Each Day Already is a Challenge

One Heart at a Time

They say there is a tomb of an Anglican Bishop in Westminster Abbey where these words are inscribed:

“When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits, I dreamed of changing the world.

As I grew older and wiser I discovered the world would not change –
So I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country, but it too seemed immovable.

As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt, I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me, but alas, they would have none of it.

And now I realize as I lie on my deathbed, if I had only changed myself first, then by example I might have changed my family. From their inspiration and encouragement I would then have been able to better my country,

And who knows, I might have even changed the world.”

What wise words they are! The only person we can truly change is ourself. But in really trying to change, in trying to have God's heart when we interact with people around us, others are bound to notice. And they are more apt to mimic our behavior.

Both smiles and frowns are contagious. Wouldn't you rather see smiles? Both kindness and rage are easily shared and multiplied.

As the year draws to a close we ponder about the impact we have or have not had on the world around us, as we begin planning and making goals for the coming year and beyond, this bishop's wise words should be inscribed upon our hearts.

We can all make a difference, if we first learn to nurture ourselves.