What Father Would

A Malignant Narcissistic Father, calling himself great, when in reality he is evil

He would ride his bike to work, hallucinating how great he was and how he was the only one to do anything in our family, at least that is what he tells us every day! "I'm the one who does everything! You guys would have nothing without me! You guys would be out on the streets without me! I sacrificed everything for you guys! The reality was that my mother, my brother, and I worked just as hard as he, if not harder, to make our immigrant lives in America better! He always says he brought us over to America so my brother and I could have better lives, but now I think it was just his grand plan to have my brother and me go get a College Education and find good-paying jobs, to boost up his big ass ego, as to how great he was! I don't believe there is any good in him! My mother tells me he has a good heart, but I know now he has an evil, self-serving heart! Which Husband would never ever buy a gift for his wife to show her he loves and appreciates her? Which husband would have his wife work 8 hours a day, then come home and cook and clean and wash clothing, without a word of gratitude from him? Which husband would demean and put down his wife's whole family, "your mother is stupid! Your family is useless," then call his wife's family and ask for a loan so he can come to America, only to put them down again when they are not around to hear! I think he gets joy from other people's suffering! Which father would allow his 11-year-old son to train in a sport for 4 hours, from 8 pm to 12 am, then get home at 2 am in the morning, then have to wake up at 7 am to go to school until 3 pm, then start the cycle all over again, for 7 years! He had no regard for his 11-year-old son, only getting 4 hours of sleep a day! Which father would scream at his 11-year-old son, who is doing his very best to become better at a sport, and make him feel guilty for doing the slightest thing wrong? Which father would call his son ungrateful and make him feel guilty for not being perfect, when all his son wanted from his father was acknowledgement that he was doing well, or being a good son? It was always your not doing enough! It was never enough for him! But I guess that is what you do when you are a Malignant Narsassist! Then he dares to call himself a great father