| Psssst! January is not a New Year. It’s a sales campaign! It’s dark. Nothing is growing. You are a mammal. Trying to reinvent your entire life this month is unhinged behaviour invented by productivity bros and people who sell planners. Keep hibernating. We’ll talk in March. Annie Scott |
| I celebrate New Year on the first day of spring. |
Not everyone is here to wake up. Not everyone is here to go on a journey of discovering their true self and who they are truly meant to be. Some are here to go along with the masses. Some are here to learn to be part of a collective hive mind. It offers them security and safety that they cannot yet give up. You cannot force anyone to take a journey that is not right for them at this stage of their soul’s development. They must be ready to take it themselves. Laura Matsue Guenther |
To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable, and wealthy, not, rich; to listen to stars and birds, babes and sages, with open heart; to study hard; to think quietly, act frankly, talk gently, await occasions, hurry never; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious, grow up through the common. this is my symphony. William Ellery Channing |
We are overstimulated and we don’t even notice. Netflix while eating. Reels in the bathroom. Music while cooking. Podcasts on walks. We consume by default, not by intention. You keep filling every gap, Then wonder why you feel foggy and unmotivated. Boredom and silence are the real growth drivers. They give you space to think and create. That’s when solutions show up for problems that have been stuck for months. Leave some room. Abi Bouhmaida |
| For a lot of people, this is true, but my wife and I eat at the table and converse with each other. Even when she is working, and I'm home alone, I eat at the table with no devices to interrupt the silence. Very seldom do either of us have music on while cooking or doing other activities. Also, no devices when walking/hiking; why distract oneself from the beauty around you? |
We have an entire generation fluent in personal branding and emotionally illiterate in private. People who can narrate their trauma flawlessly and cannot sit in silence with desire. Who can articulate boundaries and cannot recognise avoidance. Who talk about self-worth while negotiating every relationship like a transaction. Tamara |