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| I'm no dating expert, but i have some thoughts about dating. I'm a believer in letting the man pursue you. I don't believe in going to bars and other types of places just to meet men. I think if you wanted to meet men, I'd suggest you go to take a class in a subject that would be attractive to men and other women. Something like a class in writing, or in art appreciation. that way you can find something better in common besides your favorite lager. If you are somehow gregarious enough, you can get people to notice you by talking in class about the subject matter, or by asking intelligent questions. Sitting in different seats would help you, and you can get a range of people to talk to randomly. If a guy interests you in the class, give him a smile or glance his way to see if he notices you. If he does, that works to encourage him to approach you. But if he doesn't chances are he's a nerd or someone who's already stuck on someone else. If you fear the COVId problem in these classes, you could sit apart as the class teacher wants. I suggest you wear your masks in class and dress nicely. Don't try to wear dresses all the time, but try to wear something that's funky and cool. A good thing to wear in classes is leggings and boots, and a slouchy sweater. nothing to obvious or else you'll attract a jerk. dating starts when the man asks you for you telephone number. Or you can get him to take you for a cup of coffee and you can talk about the subject you are both taking as classmates. be sure you look at his ring finger to see if he's a married man. that's the kiss of death to any relationship. A married man has so many baggages in his life, not to mention kids. Unless you're a sucker for a loser, don't go for an obviously married man. if he's a good person and takes you for coffee and brings up another date after that, go with it. Don't try to imagine wedding bells right off the bat. talking to a man about marriage can sound alarm bells in his head. Men don't want to jump into anything like marriage. Just play it cool. playing it cool is what women should do. if he is attentive then be a genuine person and appreciate his attention. And have fun at this dating thing with him. If you're having some trouble getting to meet men, even with the classes that i'm suggesting, just be patient. Dress to be comfortable but don't don't don't wear sneakers and socks, or jeans that are called "Mommy jeans". Don't wear any rings on your finger so that they might be put off that you could be taken. wear cool earrings that are dainty and sweet. Don't wear your hair in a weird colour. You could scare a decent chap away. or you might end up with someone who is also filled with his own angst. the psychology of dating is a difficult thing to navigate. Don't reveal too much about yourself in the first date. Don't tell about all the losers who have been your past boyfriends. Just treat this date as a new slate to write on together with your new beau. |
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