Roadblocks and Obstacles

Must we always get our way

                    Must we always get our way.?

          How do we view the conflicts that
we have with others and ourselves?
          Is it a problem to be solved by them
or us?
          Do we look for the best solution or
just avoid the conflict as if it didn't
happen?
          How does the position that we take,
damage the relationship that we have
with others?
          Are some just so-so while others
couldn't be better?
          In our relationships, do we look at
just satisfying the needs of others and
avoiding the needs that we have?
         Are we the type of person, who is
sensitive to the needs of others?
          How does it hurt our own self-image
or self-esteem?
          How completely honest are we about
the feelings that we have?
          What negative feelings will we have
if our relationships are not satisfying?
          How do we have healthy relationships
that have healthy conflicts?
          What is in control of our feelings?
Are there positive feelings full of love
or are there negative feelings full of
hatred, anger, and anxiety?
          When we go to bed at night, are there
the feelings that we left something
undone?
          Is that because we are concerned about
the other person in some way?
          If there is a conflict with another,
how do you work to identify the problem
or the things that concern you or them?
          Are there different points of view that are
allowed to come out or is there just one
possible solution?
          How do we make the decision? How do we
know what solution is right?
          Is there a good, better, or best solution?
If there is how can the solution be brought
out to be worked on?
          As time passes, are the solutions looked on
to see how things were being worked out?
          What mistakes might be made along the
way?
          Would everyone be capable of making
them?
          Are the wants and needs of those in the
relationship being considered?
          Is there just the needs and wants of one
being met?
          If there is no movement, would it help
to list the good and bad ways of solving
a conflict on a piece of paper to see
what could be improved upon?