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October 9, 2019 at 10:42am
October 9, 2019 at 10:42am
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." Jimmy Dean

Working through the process of decluttering and organizing can take a lot out of you. And while others think that your life is now simple and easy, you soon find out that it isn't. What you need is a strategy that helps you maintain the organization you worked so hard to accomplish and keep on top of whatever life brings. Here is a suggested schedule that just might help (routines that work). These ideas are not meant to solve all or even most of the problems you face but they can make getting things done possible.


Make your bed at the start of your day (everyone who is old enough; others help or train). This activity only takes a few minutes but sets you up for the rest of your day and when you retire for the evening your bed is ready for you.

Wipe down bathroom surfaces and put items back where they belong. It is stressful to try to get ready for your day or prepare for bed if the bathroom is messy and you have to spend time looking for what you need. It will also help to keep track of items that need to be replaced.

Clean the coffee maker, wipe down kitchen counters and the kitchen/dining table. Set up the coffee maker for the morning and gather items for breakfast. Sweep the kitchen floor. And don't forget to put the dirty dishes in the dishwasher and turn it on. These activities should be done as you close down the kitchen for the night.

I think that you will find it helpful to take time at the end of the day to review your "to do" list and mark off or add items. In this way, you will be ready to start your day. It can also help you get to sleep because you won't have to keep thinking of what you have on your agenda for tomorrow. To help with your morning routine, you might want to plan what you will wear for the next day. This is especially important to do with children. If you find what they need for the next day before bed, it can alleviate a lot of stress in the morning.


Vacuum vents and woodwork, dust and clean light fixtures, dust blinds, clean the dishwasher and laundry machines. It is surprising just how much dust and dirt can accumulate over time. Clogged vents and filters can affect the effectiveness of equipment. Even dishwashers, washing machines, and dryers work better if kept clean.


Wipe down the inside of the fridge. You should be making sure to remove any spoiled or outdated food on a weekly basis as you do your shopping list. Remember to check the freezer as well. ( You might want to date items as you put them in the freezer. Then it will be easier to decide whether or not to toss items.) Don't forget to clean the range hood, especially if you fry on the range top often. Often we clean the stovetop and forget about the range hood, so it is good to remember to do this on a regular basis. You should also clean the oven at least this often or more frequently if there are spills. Even self-cleaning ovens may need a wipe down after cleaning. Drains and garbage disposals also need to be refreshed. And don't forget to descale the coffee pot. It is amazing how much crud can build up over time.

Even though you dust on a weekly basis, it is necessary to clean under and behind furniture as well. You might be surprised at what you will find, especially if you have children and/or pets.

Wash pillows and comforters and vacuum mattresses. You can plan this activity as part of seasonal change from spring to summer to fall to winter. This should be done even if you don't actually change the style of bedding.


Be sure to clean the chimney and fireplace before starting it up again, even if it is gas or electric. Either clean the carpets and upholstery yourself or hire a professional company to come and do it for you. It is obviously more expensive that way but you will get better results and may extend the life of the carpet and upholstery. Take down curtains and drapes and either launder or dry-clean them as necessary. Either clean all the windows yourself or have someone come in to do them for you. Make sure you check the frames and caulking while you are at it. We have windows that tip in so it is easy to clean both inside and outside at one time. We also have a rambler so the windows are easy to reach. If you have a two-story house, you should definitely consider hiring someone to do this for you. Make sure you clean out the gutters after most of the leaves have fallen. This is also the time to check the condition of the gutters and roof and make plans for repair if necessary. We happen to live in a heavily wooded area with trees close to the house so this is definitely one of our major activities of early to late fall.

I know that this may all seem overwhelming, but if you make a plan, adjust as necessary and follow-through, you will find that all your work will not have been in vain. Here's to a happy organized home that you will enjoy all year long.

Please keep following to see what miscellaneous ideas pop into my head next. *Smile*

September 18, 2019 at 1:34pm
September 18, 2019 at 1:34pm
"When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn." Harriet Beecher Stowe

So you have adopted the idea of organizing your space and accomplished many goals along the way. You look around and walk through each room admiring how neat and tidy each area has become. You pat yourself on the back as you quickly find items you need for any particular task. You are ready for any event whether it is weekly shopping, attending children's games, making appointments on time, or completing long overdue projects. But now the question/fear is how do I maintain this new lifestyle or will I just fall into the same old habits of collecting things I don't need, putting items just anywhere to get them out of site, forgetting to pay bills on time, fill out necessary forms, make/keep appointments?

