These pages contain my thoughts, from meandering ideas and persuasions to deep cerebrations and serious mentations.
Why, for what purpose? To release my mind and set creativity free. Somewhere inside the constraints of my mind dwells a writer, a poet, an artist who paints with words. In here I release those constraints and set the artist free.
Perhaps, lost somewhere in the depths of thought, is a story or a poem, waiting to be written.
Cubby he seems not to even really hear the questions, doesn't give clear answers, and tends not to be aware of personal problems. In speaking to a few others who have him or had him as an oncologist and have heard a lot of the same, he just doesn't listen or consider the patient. His motto should be, "This is how we do it, period!"
Depends is for everyone that may have a condition that is not always controllable. Nearly 20 years ago I was diagnosed with Crohn's Disease. I had to wear Depends for almost a year, then the surgeon decided it was time to remove my large intestines. If you have to wear them for short while, so be it. The alternative could be worse. Prayers for you.
I agree, do what's best for you. I have to take meds to make me use the restroom. And at times, I barely make it. I have a few adult diapers for when I'm going to be out for some time. I think they are better than the accident I almost had going to my sister's, 2 hours away. Use them until you no longer need them. I think it's best to feel confident in using them as you need them.
I feel for you tj gives thanks for all things, and I can commiserate with you. I have the same problems as you, and have had a couple of close calls also. I don't mind mine is Chemo related though, I was off Chemo for 5 weeks having that back surgery. I still suffered at times. Luckily I was either home, or ran to a convenient bathroom. And like you, there were many false alarms. Oh well. Forget the Pride thing, get them, the thinnest you can get (so they aren't real obvious), and wear em when you need em. Now, if I could take my own advice!
Wearing depends doesn't mean anything and you shouldn't feel any shame wearing one as a precaution. I know depends are typically associated with senility, but they're not. If you have a medical issue, do whatever makes you feel most comfortable. Like you said, it's just in case. So wearing one doesn't necessarily mean you'll use it, but it may help you feel more comfortable when you're out and about. Do what's best for you, always.
Take heart, TJ: you've already been through way more than any of us has in our lives and come out strong As always, I'm praying for you and sending wishes for a peaceful recovery in time for the new year!
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As always, I'm praying for you and sending wishes for a peaceful recovery in time for the new year!
