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"Day 2734: May 12, 2020 Prompt: “Writing is exposing yourself to strangers”― Bangambiki Habyarimana, The Great Pearl of Wisdom What do you think?" I would agree. I believe writing takes a certain degree of vulnerability as in a sense we are letting strangers into the inner workings of our minds. Poetry is an especially vulnerable area because poetry is often an expression of what we are feeling deep in our souls. I write some poetry for no other reason than the challenge of writing it, but I also write a lot that expresses what I feel. In doing so I am expressing those feelings openly and making myself vulnerable. This takes a certain degree of humility and trust. So yes I agree that we are exposing ourselves to strangers. "Prompt: “Writing is a struggle against silence,” says Carlos Fuentes. What do you think he means by silence, internal or external noise or something else?" I have no idea what he is talking about. I always wrote because I wanted to quiet the muse that rose within me. I would have to mimic the words of Jeremiah the prophet. He said that he wanted to be quiet at times when He was preaching but that doing so would be like a "fire" in his bones and heart, Jeremiah 20: 9. I feel the same way about writing. There are days when the well seems to run dry and I write little. Then there are days when it overflows and I can't write enough. If this is what Carlos meant by "noise" then I fully understand. Prompt: "Write about a fork in the road in your life, and how you made the decision to go the direction you did. What would have happened if you chose the other path?" Up until just a few months ago I was certain that I was going to pursue a professional degree in social work. My whole life has been geared toward serving others and my heart has always been in therapy and counseling. I thought I was going to be a mental health/addictions therapist and I did everything I could to make that happen. I am still very interested in the field but I ended up going at it from an angle I did not expect. I moved here to the West Virginia Veterans Home in Barboursville WV back in 2017. I became involved in both the chapel here and the Salvation Army Huntington Corps in nearby Huntington WV. Shortly after I got here I realized that the chapel service here had no chaplain. I am an ordained minister through the National Association of Christian Counselors and a community chaplain through the same. I decided to pursue becoming the chaplain here and obtained that position and have been the chaplain since. During that time I completed my RBA at Marshall University and became a soldier at the Salvation Army Huntington Corps. I have an extensive background in the psychology field including 78 credit hours toward a BS in psychology and an academic associate degree in Dependency Disorder Technology. I also worked as a peer support specialist having 11 years and some months in recovery from addiction. I thought social work seemed the ideal fit for me and applied to Marshall University's Social Work program. Shortly after I became a soldier in the Huntington Corps our Community Care Ministries Secretary retired from her position due to health issues. The commander suggested I become the Community Care Ministries Secretary since I was already unofficially serving in that capacity by being the chaplain of the WVVH. I accepted and was soon commissioned as a local officer or basically the equivalent of a military non-commissioned officer. I began developing chaplaincy opportunities in the various nursing homes in the community. Then one afternoon it occurred to me that as a chaplain I might qualify for licensure. I inquired by going online. The first thing I always do is check my email when I go online. My email had only one thing in it that day: an advertisement from Regent University about their chaplaincy program. I requested information and the next day I was enrolled in their Master of Divinity chaplain's concentration. I was certain up until that point that I was going to be a social worker. Image #2187984 over display limit. -?- |
Image #1997652 over display limit. -?- Image #1971183 over display limit. -?- Image #2066112 over display limit. -?- Prompt: "Look at a picture from your younger years. You don’t have to share the photo with us, but try to describe it in as much detail as possible. What led up to the photo being taken and what happened after?" The picture has a little red-headed, freckle-faced me standing there wearing a western outfit, cowboy hat, and set of toy pistols my mom and dad bought me for Christmas. I was just a young child, barely nine years old. I remember the day well, A short while later, maybe an hour and our house burned down. Image #1997652 over display limit. -?- "Prompt: Morning noises" The only morning noise I ever hear is a duo of women singing "Good morning" on my alarm. I find it to be very annoying but it never fails to make me roll out of bed. For that I am grateful though because I have to get up. It's just a very irritating sound, which is partly why I chose it. I knew it would get me up, if for not other reason than to not have to hear the grating voice. Image #1971183 over display limit. -?- "Prompt: “But mothers lie. It's in the job description,” says John Green. In your opinion, through which ways can mothers lie?" My mother lied to us about the cherries that go in mixed fruit. She told us they were poison unless cooked so that we would not eat them before she needed them. We never touched them. Image #2098718 over display limit. -?- Image #2118746 over display limit. -?- Image #2187503 over display limit. -?- Image #2187984 over display limit. -?- |
