Self-deceiving

One will feel the pain in love only if it is one that doesn't reciprocate. Too much ink has already been spilled on that topic and yet there are still so many people out there continue to suffer from the same kind of pain. We can therefore take it as a natural phenomenon in life. At least to the ordinary folks, it is.

A natural phenomenon as the pain in love may be, very few people have ever thought about why their love has been an one way street, and why they have been pained by it and what they can do about it. There are many good things, nice words being written about love but how often are they true?

My point is love and handling the pain of love (or unreciprocated love) are two very different things. People tend to mix them up.