To help you keep on track, here are some ideas of activities you can do on a regular basis with very little time that can help you keep up with all that is going on in your house and your life:

Take FIVE MINUTES and pull down anything that is outdated or no longer needed on your message center. (You do have one, don't you?) Put away anything you left out on the bathroom countertop but toss anything that is over six months old or next to empty. Take note to replace it if necessary. Hang up clothes where they belong. Set aside any item that needs mending or stain treatment. (Put them in the laundry or where you keep mending supplies.) Return coats, shoes, and sports equipment to the mudroom or another designated closet. And most of all, MAKE UP YOUR BED every morning or when you get up depending on your schedule. This gives you a clear signal that you are ready for whatever the day may bring. Whenever you close the kitchen down for the day, take time to wipe off the counters, set up the coffee pot, and turn on the dishwasher.

Take TEN MINUTES and review your calendar making sure you are ready for tomorrow's activities. If the laundry is on your list of "to do's" sort and start a load. Take a quick look in the pantry and realign cans/bags, tossing anything that is stale or past the expiration date (meaning shelf life, not sell-by date). Make a note of items for your shopping list. I like using the chalkboard on my pantry door (chalk paint). This makes transferring items to a list to take with you shopping quick and easy. If you plan meals for the week, review recipes and take note of anything you need to pick up while you are out. Update your shopping list on your phone or tablet. Wipe down appliances and put away dishes. Sweep hard surface floors.

Take FIFTEEN MINUTES and sort items in your message center. Put the info you need to keep in files or binders, updated phone numbers, pay bills, toss any papers you no longer need. Review jewelry storage and set aside items that can be donated or discarded. (If the piece is important or of sentimental value but needs repair check to see if you can find someone to do the work for you.) Remove clothes from the dryer, fold and put them away. The family should be trained *Smile* to help with this task. Since all of you write, you could review and edit a piece you are working on or review someone's writing (always appreciated), answer the question on the day or respond to emails. You can also review and respond to emails from friends on other sites or send a comment on someone's blog (hint, hint). Consider vacuuming carpeted floors and picking up the living room/family room and dining room. Return items to their homes.

I hope this is a helpful reminder of little things you can do to keep you and your house organized and running smoothly. Next, I'll suggest things you can do with more time.
September 11, 2019 at 9:13am
September 11, 2019 at 9:13am
"Don't dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer. " Denis Waitley

Here are some tips for staying organized:

Desk -This no place for clutter. You can lose track of important "to do" items like paying bills or turning in responses to school/organization activities. Besides, it can make it more difficult to work on projects or be creative. At the end of the day, take a few minutes to "tidy up" this area. Put papers in designated trays or folders or file them away. Take a few more minutes to review your current "to do" list and prepare one for tomorrow. If necessary transfer items not completed today to tomorrow's list. Make sure your calendar is up to date and review upcoming events.

Kitchen Junk Drawer -Assign a drawer in your kitchen for all the little miscellaneous items you use on a daily basis and make sure the rest of your family know where these items are to be housed. Items would include pens, clips, sticky notes, small tools, small flashlight, and even a few bandaids and antiseptic cream for minor accidents.

Message Center - I highly recommend painting the inside of the pantry door or an open wall in this area with chalk paint (remember the chalk) for keeping track of food items and cleaning supplies that need to be replenished and items needed for a particular recipe for the week. Use this info to make your shopping list, and always take a list when you go to the grocery store. The reason to do it in the pantry is that it will help you keep an inventory without using a computer spreadsheet or other app.

Extra Storage - Baskets and even shoe boxes are good instant storage solutions for belts, scarves, and socks in the bedroom. Larger ones are good to house throws, animal toys or small toys for children in the family room. You probably can't expect your pet to put their toys away at the end of the day but hopefully, you can get the children to put their toys and games away at the end of the day. Make sure you have a designated place for them and the children know where their things go - easy access is the key!

Routines - It is a good idea to always make up your bed first thing in the morning or depending on your schedule when you first get up. This is a "little" reminder that your day has started. I think it also tells you that you are in charge of your day. For most of us, it is very helpful to establish routines that add to how our day functions.

