Under Construction - MHWA Retreat

I don't do well with aggressive and loud type of personality either. Maybe because I'm more on the quiet side in a way that I don't want to get attention. I do like to express my own, strong opinions though but this happens rarely because I just can't be loud and have all eyes on me. So this is probably why I don't do well with aggressive types because with them I'd be in the center as well which I just don't want .

I can understand you when you say you can be a good listener and care for people you can't personally relate to. I am like that too though not with everyone. In my case, I have a click or I don't have a click when I meet someone. When we click, I'm a good listener. When we don't click (and this is my fault every time) I can listen if it comes to that sort of conversation but I won't give them signs that they can come back to me any time they want . It has nothing to do with them, it is always my fault when I feel like we won't get along.