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Are You Listening???

by Charlie ~

Rated: GC · Book · Emotional · #2181458

A journey of self-improvement - or not.

Sup? I'm Char.
You may know me from timeless classics such as

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30-Day Blogging Challenge ON HIATUS

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Because real life isn't always roses and sunshine...
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Believin' all the lies that they're tellin' ya
Buyin' all the products that they're sellin' ya
They say jump and ya say "how high?"
Ya braindead, ya got a fuckin' bullet in ya head

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🦃 intuey Grateful & Blessed

Jul 22, 2023 at 8:05am
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Hey Char, It's been a while since I've touched base with you. I'm so sorry for your loss. The last thing people should say is everyone loses their grandparents eventually, or it will get better with time. It's the last thing you want to hear when you're hurting. Death sucks, long-lasting illness sucks! Having to decide to let the person go to keep them from suffering REALLY SUCKS! I think the only ones who can understand truly just how much are those who have had to make that decision. My heart breaks for you.

I'm not religious, but I do have a strong faith in God. I call myself spiritual because I don't agree with all the rules and regulations of religion. I do know I will see my family and friends again, and this is a great comfort. I can only imagine how much more painful the death of loved ones is without this belief. But you're right, it can't be faked. But it is a beautiful thing.

Having mental health issues during times like this makes it even harder to go through. I know what you mean about seeing things that aren't there. I'd walk into a room, and say, "Where's Star?" and she would be sitting right in front of me. When I looked, I swear I saw an empty chair. The mind is crazy. It gives new meaning to a mind of its own

Some time has passed since you wrote this. I don't know when you'll see this but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, and I'm sending good energy your way. I hope you're doing better. I look forward to hearing from you.

Aiva Raine

Mar 28, 2023 at 9:40pm
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I'm sorry for your loss. I know they are shitty sounding words that don't even attempt to fill or fix, but they're meant in sincerity.

Having lost several people the best advice I was ever given was when life gets too hard- take it at your own pace. If a day is too much- cope with an hour at a time. If that's too much, take it ten minutes at a time. If that's too much- then you deal with one minute at a time. Work through life and grief at your pace. And don't ever feel guilty because you feel sad. And if you can- find one positive in each chunk of time- even if it's something as little as the beauty of sunlight on a leaf or the softness of your shirt. And ask for help if you need it.

Elle

Mar 7, 2023 at 3:29pm
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Aw, Charlie, I'm so sorry. It's a shit thing to go through whether it's sudden or not. And just because everyone goes through it, doesn't make it easier. It also doesn't take into account that you were closer to them than your parents. Nobody says 'Oh, everyone loses their parents eventually' do they? Surely not. And that's what's happened here really. I'm actually glad you've got an appointment with a professional tomorrow, because they might be able to help you with getting through that initial devastation.

When my dad lost his mother, he really struggled with his own lack of religion. As you say, there is some comfort in believing they've gone to a better place, been reunited with loved ones, that you'll see them again, and so on. For most of my life, Dad would say 'Religion is a crutch for the weak', but I definitely saw him struggle with the finality of it when he lost his mother, the person he was probably closest to.

My thoughts are with you.

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~Minja~

Mar 7, 2023 at 3:21pm
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Crazy stuff, grief. If you want to talk about it, message me always.

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QPdoll

Mar 7, 2023 at 6:21am
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I understand what you mean about wanting to tell your grandmother something. I did the same thing after my grandmother passed. I was at home and the first thing I thought was to call grandma. I picked up the phone and realized that she wouldn't answer. It's so tough losing your grandparents, especially as close as you were. I don't have any magic words, but take care of yourself. It's what they would want.

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Robert Waltz

Mar 6, 2023 at 10:31pm
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Take care of yourself during this difficult time.

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Anni Pumpkin

Mar 6, 2023 at 9:06pm
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I know it doesn't help any, but I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine much worse than losing a parent or parental figure. They represent stability and safety, you grew up with them, and you've relied on them for most, if not all, of your life. You're right, the initial devastation will fade and things won't feel so fresh. But, as you know, grief never really goes away. It just becomes a permanent part of you.