For example, rinsing dishes off after use and putting them in an empty dishwasher makes kitchen clean up go quicker at the end of the day. And yes, it is a good idea to see that the kitchen is clean and dishes ready to wash after the last meal of the day. I promise, your day will go smoother if you can walk into a clean, organized kitchen at the beginning of your day. You don't have to be the only one to see that this is a daily routine (unless you live alone). Other family members can take part as well. (I cook almost all the meals and tidy up as I go; then my husband sees that all the dishes and cookware are in the dishwasher, turns it on to wash at night and sets up the coffee pot to come on in the morning as one of the last things he does at night.) I very much appreciate walking into a clean kitchen with the smell of coffee brewing in the morning.

Laundry routines are also helpful since doing laundry can take up a lot of your time. Family routines will differ based on the number and ages of family members. Still, it is important to find a system that works for you. For one or two people in a household, you can probably use one laundry basket, sort when doing the laundry and pick a day and time that works best for your schedule. For more people of different ages/with different activities, you will probably need a hamper for adults and one or more for children. When you do laundry depends on your schedule and the amount of time you can devote to this task. Of course, you can also be doing other tasks while the clothes are washing or drying. Just make sure you complete this task once you start it. That is, don't let clothes set in the dryer, hang or fold them as soon as they are dry. Having a rod for hanging clothing in the laundry room is a must in my opinion. Adults and older children should be responsible for putting their clothes away. They should also be responsible for telling the person doing the laundry if clothing is stained or needs to be repaired. For many, you can't wait a whole week and then accomplish this task in an hour or so. If that is the situation, designate days/time for individual loads, especially if some clothes require special care.

Next, I'll give you some ideas on keeping your system working for you so keep reading, please.
September 5, 2019 at 10:55am
September 5, 2019 at 10:55am
Dancing from My Soul

Here are my thoughts on the Justin Timberlake song "Can't Stop the Feeling":

Dance is uplifting, spiritual, healing and just plain fun. These ordinary people prove that moving the body in rhythm to music is just that. Dance doesn't have to be choreographed or structured to have meaning or beauty. When people hear and experience the rhythmic sounds of music and express the feeling with movement, they bring joy to themselves and to others. It is hard to see them dance and not want to join in. And in this kind of movement, there is joy and in that, there is healing in the soul.
August 28, 2019 at 12:10pm
August 28, 2019 at 12:10pm
"My style is unique and random. But I think it's important that it still makes sense.
Jess Glynne

Remember that all of that stuff scattered around the house needs to be corraled or removed. Ask yourself: do you really need it, will you use it frequently or just once in a while, are you holding on to it for someone else, can you give it to them or do they even want it? All questions you should be asking yourself now that your house is organized; well mostly organized. Organizing is not a once and done process; it is a way of life and it takes commitment to periodically re-evaluating your life and your home. You can be critical about what works and doesn't work for you. Don't get caught up in trends that don't fit your way of life.

Be careful with collections. Your taste and style will probably change over time. Then what do you do with the stuff you collected that no longer fits your style or interest you? If you are collecting items, keepsakes just to pass down to other family members, I would caution you to consider how they feel now about your collection. Are they interested; do they also see the value in the items you are collecting? I have known too many parents/grandparents who have spent a lot of money on collections that their children/grandchildren didn't want. Just because you always wanted porcelain dolls or match-box cars or quilts doesn't mean others in your family will want the same. Only collect items that mean something to you, that give you pleasure now and remember you may be selling or donating them in a few years.

Talking about collecting, what do you do with all the magazines and books you collect? There are binders that will hold a year or two collection of magazines. You could use them if you use the magazines for reference often, but if you just want a recipe, how-to article or web site info, remove that info and place it in your recipe box or "command" binder (more on that later). When thinking about books, consider if they are a reference or if you will read them more than once or if they are part of a collection you can give to a school or library. Of course, you also need to consider space available for displaying or storing them. Remember, books can deteriorate over time, so they have to be stored properly. Any time you dust the shelves is a good time to consider if it is time to give any of them away.

If you are having trouble with all the mail, notices, school materials coming into the house of a daily basis, consider placing small baskets or sorting trays where these items enter the house. Either have evereyone take their items out of the trays on a regular basis or set up incoming trays for each individual. You could use one of those teired systems used in offices for incoming and outgoing mail. Be creative and encourage family members to help. Keep a wastebasket handy to really keep down the clutter.

About the Command Central Binder (not my original idea, comes from "Better Homes and Gardens"), here is how it works:

Step One - You need a 3-ring binder, binder tabs, binder pockets, magazine holder for the binder, page protectors, label maker or fine-tip marker, adhesive tabs or notes, divided page protectors sized to hold business cards. You may have most of these items around the house, but if not, they are easily resourced at a office supply store.

