|Yes, I get this. There are issues that seemingly won't go away. We're different. One is male and on is female, for starters
I have been married for 46 years. I figure that things have evolved numerous times. I want them for the better. I often don't feel that is what is happening.
We need too create relationship. We call it a marriage covenant/ That is a sacred promise before God. If you made a covenant,you sacrificed animals and burned them up saying, if I violate the covenant, this will happen to you. In Abraham's case, God burned up sacrifices on both side of the covenant while Abraham slept.
WE can't do Covenant on our own. Divorce rate is sky high. You are logical in your thinking but this kind of transcends logic