What true D/s is all about in a nutshell - from the Dominant perspective
|Testimony of a Dom
Sometimes it is important, and often even necessary, for one human being to
have certainty and a clear understanding of the intentions, desires,
motivations and needs of another. Because this is so, I offer you this
testimony in trust and sincerity.
I am a dominant man. I am just that. I am not dominant because of any
superiority on my part, or because I feel I am more intelligent or wiser. I
am not dominant because I am strong physically or my body is big. I am not,
nor would I want to be, dominant with all women. But for you I am willing to
be - because you asked me to.
I will be your Dom (or teacher/trainer) only after earning your trust and
only THEN will I embrace your submissiveness. I am in the process of looking
into your heart and mind and am beginning to clearly see your desires and
passions. You are trying to throw away your fears and inhibitions. You want
to tell me of the needs of your heart and body. You want to give me total
access to your soul. I will accept those responsibilities and honors with
pride and humility.
You want to be a submissive woman. You ARE just that. You are not submissive
because of any weakness or inferiority on your part. You are a treasure to be
cherished. I have the strength of body and mind and the instinctive need to
protect, possess, defend and provide for you. You are instinctively stronger
of will and heart. Your belief in me to lead you on the path you desire gives
me courage and direction. Your strength disperses my doubt. Your needs and
desires encourage me and give purpose to my efforts.
We each hold halves of a whole. We will complement each other and make each
other complete. My desire to dominate you is instinctive. It is not to
degrade you, nor should you feel it is it degrading to you, because your are
totally secure in your femininity. We each recognize and accept our own
worth, and our need for someone to trust and help fulfill our desires.
You are sure, strong and proud in your womanhood. You will not submit to me
as an acceptance of inferiority, but from strength and passion. You expect me
to stand strong; you desire, and will flourish in, the strength and control I
can offer. In return you will present control of your body, unqualified trust
and honesty, and the faithfulness of your heart to me. You will submit
because I have earned your trust; because I will have opened my heart and
soul to you; because I listen to your words with my ears and heart, and
have/will learn to anticipate your needs and emotions. Because I will prove
myself worthy in your eyes, you will give me the only true treasure of life:
you will give me dominance over you.
What you will give is not abnormal, but pure, natural and the rarest gift a
woman can give a man. You will give me complete and unshakable assurance of
your commitment to me. Your submissiveness is a magnificent gift to me and a
sacred responsibility. I accept this from you with humility and joy. I
understand the rarity and purity of this gift. I recognize it is your body
and soul, your heart and mind. I will dominate you only because you allow it,
and only to the extent you allow. When I see you kneel before me, in my mind
and heart you will be raised above all other women, and all the treasures of
the earth. What you will give freely cannot in reality be bought.