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It's all about the Journey

by Just Jamie

Rated: 18+ · Book · Parenting · #1993809

A continuation of my original blog, "Surviving Motherhood".

Welcome to my world of middle school, high school, and motherhood. The life of a mom is never easy, especially as children grow, and especially when you have a special needs child.

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Kåre เลียม Enga

Mar 23, 2019 at 7:06pm
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Sad... I keep things here because I need the organization. That said, I put a poem on my blog today... first in one month.

As for readership. *sigh* My blog went over 100 thousand when I wasn't looking. But... no sense in trying to link at facebook because no one is interested in what I write and few are interested in me. My photos? Yes, they gets "likes" but not many comments. It's as if people have forgotten how to communicate the last ten years. If it isn't a meme or twitter they can't handle it.

Sad.

Do keep in touch on facebook and link to wherever you go.

Kåre เลียม Enga

Dec 10, 2018 at 1:14am
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I remember music competitions. You have a right to be proud.

Kåre เลียม Enga

Oct 12, 2018 at 11:33pm
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So much fun! Life with children is challenging but you'll get thru this stage. ♥

Kåre เลียม Enga

Sep 20, 2018 at 4:59pm
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You have kids... that means no time nor money...

I have a simpler life. I'd be exhausted trying to do yours!

Kåre เลียม Enga

Aug 27, 2018 at 12:14am
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I have two friends who had surgery to lose weight. It's a major deal but they both seem better off and healthier. Best all.

The 23rd is my sister's birthday... but I was so worn out I didn't call her until the 25th... my bad.

chicochica

Jul 5, 2018 at 9:14pm
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I think it's so cool that you're open to your kid having pink hair. My mom was really, really against it when I was growing up (I think I wanted blue hair). So I eased her into it: can I get natural highlights? Okay cool. In the space of a year or so I had burgundy hair with purple highlights. Those highlights weren't planned--either that was the result of the stylist's color, or he snuck something fun in for me.

Abbie wanted purple streaks in her hair -- done.

Jason wanted pink hair. The only complaint I had about that was the fact that he has very dark hair and so it would've required me to research or whatever and do more work (bleaching, etc), and I'm lazy.

As for the sizes--I know. Abbie is pretty much done growing and will likely be a shorty like me. Jason is 13 and 5'8" and having a "no shave summer." Joe is starting to grow again, which makes me happy. It's hard enough to be a short girl--being a short guy is no picnic. He'll be in the 7th grade too :)

Kåre เลียม Enga

Apr 1, 2018 at 11:41am
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Does seem like meds are out of whack... I'd say, ask about a water pill, but it sounds like you're on enough as it is. Thursday will come. ♥

nimela44

Nov 5, 2017 at 10:24am
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My Pixie. I love everything about her. I wish I could be as outgoing and not care about what anyone thinks. I’d do so much more in my life. I’m glad that she loves things like that! I’ve never been to a dance in my life! She’s too adorable for words xo xo

Kåre เลียม Enga

Jul 26, 2017 at 11:45pm
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Hugz.

I immediately thought of rehabilitating dogs... they are needy. But once one is attached... how do you give them up. Same with kids.

No real advice ... at lest you are in touch with your needs and can express them. That's a healthy sign.

Shanachie

Jul 3, 2017 at 5:26pm
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One thing to consider is states like Georgia who have the Hope Scholarship that pays for most or all of college. You do have to be an instate resident for a certain amount of time though.

Something to look into when you're considering moving.

March 6, 2017 at 10:35am

#906153

No one's immune (10y, 6m, 2w old)

I was always under the impression that my kids were different-they didn't pine to be part of the in crowd, or have what other kids have. They always struck me as the kinds of kids that were grateful for what they had, and were happy with the friends and people that loved them, and didn't need anymore attention or affection than that.

While part of this is true, it wasn't until last night that it actually hit me that they long to belong as well. Not in a brand specific, look specific kind of way, but in similar ways. Journey longs to grow up, and wear grown up things that her friends wear. I just recently purchased her an article of clothing that immediately boosted her confidence, and although at this time she doesn't need the clothing, it made her feel like she's actually the age she is. She feels grown, like she's ready to take on middle school now. She longed to have what her friends have, and need. Although she doesn't need it just yet, it was that longing to have it that set her there.

Last night, Ryan was playing on Steam with some chums on Rocket League. He admitted frustratedly to them that he can't use a game controller to play, because we can't afford one right now. The dejection in his voice as he admitted this had me almost heartbroken. He longs to keep up with his friends, and be able to play as well as they play. Unfortunately, our budget doesn't allow for that, so he has to get along as he is right now. It would be so much easier for him if we could just get him the game controller, but again, that's not how the budget works.

But my question still remains...why do they feel they have to compete or impress these other kids? What is it that makes them feel they need something in order to belong, to be considered normal? I remember when I was in middle school, a friend of mine had an Adidas jacket that I longed for. I never got it, but I tried not to make a big deal out of it. In fact, I don't even think my parents knew, other than the couple of times I mentioned the jacket. Perhaps I notice it more from our kids because I'm very in tune with them? I hate that they have to go through this adversity, but at the same time, it's good for them to realize, you can't just get what you want because your friends have it. Sometimes, it's just not in the budget. Sometimes, it's not a good idea, or it's not something you're ready for yet. I don't want them to start comparing themselves to those that have different life experiences than them. No one has it easy, even if they do get things handed to them all the time.

I know it's hard for them, but I hope they understand and appreciate as they get older. Journey already recognizes and understands the value of a dollar. Ryan, to some extent, does too. He's much more vocal though about the things he wishes he could get, whereas Journey realizes just how much things cost these days. I know right now they're pretty grateful kids who don't ask for much, and I feel that I can't get them what they'd like, but, money dictates at the moment, and outfitting them with clothes that fit and shoes that fit are much more important than game controllers and Nintendo Switches.

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