It's horrible that you only got a couple days worth of bereavement! That's not even long enough for the shock to wear off enough to START grieving. I hope you have the support of someone else in your life to help you through this dark time. Take it easy on yourself in the mean time, that's all you really can do. Taking care of your physical self, eating and sleeping, is critical. Sleep deprivation and hunger will make things feel a million times worse than they actually are (which, for the record, is already pretty bad).

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Cinn

Feb 20, 2023 at 9:34pm
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I actually pretty much love this one. Nice, man...

Cinn

Feb 19, 2023 at 11:07am
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I'd say that more freedom for participants would attract more people. One obvious example that I've never understood is fiction vs poetry. If it's an activity, not a contest, why not allow people to explore whatever the theme of your activity is with whatever type of writing that want to do?

I've actually written for countless contests/activities over the years but never entered... because they inspired me, but I don't fit within the guidelines. Max rating too low, items required (book entries only over here), no poetry accepted, etc.

I know well why people restrict writers' freedom, but they're also restricting the number of participants they'll get. I still just take the inspiration where I can get it.

Turkey DrumStik

Feb 19, 2023 at 10:26am
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I've had decent participation with Journalistic Intentions (even though I know my prompts are sometimes considered "difficult"). I do think that there's been a bit of a shift in regards to contests and activities, where people have been more open to admitting they find some setups too restricting or that they feel intimidated by contests. I would love to be in discussions to address those issues, but so far I haven't been invited.

April 8, 2020 at 9:39am

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April, you're ridiculous.

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#SaferAtHome "30-Day Blogging Challenge ON HIATUS" Prompt: What is the most ridiculous thing about what's happening this month?

I don't know if it's the most ridiculous thing, but the wildest thing to me is that people are literally waiting in lines to get into the grocery store... in April. It's something I couldn't even fathom a month ago. Lines wrapped around the building for, like, eggs.

That's just something you never expect to see. So that's my short answer to the prompt. But there are other ridiculous things about this month, don't worry...

Election who?
I know I've been avoiding the news, but am I the only one who hasn't heard a single word about the presidential election in weeks? Aren't we supposed to have our 2020 Dem candidate announced in June? I know there's a pandemic and all, but how convenient for Trump that no one is even mentioning that he could be gone at this time next year.

Who's essential?
Anyone else notice that a metric fuckton of people are now "essential" employees? I saw the Baskin Robbins mascot that stands on the corner with a sign and waves people to the drive-thru is an essential employee. They really gave employers a lot of leverage there. GameStop tried to say they're an essential employer. You can't trust companies to do the right thing. That's one of the only guarantees in life.

But I'm bored.
I totally feel for everyone stuck at home for weeks on end. I'm not personally bored, but I'm still working from home all day throughout the week. It's shitty, lonely, and makes you anxious af. And with that being said, it's not an excuse to refuse to stay at home if you're not an "essential" employee. We're all in the same boat here. It's super ridiculous to see people refusing to social distance because it's too boring. And it's a slap in the face to those who aren't able to stay at home right now.

Out of Stock!
The last ridiculous thing about April that I'll talk about is how ill-equipped the US is to manufacture goods. You would think that the "greatest" country ever would manage to produce or acquire PPE within a month, but nope. And that's not to mention all the things that our supermarket supply chains can't manage. Every store in the city that I've been to has been out of cleaning wipes, bleach, vinegar, baking soda, rubbing alcohol, etc. for like a month now. It's annoying that they're like, "Hey, disinfect your groceries when you get home." And we're like, "Hey, with what?"
Now they're telling us to wear masks after swearing up and down for months that the general population shouldn't be wearing them unless they're sick. And again, what masks? They want us to make our own using materials we have at home. Interesting. We went from, "An N95 mask won't do anything protect citizens" to "Hey, ya'll got like an old sock to shove in your mouth?"

Expect me standing tall, back against the wall

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