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Daily Cascade

by Joy

Rated: 18+ · Book · Writing · #2326194

A new blog to contain answers to prompts

Since my old blog "Everyday Canvas " became overfilled, here's a new one. This new blog item will continue answering prompts, the same as the old one.

Cool water cascading to low ground
To spread good will and hope all around.

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10 Most Recent Blog Comments:

Reagana

about 16 hours ago
In response to "What About Success?"

I like how you say, "Money and status are the loud definitions of success."

That is so very true, and while that may be many people's definition of success, it is not mine. I tend to find success in the small, everyday moments...those moments that make me laugh. That teach me to appreciate. That help me grow!

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Witchy Woman

a day ago
In response to " Patience, you said?"

I'm with you ladies, mine is never high at home. I did a month straight of readings everyday at 10am which was the time my next appointment was and recorded it in my notes on my phone. My blood pressure was high when the nurse took it, much higher than any of my home readings. I show my notes on my phone to the doctor and he says why do we have you on blood pressure medication and then looks at the chart the nurse had set on the counter. He chuckled and said, you have white coat blood pressure. He said a lot of patients have higher blood pressure whenever they're at the doctors. He lowered my medication but wouldn't take me off it. Said it was safer for me to have a low dose than none. Which doesn't make any sense to me.

I feel like we're cattle rushed through the right gates when we're at the doctors.

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Reagana

a day ago
In response to " Patience, you said?"

The same thing happens to me when I go to the doctor. Every 3 months I have to go, and at each visit, they do bloodwork. I work myself up...ha, ha, just thinking about it. They check my blood pressure right before this, and wonder why it is high. The last time this happened, they told me to get a blood pressure cuff, to monitor at home. I did, and it has Never been high while at home.

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🌝 HuntersMoon

Dec 10, 2025 at 12:16am
In response to "On Doctors: Are they infallible?"

I prefer discussions over diagnosis. At the end of the day, I'm responsible for my health. I'm going to be part of the decision, or I'll find a new doctor.

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Jayngle Bells

Dec 9, 2025 at 1:27pm
In response to "On Doctors: Are they infallible?"

I am more confident in a doctor who says they don't know but are working on finding an answer than I am of a doctor who thinks they know everything.

Great post, Joy.

2 Like

sindbad

Dec 8, 2025 at 1:07pm
In response to "Those Poor, Misunderstood Mistakes"

That's a profound and deeply reflective take on mistakes.

You've beautifully captured the idea that a mistake isn't just an "absence of perfection," but a "presence of something else"—a powerful source of data and growth.
Utility: Yes, mistakes are incredibly useful. They serve as critical feedback ("here's something you don't understand"), driving discovery and innovation (the path of no discovery is the safe path).
Transformation: They provide the "raw material for a better and stronger self," leading to careful repair and the "courage to mend the pieces."
Empathy: Crucially, your insight is right: confronting your own imperfections grants the essential human capacity for empathy.
In short, a mistake is not a verdict of failure, but a mandatory step toward mastery and compassion.

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Silvern

Dec 7, 2025 at 2:43am
In response to "Felt with the Heart"

There are a lot of feelings in our lives that we can feel their existence but not see.

That list begins with love. It doesn't have any shape or hue, but it can do miracles and takes an important role in any sort of relationship.

The joy of hearts, forgiveness are other things that can't be seen, but we can feel it's importance.

Courage and peace are two unavoidable specialities that are truly crucial in our lives which we can feel but remain unseen.

Overall, this is a very important blog post. We ought to realise this and apply this in our lives.

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Witchy Woman

Dec 6, 2025 at 5:51pm
In response to "Felt with the Heart"

That inner peace where mind and body aren't conflicting would be the greatest gift of all for us seniors.

Love I would argue is visible and invisible because there are moments when we are so busy trying to find it, it's right in front of us.

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Silvern

Dec 6, 2025 at 5:40am
In response to "On My Blogging"

The blogger directly focused on the main subject. Publication of a blog is not her main objective. He writes blog posts regularly mainly for her pleasure nothing else. She is a dedicated soul to literature, bringing a wave of extreme positivity. What can we want more for her? She stressed the love and discipline to enjoy the true joy in literature. A complete and total dedication, not partly, is required.

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BIG BAD WOLF is Merry

Dec 5, 2025 at 8:26pm
In response to "On Wishing for Approval"

Always something.

December 4, 2025 at 1:27pm

#1102941

On Wishing for Approval

Prompt:
What three things would you like to be remembered for?
Write about these in in your Blog entry today.

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This question made me think. It is a perfectly fine question itself, but I like to look at things from as many angles as I can. To think of three such things, in essence, would do away with my simplicity.

After all, people usually remember the dead for what they were not...most of the time. To me, this, wanting to be remembered for something or other, felt like seeking approval. Even if I thought about this quietly to myself, it would hurt me, it would hurt who I am.

So, in answer to the question, I don't really care whether anyone remembers me or not, especially posthumously. I won't be here, luckily, to hate or enjoy it. I, therefore, can't even think of any one thing, let alone three of them. In the same vein, not that disapproval sits well with me, but I don't do anything for approval. I do what I think is best, truthful, and helpful to me and others.

On the other hand, seeking approval is a very human impulse. It gives people the feeling of being valued and accepted. But it usually belongs with our very young ages, as people are growing up, and not after they've matured.

Then, when the wish for approval becomes a driving force, it may be quite harmful, not only to me, the individual, but to the public, as well. This is because such a pressure stifles being authentic and really creative. It would also pressure me to fit into a mold, and the real parts of me would become hidden away.

In addition, it would make me anxious with overthinking. "Will they really like me behind my back, even in remembrance? Should I have done things and acted differently?" The irony is that the more I'd chase approval, even for after I'm gone, the less grounded and confident I would feel.

As the result, wishing to be remembered well for something or other would make a person hold back from who she is. To me, real growth means having the courage to disappoint people, sometimes, and living with its results.

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