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I, Brother James, cultivated through my imagination 'The Word Courier's Journal'. It is but one of several literary efforts so conceived to include the "Word", the mind altering, eye opening, lifesaving Gospel of Jesus Christ into the everyday conversation on those things deemed relevant to readers. I and all other followers of the Lord are called to witness. Jesus said "Go therefore and teach all nations..." (see Matthew 28:19 KJV Holy Bible) Here lies my modest attempt to introduce the unknowing people to the Lord and immerse they who know Him in discussion with respect to His outlook on all that matters. |
| I will go through hell for many but I won't go tohell for any |
| Our local (as opposed to web based) writer's group suggested a prompt for our April get together which happened to be virtual. The assignment was to write on this theme: "if you're alone how do you know you're lonely?" Here lies my response... I grappled with how to approach the topic of the evening; if you’re alone, how do you know if you’re lonely? This is quite the head scratcher. Or is it? Like everything else in my universe, this issue revolves around reading and writing. Often, I sit down to write pen in hand or stationed at my p.c. and nothing comes of it. I either draw a blank or have several incoherent themes written down that don’t add up to a story. Then, as soon as I began doing something else, my brain releases enlightenment that it refused to reveal to me at my desk. While cleaning the bathroom sink, I recalled one of the loneliest people in all of literature; Miss Emily the lady who inspired the story “A Rose for Emily.” Emily’s biopic is among my forthcoming Super 7 short story list. I first read about her in high school. I wrote in her Super 7 summary that “I was then unaware of being introduced to a character type in fiction that I would encounter in my nonfictional adult life.” Emily came from a reputable family, but they weren’t royalty by any stretch. Still, she and her dad believed no suiter was good enough. That’s why the towns people thought they “held themselves a little too high for what they really were.” (Quote from the story) And there lies the answer as to how she arrived at her pathetic end. Emily’s example shows that being alone for so long can cause someone to lose sight of reality. She believed herself to be something she clearly was not. Hers was an extreme isolation that brought about a detachment from reality that bordered on madness. It seemed as if her loneliness drove her stark raving crazy. She went from promising youth to pathetic old maid because she was too far removed from the reality. The notions of grandeur stirred by a delusional confederate pedigree of a bygone era led her to be alone and not realize the need for others until it was too late. I know Miss Emily is fictional but less extreme examples of her are all too real. It’s as if being alone and being so numbs one to the point that they’re lonely. An immense lack of self-awareness can creep in when no one else is there to challenge it. This creates a strange paradox where people don’t know they’re lonely but do feel lonely. And those who feel lonely will act it out in some manner. The one who’s alone must look outside of self and determine if they do what those who feel lonely do. For example, would they lose out on someone who would love them to get everyone else to like them? Do they make it a point to look or feel like they’re part of the crowd? These are the signs of those who feel lonely but would deny being so. People may not necessarily know what they are but be assured they know what they feel and what they do. And by being aware of how one feels and the actions that one takes, it’s possible for those who are alone to determine if they’re lonely. Of course, another thought that comes to mind is why so many married people seem lonely. But that’s gist for another essay. |
| Some of us are wondering when we will return to normal. We must understand though we’re not returning to “normal.” We can’t return to a place we never left. Normal isn’t set in stone. The one enduring trait about normality is its evolution. Normal continues to prove the adage “the more things change the more they stay the same.” Yet some still speak of returning to “normal” as in the pre-2020 Covid-19 era world. Others talk about the new normal. However, the next normal is upon us. The likelihood of returning to pre pandemic era ways is akin to going back to the 2019 calendar year. So as not to debate the point endlessly, I have come up with seven proposals for the back to normal crowd to make their case: Proposal #1 If you want to tell someone “normal” will return, give them a call on the nearest pay phone that you find outside. Proposal #2 It’s always a good ideal to state your point in person. So while you’re at the gas station tell this to the gas station attendant who wipes your windows after she fills up your gas tank. Proposal #3 It’s a good strategy to continually make your point within your mind. You can do this while thumbing through your copy of the Yellow Pages. Proposal #4 If you’re not comfortable speaking up, just have your middle school student child/grandchild/other explain your position in a handwritten (i.e.) cursive note. Proposal #5 Those of you employed at a real physical workplace i.e., non-virtual can make their argument to co workers as you stand in line at your job’s HR office while waiting for your paper paychecks to be handed out to you at the end of the week. Proposal #6 Include this in your social life. Discuss back to normal with your date before, during or after the movie you watch at the area’s drive in theatre. Proposal #7 Shop and chat. State your position about going back to normal to other bargain hunters while shopping at your local K-Mart. Better yet go to a nearby Sears store and do the same. There you have it, seven super ways for someone to make their case about a return to normal. No need to thank me. I’m just glad to help. |
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