Image #2066112 over display limit. -?- Prompt: "The prompt today is very simple: Write about the person you call Mom." My mom was a shrewd woman. She used a lot of psychology in raising us kids even though I don't think she knew it was psychology. For example she told us that Marcino cherries had to cooked a certain way before you could eat them or they would kill you. She said that because she wanted the cherries to include in her delicious mixed fruit, and she knew we we would eat them out of the jar otherwise. She was shrewd. My brother is still convinced to this day that those cherries are poisonous. He always asks if we cooked them first. He knows you don't have to cook them but he still falls back on old habits. Mom was strict as well. She had to be. She had nine children and that meant keeping a tight reign on us. She threatened one time that she was going to get us out of bed and whip us on a daily basis to make sure she got us for whatever she happened to miss. Of course that never happened. She woke us every morning though and prepared our breakfast before going to school. She was a loving woman. Image #2098718 over display limit. -?- Image #2118746 over display limit. -?- Image #2187503 over display limit. -?- {2187984-33%} |
Image #1971183 over display limit. -?- Image #1997652 over display limit. -?- Image #2066112 over display limit. -?- Prompt: "Choose an event in your life that someone else remembers differently. Describe both memories and debate the differences. Who do you think is right? Why do you think you remember it differently?" I don't have a whole lot of people in my life to sit around and talk about events in the past with so this prompt is pretty tough for me. I do know of one event that my brother brings up every time we get together that he remembers differently than I do, but it was a misunderstanding on his part. We had been heading into town that night. We were all crammed into the cab of the truck because we lived on a farm where a truck was needed and we could not afford two vehicles. We had just sold a load of firewood to somebody and our parents were asking what we would like as a reward for our work. I wanted chocolate milk but I knew it was expensive. There were three of us boys and I knew not to push it and ask for one carton each, which would have been three quarts. That was when they still had quart bottles and cartons. So I asked for two quarts with the intention that they be divided equally between us. my brother immediately thought I wanted a quart for the two of them and a quart for myself. We nearly got into a fight over it. he still brings that up to this day to point out my greed and gluttony, but the fact is that I happened to be there and I know my intention. I simply knew that my parents were not going to the expense of buying three quarts but I thought perhaps I could convince them to evenly split two of them. I don't know how I thought they were going to manage that but then kids often think parents can do anything. And no, we did not get the chocolate milk. Image #1971183 over display limit. -?- Prompt: "Flash Fiction: Write a short story about a clock." I have one of those annoying alarm clocks. I get up at 0450 every morning to do rounds with the nurses to do bed checks. They take the role and make sure everybody is still breathing I guess. Anyway, my smartphone is my alarm clock. It doesn't have a whole lot of alarm tones on it. I have listened to them and most of them are very weak and probably wouldn't phase me. The one I have is a group of women singing "Good morning, good morning. Bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah..." It is very annoying and I have often threatened to smash it against the wall. You know how it is. I'm a loving Christian man until you get me angry. Then I get really huge, ugly, and green. Well the alarm always manages to push the right buttons. I try to get to it before they make it to the "Bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah" part of their song because it just rakes my last nerve. It's a lot like having somebody drag their fingernails across a chalkboard. It just sends chills up my spine. Sometimes I get the alarm shut off before they go into their droning routine and sometimes the alarm beats me. It's always a race. This morning I lost. Here it is. It's 0450 and I have this group of women on my nightstand sounding like Pickett's charge. I'm trying to get the phone shut off. All I have to do is swipe the thing and it will go into snooze and I can get another five minutes of