My Newbie is Showing...Part 3

Another Lesson Learned.

I used to leave all the funeral and going through the stuff to someone else for a reason.
Being responsible for someone else's last wishes is so weird.
Forgiving and asking forgiveness from a memory is so weird.
I have known Brian for 30 years and he was so absolutely private that he died with no one knowing how serious his medical condition was.
He was so eager to please, he would do whatever was requested of him rather than say otherwise. If he said he retired, he might not have gotten sick and might not have died.
The lesson I learned from all this is: speak up for what is best for you (or your spouse).
Be a blessing, not a curse, to those around you.