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| I'm asked whether or not one shouldn't just like each other to evade the word 'love' altogether. People seem to find 'love' too hard to find or, to endure or even to live through. I am not sure that love is that difficult to find but it is probably difficult to find a lover who will also like you and thus despite the rough times, the ups and downs, will stick with you and still profess to love you to anyone who might ask them. I think finding the right person is a great project, if you can call it that. It's possibly the thing that makes everyone feel daunted. How do you find the right person to love you and to love? I read somewhere that loving someone who doesn't love you back is really infatuation. I've gone through a crush or infatuation a few times in my life. But getting a person you happen to fall in love with to love you back is a great and quite difficult thing unless you are that person's desire as well. I do not know what to counsel love-interested people. I onnly know that for me having love is something that's a God-given gift. Love comes in different forms - there's maternal, filial, and spousal love. The last one you have to earn by means of being a well-behaved human being. You're gracioius and polite to poeple even strangers, and you are always able to control your temper with people. YOu have to watch what you say of cousre lest the person who is destined to love you wlil hear it and find it hard to like you at the very least. But you have to be true to yourself. If you have nothing good to say about someone then please don't say anything about them to anybody or make a snide remark to someone. Just keep your own opinions to yourself until you trust the person you're with to keep your thoughts secret and that is a measure of having a good friend. Love comes slowly to anyone who asks for it. You have to love yourself in a good way, and to accept that you have faults that you need to decide what to do with, whether you want to keep them because they somehow are serving you some way, or you need to get some help from some person who can point out what it is that is the matter with you and your abillity to attract anyone who's worthy of attracting. The one thing that helps is that you have a forgiving heart and a humane heart. You have to also pray for this One Love you have desired to find. If you pray all the time about it, then that One Love will arrive and find you and you will both be very happy. Prayer answers all things. Or should I say, God hears all prayers and when He understands where you are and why you are asking for something, then He will bend His ear to You and find out more about you. Then He will pick out the right person to be Your One Love. You have to show that you are wliling to be faithful, loyal, trustworthy and not destroy yourself through bad habits and poisonous addictions, and the poisonous influences of bad friends and family. |
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