I agree Choconut there is nothing worse than listening to someone whine but does absolutely nothing to change their situation. I had a friend like that, key word is had. I ended the relationship for my own sanity.
Beauty4Ashes I'm with you if the boat needs to rock I don't ignore or avoid it.
Whata MamasGirl I've never been an extrovert nor does it appeal to me. I treasure my people free time to much to want to change it.