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Jan 5, 2022 at 10:24am

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CoCoCruz

Jan 2, 2022 at 12:11pm

So you see I was supposed to see the new spiderman movie with my partner, and we had to reschedule due to covid outbreaks. So we were going to go sometime during this month. After maybe 3 days they tell me they are going to go see the new movie today, so automatically I say "I thought we were supposed to watch it together?" and they said "We still can, ill just watch it again" and I just said no. because why would I want to go see the new movie with someone who has already seen it. I am not trying to argue with them so I just said that's fine. but they do know it upsets me a little bit. So is this valid? Don't get me wrong I am so grateful for them, and I love them dearly. But it did hurt my feelings a little bit. But if I keep expressing that then I am see as "Crazy". and not to make things sound worse but they didn't even seemed like they care. first they said "Well i'm sorry" and when i said its fine Ill just watch it with other people, they just said, "Ok". Am I jealous... that i don't get to hang out with them as much? I just don't get why I was So upset about it. I don't know.... so much for "The magic".

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Jan 2, 2022 at 5:24pm

A relationship is about 2 people. Give and take.

For your own mental well-being, express how you feel and how you feel they let you down. Honesty is important as is airing, or else things fester and foment and it could become worse down the track.

In. My. Opinion.

buddhangela's Wounded Not Dead

Jan 2, 2022 at 10:07pm

Hey, I honestly had almost this exact same thing happen, and I get you! It was even a Marvel movie. It's totally valid that you're upset, because it's way more fun to experience a movie like that together the first time around with your partner, so you can both be excited and surprised and all the rest together. If your partner has already experienced it, then it's you experiencing it alone, even if they're there with you. Does that help you feel less crazy? Because them seeing it without you after you'd agreed to see it together means, in your relationship, you're both missing out. (In my humble opinion, anyway. My partner and I are together 30 CRAZY years on Jan 5 OMG.) So yeah -- talk to them about this. How you feel matters! Good luck!

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