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I ahve to say i agree; counsellors are a bit warped in their opinions and it must be hard to remain objective and impersonal towards clients... After my parents divorced, I wish i'd have some counselling,,, it would've saved a lot of time and trouble further down the line! My brother had to see a psychologist once and he made me, mum and Chloe come along too. I hated it. Chloe refused to speak, mum kept crying, Charles was coloring in some books and hammering at some buliding bricks and was a good kid who only spoke when spoken too, and me, as the oldest was trying to work out was the therapist guy was thinking and I was trying t o be a smart arse and predict what he was going to say and what kinda response he wanted from me... It all felt incredibly uncomfortable and we all stopped going aftyer that coz it made us feel like shit.. I was made to talk to a counseler (I can't spell today) when I was 16, but to be honest, I used the sessions as a way to skip my classes and avoid people so it didn't really help. And again, I spent so much time pre-empting the counselor and coming up with quips and stuff, that she said I was fine and chose to be the way I am and that if I really wanted to change I would, so really I didn't need her help... Wghich was exactly the point I'd been making for the whole 4 mon ths I had to see her!!!!!! Grrrr. And it's funny now that I choose to study Psychology, despite the contempt i hold towards psychologists and the like! go figure?! "When all is lost and there is no more fighting to be done, I will still be here to carry on" ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** ** Images For Use By Upgraded+ Only ** Check out my friends! RachieBee Alex Elizabeth ise-sky trinakat AngelinTwilight piper_willow danika kettlekorn Ilona The Ragpicker - 8 yo relic Militant Feminist lowridingmonkey |