precious sleep. I must look like Wile E. Coyote just after he chases road runner across a mountain and the mountain caves in on him. Splat! Anyway, I'm swiping this silly phone and the women are still singing "Good morning, good morning, bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah! bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah!" I am swiping and swiping and they are singing and singing. I'm trying to remain calm because I don't want to turn all green and get ugly. I mean green and white are my alma mater's colors, but I don't look good when I turn green like that. So I'm swiping and swiping at the phone and they are droning on and on with their nasty, stupid song. I'm ready to explode in rage. All I want is to dismiss the alarm. I have a second alarm set for 0500 and a third set for 0505 so I can catnap and try to collect my sense before waking completely up. It's a delicate balancing act and their singing is disturbing it. Ugh! I swipe and swipe and they keep singing and singing. Then I realize that I am swiping left when all I need to do is swipe to the right and they'll stop for five minutes. Then we'll start the whole dance again. So I swipe to the right and hear "Good morning, good morning. Bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah bah." The 0500 alarm is now going off as well! "Yes Mom. I'm awake already". Image #1997652 over display limit. -?- "Day 2731: May 9, 2020 Prompt: My favorite part of the weekend is _____, because ______." My favorite part of the weekend is Sunday because it is Lord's Day and I get to lead a great bunch of guys in Bible study. As most everybody knows I am the chaplain of the West Virginia Veterans Home in Barboursville WV. That usually doesn't really entail doing a whole lot because there is no really defined job description for the chaplain here. It's a volunteer position in which I encourage the veterans to attend chapel and visit anybody who is hospitalized. Aside from that there is nothing to it. Prior to the current COVID-19 pandemic there were a total of three ministers besides myself that held regular weekly Bible studies and chapel services here. I usually attended them all except for the Sunday morning service. On Sunday morning I went to the Salvation Army where I am a soldier. Before anybody misunderstands, the Salvation Army is not a branch of any military. It is not a branch of the US military. In fact the World Office of the Salvation Army is in London England. It was founded by General William Booth who thought it was a Christian's duty to win the soul by meeting the needs of the physical man. Anyway I have been a soldier in the Salvation Army for close to three years. I became a soldier there shortly after becoming a chaplain of the West Virginia Veterans Home. Chaplains do not pastor the congregations of the chapels they serve. Basically it is the chaplain's duty to counsel and serve the residents, but chapel is not a church in and of itself. A chaplain always has a home church that they answer to and that church is their base of operations. Since I was a soldier of the Salvation Army it seemed logical that my home church would be the Salvation Army Huntington Corps where I am a soldier. Shortly after I became chaplain here at the Veterans Home I ask my commander at the Salvation Army what I could do to become more involved there. She suggested I become "bonded" as a local commissioned officer. I didn't really know what that entailed, but if she suggested it I trusted her judgment and told her I was willing to try it. She said that essentially I was already doing it. As the chaplain of the WVVH who affiliated my chaplaincy with the corps I was already filling the position she had in mind. I was doing community care and she wanted me to become the Community Care Ministries Secretary. We would complete the paperwork and forward it to the Maryland/West Virginia Division (now the Potomac Division) commander to sign off on. The Division Commander signed off on the position along with appointing me as Men's Club Treasurer and Adult Sunday School Teacher. Prior to COVID-19 I allowed delegated the Sunday morning service at the WVVH to another minister as I taught Sunday school at the Salvation Army. That worked out well. Then COVID-19 stopped anybody from being able to visit the WVVH and chapel services had no leader. As a resident of the WVVH I too was quarantined to the "hill" as we call it because the facility sits atop a small hill overlooking the town. I began filling in for the ministers who were coming in to teach Bible studies. I had been holding a devotion on Saturday evenings prior to that, but that was the extent of my duties. Since I have been filling in for the other ministers I have grown quite close to the group of men that meets regularly for Bible study. I especially look forward to Sunday morning worship with them or to going to the Huntington Corps and leading Sunday school. So either way Sunday is my favorite! Image #2098718 over display limit. -?- Image #2118746 over display limit. -?- Image #2187503 over display limit. -?- Image #2187984 over display limit. -?- |