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Sharing experience and strength offers hope to those who seek wisdom.

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THE GIFT OF EXPERIENCE: HOPE PREVAILS



Hope is the reasonable expectation that something good is going to happen. Without hope, our lives seem desolate and empty. Hope has enabled me to overcome extraordinary amounts of adversity. A good friend pointed out that my circumstances were given to me because I am here to help others. If you are reading this then you should know my faith is strong, and it has only been through the grace of God that these experiences have not overwhelmed me. Welcome.
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January 27, 2013 at 11:17am
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The last romantic relationship of which I was a part engulfed me. I was finally a part of something bigger than myself. Most of my life had been spent mostly caring for myself, and then when he was born, caring for my son. Many of us know that the love of a parent and child is very strong, a bond that can never be broken. That is not to what I am referring. No. This love was magical, the love between a man and a woman who share a deep passion for one another. It was a fervor so powerful that we did everything with intense emotion, from loving to arguing to having child-like fun. Those six years were the most trying, most rewarding times of my life.

I have learned a lot about myself since we have broken up. I have had two years to ponder things: what happened, what I was doing to cause a stir in the relationship, where I went astray. You see, it was one of those relationships that, when things got heated in an argument, there was no "time out" to ponder what was said and decide if I was wrong. I am a person who desperately needs that time out to figure out if I am the one who is offensive and mistreating. If I realize I am the one to blame, I will gladly admit it and apologize for my actions, words or intentions. Without that time, though, everything was compounded and it became a shouting match. That is no way for two adults who love one another to behave.

Since I have had all this time to think, to be alone, to discover ME without a partner, I am realizing that a lot of it was my fault. It is too late for that relationship now, but for the future, should I meet another someone, I will make "timeouts" a mandatory priority. We teach our children to do that when they are angry, so why don't we do it ourselves? My hope for future love is that I will be understood, and that my timeout periods will be honored. I believe that will serve to diminish many needless arguments.


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