Step Two - use a box to gather they types of documents listed below and any other type of dicument that's currently on your desk or plastered to your frig. These are the types of items you should collect: business cards, carry-out menues, emergency info and phone numbers, phone directory, pet-care or pet-sitting infe, health ins. info., insurance contacts for house, car, family members, reference papers from school including important phone numbers., personal financial advisor info. Your command central binder is designed to house those papers you access on a regular basis. ( I keep a copy of my mother's birth certificate, social security number,other pension info and funeral/burial plan documentation here so that I can access all the appropriate documentation when necessary. She is 95 and lives with us for now.) Actually, it is probably a good place to write down the social security numbers for everyone in the house. You might also want to keep passports here.

Step Three - sort like papers together. Group the papers into categories that make sense to you. Cull out papersw that are dated or irrelevant to your current life. Remember to pitch any piece of paper you no longer need. Don't include papers you need to act on now such as bills to pay and daily "to-do" lists.

Step Four - now create categories using your binder tabs and a permanent marker or label maker. Just create categories that make sense to you and how you want to access the information; everyone is different in how they will use this binder.

Step Five- once you have set up your binder, you've completed the prokect phase. Next is the habits phase where ou use and maintain your binder. It is suggested that you maintain this binder as you go looking for out-of-date items, and pull out anthing you don't need anymore. Then schedule routine maintenance just like you do for your car. At least quarterly, review your binder and add to or subtract from it any thing needed to keep it working for you.

The idea is to keep everything you need in one place so you'll have no trouble finding exactly what you need when you need it.

Next entry will continue with more random thoughts so keep reading, please.

August 17, 2019 at 11:00am
August 17, 2019 at 11:00am
" The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand and the determination...that we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand." Vince Lombardi

Well, here we are with all the "stuff" we haven't found a home for yet! It may have taken days or weeks or months to get to this point. Hopefully, you have celebrated your successes (not by buying more stuff) and are ready for this last major task. Dealing with all the things that didn't find a home in your decluttering, re-organizing project may seem even more daunting than the original project, but don't give up now. Remember all that you have learned along the way and use your new skills to tackle the boxes, bins and miscellaneous bits and pieces that still remain.

Did you find that you had things left over after you designed your linen closet(s)? Or are there odds and ends left from your kitchen organizing project? Did you just put them all in the "junk" drawer? Is your laundry room now filled with miscellaneous bits and pieces that you couldn't find a home for? Oh, and what about seasonal decorations; where did they go?

All good questions, right? Here are some pointers that may help you find success with this project:

First, I suggest that you take a walk through the rooms you have been working on and gather any items that don't belong. This includes taking a look at the drawers and closets you organized. Gather the items that are basically homeless in one area so that you can see all the things you will need to work with to make sure you and your house function the way you want.

Second, sort them in categories of sell, donate, discard. At this point, you need to use "critical thinking". That is, be ruthless in your deliberation and do it quickly. If you didn't find a home for the item first time through, you probably won't this time either - DONATE OR TRASH! If you have to keep the item because it is just too sentimental, then find a place for it. Be creative; look at different storage solutions. Consider: Can the item be stored in the attack, storage shed, a garage, a toy chest or trunk? Maybe even a shadow box?

Third, gather all your seasonal decorations. Most of us have items we only use at special times of the year, like birthday's, anniversaries, holidays. The question is: Where to store them? You might want to pull all these items together in one place to see what you have to store. If you are at all like me, you have decorative items that you use/display seasonally. This is how I chose to decorate my home; how about you? When I change items out seasonally I consider their condition and whether they still fit in with the major decor of the room. ( We have moved 5 times in the almost 7 years that we have been married so this is a major issue for me.) It is alright if over the years your style has changed and the items you thought were so great in the '80s or '90s no longer fit your style. Now is a good time to sell or give them away and move on. I pack decorative items by season in clear plastic bins that fit on storage shelving in the small mudroom next to our sunroom. With such a small space, I have had to downsize these decorations. It was much more fun when I had access to a full basement to play with, but oh well, it is much better for the budget now. And I have learned to be conscientious of what works and makes me happy decorating the house. Tip: if you feel the need to buy decorative items, buy them when the seasons' change and stores put this type of merchandise on sale.

In my next blog, I review some miscellaneous ideas for keeping clutter away or at least under control so keep coming back. And as always, I appreciate your questions and comments.

