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Seven Degrees Left of Center

by Dale Ricky

Rated: 13+ · Book · Personal · #2276168

Each day feels new, and my memory of the one before is faint. I’m learning to adapt.

In September 2019, a seizure revealed a lime-sized meningioma pressed against my hippocampus—the part of the brain that governs memory and language. The doctors said it was benign, but benign didn’t mean harmless.

Surgery removed the tumor, and three days later I opened my eyes to a new reality. I could walk, I could talk, but when I looked at my wife, her name was gone. I called her Precious—the only word I could find. A failure of memory, yet perhaps the truest name of all.

Recovery has been less cure than re-calibration. Memory gaps are frequent. Conversations vanish. I had to relearn how to write, letter by halting letter. My days are scaffold by alarms, notes, and calendars.

When people ask how I am, I don’t list symptoms or struggles. I simply say, “Seven Degrees Left of Center.” It’s not an answer—it’s who I’ve become.

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GrueSum1

Oct 20, 2025 at 9:50am
In response to "Lost in the Story I Already Wrote"

First, I love your Handle/Pen Name! Seven Degrees Left Of Center... Seeing your name just kind of made my day.

I think what you're going through is one of my biggest fears. Forgetting everything. I know, and hope you're doing better today than previous days, and that your memory is returning more and more each day. Losing your memory has to be a nightmare for you.

I can see you writing something that seems familiar, only to realize you've written this, or something very similar. I don't think I have a major memory loss, but I know I've started writing something only to learn I had already written, or something similar. Fortunately, it's usually something from long ago. Let's hope it doesn't get any worse for both of us, as we age.

Amethyst SkellyBones Angel

Oct 9, 2025 at 11:12am
In response to "Letting It Soak"

I believe all ideas should be scribbled down as soon as one feels they're worthwhile. Even if it never gets past the rough idea, at least you'll have a record of it for future reference.

Amethyst SkellyBones Angel

Oct 3, 2025 at 8:35am
In response to "Learning Curves: Then and Now"

Wow, that's news to be excited about

Sending prayers for continued improvement and recovery

Scary_Soldier_Mike

Sep 27, 2025 at 10:16am
In response to "Instant Coffee: Freeze-Dried Disappointment"

I completely understand the recalcitrant coffee pot situation and I, too, have swilled my share of hotel-based caffeine. That being said, don't let {suser:lilli_in_fl} catch you drinking it.

Amethyst SkellyBones Angel

Sep 25, 2025 at 10:51am
In response to "Rewired"

I have the same type of problem, Dale. My mind abounds with beautiful, emotional, action packed scenes, but I have no idea how to shape them together into a coherent story. It's like having bits of five different movies all chopped up and scrambled and missing the in-between parts. Just keep doing it

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Amethyst SkellyBones Angel

Sep 9, 2025 at 8:13am
In response to "Up too early"

I used to love waking up early in the morning when I was a kid... I'd sit up and greet the sunrise with the robins and recite poetry I'd memorized... Ahh, those were some peaceful times.

All the best!

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AmyJo-Zombie hours

Aug 31, 2025 at 1:33pm
In response to "At some point, you call it done"

I enjoyed reading both versions. I did like the limited version more, and now I am hooked! So many questions now...

Maid of the Mist Most Macabre

Aug 30, 2025 at 11:21am
In response to "A good story gone wrong"

Writing is a process, isn't it? I believe the starts and stops happen for a reason. I hope those words reappear and behave this time.

Max Griffin 🏳️‍🌈

Aug 28, 2025 at 9:11am
In response to "Yesterday is gone"

Point of view, kind of like Rome, isn't learned in a day. It takes even longer for it to become second nature as you transcribe the internal movie that's playing your head to the page. I still catch myself sticking in little summary bits instead of staying in the character's head.

To answer Amethyst SkellyBones Angel

's question, modern novels do indeed more often than not have more than one point-of-view character. Romance novels will often alternate between the romantic leads, for example. SciFi, thriller, and mysteries often use multiple points-of-view--Lucifer's Hammer by Niven and Pournelle comes to mind. Mystery novels sometimes focus on just the detective, but other times use multiple characters. My own novel, Seeking Hyde, uses at least four POV characters. It even switches from 3rd person limited in one chracter's head to first person in a different character's head. Hemingway does something similar in To Have and Have Not.

Readers are delicate critters, and easy to confuse. Too many points of view, or poorly executed transitions from one point of view to the next, can be confusing. If you use more than one point of view--in a story or a novel--it's important that you use other tools to be sure that your reader doesn't get lost in the dust.

The most common "rules" are, first, one point of view per scene; and, second, only one point of view per short story. But...I have a little rock I keep on my desk with the word "nothing" engraved on it to remind me that "nothing is engraved in stone." Everything depends on context. The second rule, for example, depends on the story. "A Rose for Emily," by Faulkner, uses more than one point of view.

Point of view is a tool--a big tool, to be sure--but it's just a tool. It's one of the most powerful tools you can deploy in bringing your fictional world to life in the readers' imaginations. In doing that, it keeps your reader enmeshed in the here-and-now of your story. It also takes time and practice to deploy consistently and effectively.

Ok, I'll shut up now.

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Amethyst SkellyBones Angel

Aug 28, 2025 at 8:18am
In response to "Yesterday is gone"

Best wishes for getting it to stick! 3rd person limited is my favorite PoV, taught by my mentor, Max Griffin 🏳️‍🌈

. It's quite useful for most situations, although I question the single-minded perspective for an entire novel. I'll have to ask him about that... Do modern novels work with several different characters, all in their own 3rd person limited chapters? Or what?

Take care

January 9, 2025 at 12:36pm

#1082172

I miss him too

I have to admit to some laziness lately. Audiobooks...

The audiobooks are convenient, but they remove some personal imagination from the story. At least for me. What do you think?

The same laziness has crept into my writing. I write half the word count now. The same can be said about this blog. I have thought about giving it up. But the journey isn't over. Learning to live with a brain injury is a daily struggle. Yesterday was a day that went horribly wrong. Laziness can also be an issue.

I pissed off my wife. I had a day where each decision went wrong. This happens sometimes. She hit a breaking point, and I do not blame her. My apologies only go so far. She vented on how much she misses the old me. Believe me, though I can't remember the old me, I miss him too. Life is hard. I don't acknowledge how hard it is on those who love me.

I do see this as progress. Learning or relearning communication is another skill in my reeducation. It is like graduating from the 8th grade. High School is around the corner. The lessons are more complicated and sometimes painful.

However, a time similar to my teen years looks like a struggle about to happen. No one told me the emotional side of recovery is as equal to the educational side. I learned a valuable lesson. I believe it will stick. My wife apologized and forgave me. As I told her, I do not think she owed me an apology. We both need to acknowledge that we are together and that it is ok to get frustrated. We shouldn't hold it in so long it has time to boil.

I am glad I don't have to go through puberty again; at least, I hope not.

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