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Prompt: Getting Along What do you think can be done to help people, groups, or countries with different opinions get along better? ------ At this point, right now, it seems the bottom hole of the world has enlarged greatly and all the rotten stuff is getting out poisoning all of us. As to the groups and countries, enmity, negative competition, one-up-man-ship and old grudges are leading to all out wars. The way I see it, while differences in opinion are natural, conflict in all its forms should be avoided. Better results can be had with a mix of empathy, communication, and mutual respect. But then, how do we do it? First, by not taking sides, especially when a conflict has flared up somewhere or in some group or country or between two people. Second, we can encourage open dialogue without either side fearing being attacked or silenced. People, as well as groups and countries need to be heard. Then, all listeners, if an open dialogue can be achieved, should try to understand both sides by asking clarifying questions and paying close attention to the details. A warning here, though, if either side feels their perspective isn't respected, the dialogue ends. Also, even in the most divided situations, there will be something both sides care about. Identifying and pointing our those shared values can usually lead to cooperation and joint effort. In addition, showing empathy to both sides, to show them what it's like to be in the other's shoes, can soften rigid thinking. Understanding motivations and struggles of the other side may change the view of the opposing side. With international diplomacy, neutral parties who use empathy to both sides are very effective to lessen the tension between nations. Plus, leading by example can start a worldwide change. Take the recent flare up between two Middle-Eastern countries, for example. Many nations, including ours, started right away to take sides. This is not good for world peace and it will ruin both those countries in question. Leaders of the world who show respect, patience, and kindness, even toward those they disagree with, can influence others to do the same. Change often starts with one good example. I certainly hope my country will provide that example and bring about a lasting world peace. After all, when all is said and done, I can only hope, can't I! |