June 22, 2019 at 9:00am
June 22, 2019 at 9:00am
" Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you are going to live your life." Joel Osteen

A positive attitude often determines the outcome of any project. Case in point, organizing whether just your home or your life needs a positive attitude more than skill, knowledge, or the latest techniques to become a success. I am sure that if you have tackled your master closet, children's closets and/or the kitchen or bathroom closets, you know this is true. With all this success under your belt, it's time to tackle the linen closet.

In my opinion, every house needs either a large linen closet strategically placed or several smaller ones in each bathroom/bedroom. Unfortunately, these closets often become catchalls for everything that didn't find a home earlier. Before you start taking everything out of this closet take some time to consider what really belongs here and what needs another home.

If at all possible, linen closets should store only linens. This is not the place to put extra groceries or cleaning supplies. Nor is it the place to put medicines or gifting materials. Ok, now you have the idea, linen closets are for linens, right? Where to start is the question.

The first question is: do you have one central linen closet or ones located in the bathroom/bedroom? If neither of these exists, can you find a closet that will work just to store linens? Any closet that is available should have shelves deep enough to hold bath towels and king size sheets. And, of course, it is best if this closet is near the bedrooms/bathrooms.

So let's start by taking everything out of the designated linen closet. Next, collect all the linens that will be housed in this closet, i.e. towels, washcloths, sheet sets. blankets and extra bed covers. If you are using one closet to house all these items, consider sorting them in groups that correspond to the room in which you will use them. For example, if the bedrooms have different size beds or different color schemes, sort the sheet sets, blankets, and extra bed covers accordingly. Towels can be sorted the same way, by the bathroom they will be used in. If family members are responsible for their own room/bathroom, make sure that they know where their linens are and how they are organized. Let them know that you expect them to keep them in the same place if they are the ones responsible for putting clean items away.

If you are fortunate enough to have linen closets in the bathroom(s), you can separate linens based on the bathroom where they will be used. Then the question becomes: what about all the sheets, blankets, and bed covers? If you don't have another closet just for these items, consider using the bathroom closet that relates to a given bedroom. The closet in the master bedroom may be big enough to house both towels and sheets, etc. For others, you may need to find enough space in the designated closet.

Along the way, you should consider a purge of the items that go back in the linen closet. Stained, ripped or items no longer used should be removed. Some of these items can be used as cleaning rags or paint throws. (But don't keep them in the linen closet.) The main point is to make organizing work for you. As always, your goal in organizing is to decrease stress and improve the quality of life. Make your home work for you; not you working for your home.

Next, we will deal with all the "stuff" that doesn't have a home, especially all those little/big seasonal decorating items.
June 8, 2019 at 4:41pm
June 8, 2019 at 4:41pm
"Begin at the beginning," the King said gravely, "and go on till you come to the end: then stop"... Alice in Wonderland

Well, you started with the closet in the master bedroom but closets don't stop there, do they? Feeling the flush of success, it's time to move on to, oh let's say, a child's/children's closet. This closet can be even more challenging than the one you just finished since we all know that these little ones can expand the need for storage space 10 fold.

It has been many years since I struggled to corral all the items needed for a child (only one). So my blog will relate the story of my granddaughter's closet. The rules still apply though you will need to be more "judgemental" and creative from time to time, especially if you have children sharing the same space.

Age is a major factor when designing closets for children. When they are little you may only need a dresser, toy box, bookshelf and a small amount of hanging space. Most of their things will fit in their bedroom. But don't forget to designate a play space in other parts of the house. This is where creativity really comes into play; for grandparents as well. Toy boxes work very well at this stage if you are able to make yourself store only items used frequently where the toy box is located. Remember you can change out the toys as they go in and out of favor or as the child grows. We still keep a handmade toy box in our sunroom for books and art supplies for our granddaughter to use when she comes to visit.

As your child/children grow closets need to keep up with their needs. Once a child starts school what needs to be kept in their room changes. Don't forget to add a desk and chair for doing school work. Now you need more hanging space and a place to keep shoes for school, outings, and every day.

Shoes can take on a life of their own as the child expands their horizons. By the time my granddaughter was five her shoe rack needed to house school shoes, dress boots, tennis shoes, dress up shoes and ballet shoes. This has always been an issue in her room. Partly, this may be a girl thing *Smile* but still it has been the hardest issue to overcome. She is eleven now and we still haven't completely solved the problem. That will change soon as the family is giving her a specially designed closet for her twelveth birthday in August. I know it seems a little over-the-top but it is what she wants most. We figured there was no need giving her clothes/shoes/accessories if she didn't have a place to put them that would work for her. Oh, did I mention that she is an only child and my only granddaughter?

