Susie's

Changing Rooms

Last night over dinner one of the main items on the News was about 8 Nurse's taking the NHS to court over a trans woman using the female changing room,
The Nurse's won their case to stop the trans woman using their facility and to have her own space,

As a trans woman myself I have to agree with the Nurse's,
I'd feel incredibly uneasy using female changing facilities and I wouldn't want to make the Nurse's feel uncomfortable,

I have always used if needed a disabled facility to change,
At the moment I'm lucky because I have my own small office if I need to change,

One thing I've realised over the years, if you don't push the boundaries, women/girls will give you respect,
When I was younger I had Ballet and Dance classes,
The girls knew my status and respected me,
Turning up in a Leotard and tights or a dress they admired me and my commitment to put in hard work to learn,

I was nervous turning up for classes but I soon became comfortable as the girls accepted me,
To this day I'm still friendly with all the girls,
On my journey through life I've met many girls who trust and respect me because I don't push boundaries,
That is apart from my family where anything goes,

I pass myself off in the outside world as a girl and I definitely look the part even though I've not gone through a full transition,
When I'm out I do use female public, pub, restaurant toilets,
I'd look pretty stupid going into a male toilet wearing a dress or skirt,

Anyway as for work, swimming pools, gyms, basically any women's changing facilities that is a definite 'NO',
The most important thing for me is having the respect from the women I know,
There's nothing worse than an angry woman,

So over dinner last night the girls gave me an overwhelming thumbs up for my views and thoughts,
They love me and are proud of the person I've turned into,
Obviously I Love them,

After dinner we sat and chatted over a few glasses of wine before bed with Lisa giving me a good end of the week seeing too,

We've agreed with the younger girls we'll have a party tonight,
(But not naughty)?