the past 20 years we have seen the average age for teenagers engaging in sexual activity grow younger and younger. It is no longer unusal to find boys and girls starting out as young as 12 years old. In parts of Europe and the United States Of America studies have shown that increasing numbers of the country's youngest teens ARE having oral sex. Kids have convinced themselves that it is not really sex. According to one of the survey out of 10,000 girls 80 percent said they were virgins, but 25 percent had oral sex. 27 percent said oral sex was something that you do with a guy for fun."

Do you have any idea how young a 12 year old is? If you have a child or a younger sibling, i'm sure you could imagine what i mean. Could you imagine a little child as that having sex? Hard to imagine, but yea it happens and its happening alot and its simply a way of life in society today.

Maybe i'm overreacting over this. Maybe i'm making too big a deal. Maybe I'M the one who's wrong. Who's me to tell all of you you're doing nonsense. I've never experienced it, i don't know what i'm missing out. I'm just sitting here on my high horse preaching nonsense... I mean EVERYONE is doing it. For all you teens out there, you CANNOT tell me you don't have ONE friend who is under 20 and having sex, be it protected or unprotected. If you could say, 'You're wrong Floyd. I do not have any friends who are practicing any form of sex.' then I have the world of respect for you and i'm sorry for saying that. Who am I to stop someone from doing something they enjoy doing? I'm not a priest. I'm not a doctor. I'm not a lecturer. I'm not a physician. I'm not even a police officer. I'm just a normal teen who's looking around and wondering why is the world this way... and whether i'm wrong for not just accepting it and trying to follow the world and its ways...

I could tie in this topic with the topic It's embaressing to be a virgin. IS it embaressing to be a virgin? For me, at times YES. Cause when people are talking about their experiences etc. I just sit on the side and listen and I'm not able to add anything to the conversation because I have no experience myself. And the people I'm referring to is the everyday people I see and talk with, they're not older or younger, they're my peers and they talk about it casually like its nothing. Sure I like listening to their stories/experiences and I laugh and joke around with them. But, I don't jump in and start to preach to them about how they should stop what they're doing and stop having sex and it's wrong and bla bla bla. Cuz if i DO do that they'd just watch me and tell me 'F*** you' or something along those lines. Sure I know what they're doing is wrong and they're screwing up their lives by risking so much, but i'm not going to play 'Super Virgin' and try to change people's minds. They're old enough to know what they're doing and they know the consequences of their actions... They chose to do what they're doing and it's obvious they are liking it and they aren't going to stop. AND i KNOW they know about all of the STDs and stuff, but then again, WHAT ARE CONDOMS FOR! AND BIRTH CONTROL PILLS!. Being a virgin is hard cuz people would just say you're hopeless and 'ketch kicks off yuh', but I just suck it in and continue along my way. I mean there ARE other people who have my beliefs, but the majority of the people in the world holds the belief that nothing wrong with a lil sex and it's 'not going to kill anyone'.... Before I end off here's a lil 'joke' I often hear when people talk,

"It real funny too eh. Cuz all the time she was a virgin, not going round no man and ting. We used to Call the girl Ms. nun and ting. Nex ting yuh know the ONE fella she was wit and she end f***ing and d gyul get infected oui. Tis sad, but funny at the same."


'A person is smart .... people are dumb. Everything they've ever known has been proven wrong. Two hundred years ago white people KNEW that black people were stupid and would amount to nothing. Thirty years ago people KNEW that a floppy disk was the best portable storage media. Twenty years ago people KNEW that AIDS could only be spread through gay people. Five minutes ago when you first started reading this topic and you read the first paragraph you KNEW that I liked oral sex. Imagine what you'll KNOW in the next 10 seconds... Floyd Banks fully promotes abstinence


I'm out peoples. I'm sure I could probaly write more on this topic, Meanwhile i hope you keep on checking in to read my blog and keep promoting me!! I'M TRYING TO MAKE PROGRESS WIT MY BLOG HERE!!! MAKE W.COM NOTICE ME!!!!

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