When you design a closet for a child of school age think about how they will use it. Now that they are dressing more on their own, clothing needs to be accessible to them. Bars should be lowered to a position that they can reach or if there are high and low bars in their closet you can put everyday wear on the lower bar and less used items on the higher bar. Dressers are still important since items such as t-shirts, PJs, shorts, and jeans are often stored here. While the child is young, keep the most used items in the lower drawers so that they can reach them without asking for help.

Try to keep the closet as flexible as possible since their needs change as they grow and become involved in more activities. Ever since my granddaughter started in competitive gymnastics her closet has become a place to hang leotards, and all the other paraphernalia that goes along with the sport as well as her regular clothing. For now, her closet also houses all her medals and trophies since she re-designed her bedroom. (She tends to be a minimalist when it comes to design.)

If you take a trip to the DIY and HomeGoods stores, you can see all the different units that can be used to make closets work for you. Whether you go this route or use a professional, keep in mind what you need to store and where. For girls, you might want to include a high bar for dresses (especially prom dresses). Also, consider shelving for storing mementos and trophies.

Now here is the really hard part - you probably can't keep everything a child accumulates over time in their closet. Most of us want to keep all the cute outfits they had when they were little, special toys and gifts, cards and pictures, right? It just doesn't work in an organized, uncluttered home. Remember when you organized your closet you had to sort and purge. Here it is even more important. I suggest having your child help with the process. Learning to make decisions about what is and what is not important in your life is a skill worth passing on to them. We started teaching this life skill to our granddaughter several years ago when her "stuff" started expanding to other parts of the house. We gathered all of her stuffed animals and toys in one space and then worked with her to decide what to keep and what to let go of. We suggested that she could decide what to give to children in the local shelter and what could be sold (She got to keep the money). Anything leaving the house was immediately put in bags and boxes and taken to the garage. Her mother took her to the shelter, more than once, to deliver her donations and when her mother sold several of the large ticket items, she gave our granddaughter the money. This activity worked out to be a win, win for everyone. I think this started her move to becoming a minimalist *Smile*.

I hope that this post has been helpful. In my next post, I'll give you some helpful ideas on linen closets and storing decorative items.
June 1, 2019 at 1:09pm
June 1, 2019 at 1:09pm
"It's time to say goodbye, but I think goodbyes are sad and I'd much rather say hello. Hello to a new adventure." Ernie Harwell.

For many of us, closets may present the most difficult area to organize. We have spent years accumulating things - collections we were once excited to own, gifts from family and friends, decorations with special meaning for the holidays, momentoes from concerts/plays/trips, and tons and tons of pictures, and of course, clothes/shoes/handbags. But now we look around and find our shelves, closets, basement, and even the attack disorganized, and overcrowded. HELP! Are you overwhelmed wondering where your favorite pair of sandals got to or where you put the recipe you really wanted to try tonight? Are you frustrated because you can't find the jacket that goes with the dress you want to wear to the party tomorrow? Or maybe it is that time of year when you want to change closets from winter to spring and you keep putting it off because it seems too daunting. In this post, I have tried to include tactics that may prove helpful in the never-ending battle to declutter and organize your life.

Is your closet so disorganized that you take too much time just trying to get ready for the day or a special event, have you pulled something out to wear and found that it had a tear or a stain, are other family members bugging you to find what they need for the day? Did you spend hours in the basement trying to find all the decorations for a holiday or complete sets of recreational equipment? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are ready to get started on decluttering and organizing projects that can create a less stressful life for you and your family. A good rule to follow is "Divide and Conquer." Don't try to do every project at once. You will find that little successes go a long way toward encouraging you to keep working on any project. Set reasonable goals for yourself. Do a "walkabout" to get a sense of what you are struggling with and what frustrates you most about your daily routine. Take the time to think through what you need to store and where you want to store it. A little time evaluating your needs and planning a strategy will go a long way toward the successful completion of any project, especially ones requiring decluttering and organization.

So let's say you have decided to tackle the closet in your master bedroom first since you are most frustrated dealing with the clothes, shoes, and accessories that you need on a daily basis from season to season. If you are anyone like me, you can't keep all your clothing year-round in one space, especially if you share that space with another person so this closet requires at least one seasonal purge/reorganize session. While we go through all four seasons where I live, they can be subtle, changing from fall to summer and back or winter to spring and back in any given week. Knowing something about the changeable weather patterns in my area requires planning a closet with easy access to changing weather needs or at least an additional area where transitional clothing is stored. Then too, we often travel to Mexico or other "South of the Border" areas during the winter so I need to access summer clothing even in the winter. In other words, take a look at your lifestyle and organize accordingly.

