Reflections: A Book

Un-Nepotize Me WOMAN!

Synopsis: Mother offered to pay for me to get my Life Insurance license in addition to the Health one I just got.

I had my interview with Bankers, it went well; not saying I'll make a career of it our even stick with it, but I crave the experience. But he wants me to get the Life license, not just Health.

I tell mom I want to get my Life lic.....she says she won't pay unless I work for her. *car screech* That was NOT part of the original deal. More over, I realized something....I can't work with for that woman my mom.

Not gonna happen....just not a good idea, all the signs are there, as bright as neon Vegas prostitute ads.

Blackmailed by my own mother.... SMH, this is like the opposite of nepotism! Anti-nepotism? No.... I need to be de-nepotized? Not quite....

Rational Plan of Attack ▼

1. It's not a good idea for us to work together right now. Maybe in the future (remember Forresters and Kami), but not now.
         Not good idea mentally/emotionally for me or our relationship
         Not good idea fiscally b/c I will likely not perform as well under the stress.

2. You're thinking with your brain and I my heart. (More than one way to skin a cat)
         It's not just about you. It's primarily about me and secondarily about our relationship.
         You got riled up over me taking the health exam and I got riled up over you going back on our word, those are our warning signs.
         I am not a number in your account ledger, I'm a human. It's not all about money, even if I did perform well and was making all the money I possibly could, I would be stressed and miserable. Not worth it.

3. I need a physical office presence.
         You're better at sales and always will be, but I gotta do what works best for me, and our relationship, right now. I know that's the right decision.