Now that you have a better idea of what needs to be given a home in the master closet and the actual size of the space you are working with, you can start the process.

Step One: Designate a space to put everything once you have taken it out of the closet. Separate the items by category. The first sort could be in broad categories like tops, pants, dresses, suits, shoes, accessories. Later as you think how you dress for certain activities, you may need to refine the categories, like casual tops and bottoms, business wear, formal wear. Create a sperate area for out of season clothes that may need to find another home. Designate a space for all the miscellaneous items that need a new home. Remember, only keep items in this closet that function as wearables unless this closet has space to also function as a linen closet for the bedroom. If you need to store blankets/quilts and sheets for this room in the same area, consider storage options like underbed bins or baskets. (home goods stores have any number of options that can help with this type of storage.) When it comes to closet space, consider increasing usable space by hanging double rods for shorter pieces of clothing on top and longer pieces on the bottom. (Doesn't work so well for me since I am short but still a good idea for most people.) Here again, you can take a walk through the DIY or home goods stores for ideas or you could find closet organizer companies that will give you a free closet design, then you can take it from there. But before you start buying closet accessories, you will need to do the hard work of deciding what you are going to keep in this space.

Step Two: Decide how the closet will function best for you. I am retired and wear casual clothing especially during the week so when I recently redesigned my closet I put casual tops first, then special blouses; casual bottoms followed by dress pants; skirts followed by dresses because this is the way I plan for any particular activity. I tend to color like items together so each section goes from light to dark. You may have different needs so different plans. Play around a bit, try some different schemes. Just make sure it works for you.

Step Three: With clothing and accessories stacked in "neat" piles, it is time to get down to the most difficult phase of the project, deciding what to keep and what not to keep. Go through each stack and ask yourself: does this fit, is it still in good shape, do I still want to wear it? If yes, set aside to go back into the closet. If no to any of these questions, decide what to do with it (NOW). Create three bins, boxes or bags. One is for "give away", one for "sell", one for "recycling". As you handle each item, decide where it goes and put it there. Try not to leave "undecided" piles when you are working with these items. If it helps make your decisions any easier, you can "thank" the item for working for you and then put it aside. This can help you have closure as you move to a new lifestyle. For those items that you want to keep, sort out any that need to be cleaned or repaired and put them either in the laundry or a sewing basket. Both should be kept in the closet/bedroom or bath.

Step Four: With everything out of the closet and items sorted, it is time to consider any changes you might need to make to the space you are working on. Add additional rods, baskets, or dressers as needed. Remember to be creative; every item needs a home. Consider purchasing slim-line hangers since they can also create more space in your closet. Those items that are not going back in the closet can be set aside for now, but remind yourself that you will need to find the appropriate location for them. Don't add to the confusion by stuffing them just anywhere. With clothes, shoes, and accessories sorted and the closed designed, start re-housing items meant just for this closet. Now, step back, take a deep breath and congratulate yourself on successfully completing another project. Give yourself a few weeks of use to decide if you need to make any adjustments. This will give you opportunities to live with the system you have designed and if needed you can always re-arrange. Now might be the time to institute a new rule if you haven't already: One Item In means One Item Out!

Congratulations! Now on to finding homes for all the items you took out of this closet. Next, we will consider children's closets, linen closets, and holiday storage.
May 30, 2019 at 10:23am
May 30, 2019 at 10:23am
"When we clear the physical clutter from our lives, we literally make way for inspiration and 'good, orderly direction' to enter." Julia Cameron

I am a very visual person, so my environment is important to me. If my environment is messy, I can't think clearly. I don't like clutter. A clear desk is a clear mind for me. Clutter makes me anxious, unsettled. I can't work on a project until my space is organized and functional. I have worked with people and currently live with someone for whom this statement is not true. They can be highly creative in a very cluttered environment, but not me. So this post is for those of you who are more like me than the others. *Smile*

Here are some very good reasons to get all those papers under control:
Pay bills on time. Stop wasting money on late fees and finance charges.
Regain the use of space meant for other purposes like the dining room table.
Save time and eliminate stress searching for misplaced papers and documents.

The likelihood is that you have papers piled in various locations around the house. The best strategy is to start organizing a designated space that will act as command central then you can incorporate other papers into the system. Use your creativity to utilize found space in your home, especially if you do not have a room that functions only as an office. Closets can be turned into very functional paperwork zones with a little effort and some organizing tools. You might want to check out the DIY or home goods stores for inspiration. You might be able to make a guest room serve a dual purpose by including a desk/files that can be locked when not in use. We are fortunate to have a large sunroom located on the back of our house that functions as an additional sitting/reading/plant room and my command central. The sunroom is one of the main reasons we selected this house over others with the same primary floorplan because we knew we would need the extra space. Since there are only three of us living in this home now, my husband took the third bedroom as his "creative writing" space. However, I confiscated the closet for out of season clothing storage. It's important to make your space work for your lifestyle.

Here are some ideas to help you get control of all the paper clutter:

Set up a paper processing center by creating an "In Box" file. This is where all the incoming paper lands - mail, receipts, school papers, flyers, etc. For each asks yourself, "what is the next action that needs to happen and when". Next, establish an "Action Box". Go through your "In Box" daily to separate items that need immediate attention from those that simply require filing away or those that you can address at a later time. This "Action Box" should have three separate areas: Do Now, Do Later (by date), Pending. If you need visual reminders, use clear stacking trays. If you are a filer, use a desktop file box with labeled folders. Keep a shredder, recycling bin and trash can in reach so you can dispose of unwanted papers as soon as they enter the house before they hit the "In Box".

"Do Now" includes anything you need to act on in the next week, example: bills to pay, permission slips, party invites with RSVP. "Do Later includes items that you need to act on in the next 3 months, for example, vacation flyers, refinance offer from the bank, a catalog containing something you plan to buy. "Pending includes anything you are awaiting a reply, for example, a receipt for something that has not arrived. Anything else is likely something to be filed away, for example, warranties, instructions, reference materials.

Every day or two sort papers from your "In Box" into the "Action Box". Act on the most time-sensitive items like bills with upcoming due dates, permission slips that need to be turned in by the end of the week. Look at party invites that require gifts and schedule in time to shop in your daily routine. Once a week look at your "Do Later" file and take whatever actions you can, moving items to other files or the recycling bin. Look at "Pending" and follow up as needed. As items resolve themselves recycle or put in long term storage.

Don't let miscellaneous papers clog your "In Box". Use files that can be labeled for inspiration and reference papers from magazines. Categorize them by subject such as decorating, writing ideas, vacation ideas, etc. Use a coupon/receipt folder with dividers that can be kept in the car. This way you won't get caught finding something you wanted to get without the coupon you saved for that item.

For your children's schoolwork and art use a lidded box and keep on a handy shelf so it is easy to reach. Collect the papers daily, then plan a time quarterly when you can review them and decide whether or not they are keepers (grade cards, awards, art). When you review either archive or toss. Be decisive, ask yourself if this is something you or your child will consider important a year from now.

For instruction booklets and warranties, either keep them in the same room as the item connected to them (manual for kitchen appliances in the kitchen) or in your file cabinet or box. Staple receipts and warranty cards to the cover of instruction books.

I came across a great idea for a command central binder from Simplify 101 (online). This is an inexpensive way to keep important papers you will need to have handy from time to time. Use a 3 ring binder that includes folders for business cards (plumber, electrician, doctor, dentist, bank, restaurants or wineries you want to visit, etc.); important phone numbers of family and friends; protective folders for birth certificates, marriage license, insurance certificates, vaccination records; plans for home/garden projects; list of online sites you visit or want to visit later. You can add to this binder as you identify items you need to reference frequently. It is easy to make it your own. Let your family know where you keep the binder so that they can access it if needed.

A big help in organizing and getting control of clutter is to keep a calendar in your control central location and make it accessible to everyone in the family. Make sure the blocks for each day are large enough to include all activities for that date. You can color code items by the person responsible for the activity, for example, green for your items, blue for husband/partner, pink for daughter, yellow for son. Be creative and make it your own. Use the calendar to plan your schedule and try to stick to it. Schedules are vital in keeping your life organized when you are trying to juggle home, family, work, and time for self-renewal.

This may all sound like a lot of work that you think you don't have time for but if you make organizing and decluttering a priority, you will find that you will actually free up time to spend on projects, do fun activities with family and friends all with less stress
. *hart*

These ideas should keep you busy for a while. Next on the agenda is tackling the closets.

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