Hi Nancy,
Overall Impression: Ignoring for a moment my gripes with emphasis and ellipsis issues, which I'll mention below, I thought this was, for the most part, a strongly written piece. The fear you speak of concerning change in general, and in more specific instances such as shyness, unfamiliar settings, and the loss of family members, are all strongly transmitted. It is clear to me, that despite the fears you had (or have) you do not let them overwhelm you. You continue to travel and experience new things, so shyness or not, Sophy's newsletter or not, you are clearly capable of having the strength and faith to wrestle with the demons of Fear, Anxiety, and Worry.
Grammar and Mechanics: There are a number of grammatical issues that are damaging to this essay. While the content itself is fine, constantly seeing them over and over again make me cringe. For those who aren't familiar with ellipsis and emphasize rules, they probably won't find much to fault in this story. For me the issues are an eyesore. I think the content itself is good, but sometimes it's hard to see it when I see those other issues.
Emphasizing words - The preferred method of emphasizing a word is to write in italics, not caps. So unless you're shouting, write
more in the first paragraph,
change in the 2nd and 6th paragraphs,
felt in the 8th paragraph,
is in the 9th paragraph, and
my and
fear in the 10th paragraph.
Ellipses - Should never be more than 4 dots or less than 3 dots. There are 3-point ellipses and 4-point ellipses (although technically 4 point ellipses are actually a period and a set of 3-point ellipses). The omission of one or more paragraphs within a quotation is indicated by four ellipsis points. If the ellipsis follows an incomplete sentence within that quotation, than it is indicated by 3 ellipsis points.
Title: The Journey Of [of] Fear - Words like "of" are never capitalized in a title unless it is the first word in the title.
Paragraph 2: The word biblical should not begin with a capital B as it is neither a title nor the beginning of a sentence.
Paragraph 3: When I was younger -
I had friendships with young Italian people who spoke [as] little English, as I spoke little Italian. One would think I would have been afraid of a new culture, language, food. But I hiked the hills in the Alps; I learned to ski in Cortina, Italy. I traveled to Venice, Florence. I went to my first opera in an open amphitheater (I've been told I saw La Boheme' in a very famous opera venue.) I traveled all through Europe, including Vienna, Austria, Spain, France, [and] London, England. After Italy, I moved to Germany for two more years. This was more culture shock[, b]ut I loved the language, the culture, the beer, the food, the rain. I traveled to Berlin (during the Communist rule), Hamburg, Munich, Frankfurt, and also England, and Holland.
The hiking doesn't really have much to do with being afraid of new culture, language, and food, so "But" doesn't make sense in the next sentence. For the most part I decided "and" was unnecessary at the end of your lists, seeing it as a stylistic thing; however, when you add London, England to the mix, you have to add "and", otherwise it sounds like London is a separate place from England as opposed to part of England. While there are times you can begin a sentence with a conjunction like but, do not do so if it clearly links to the previous sentence.
Paragraph 4: In college I had normal insecurity, but never experienced fear. After college, I feared CHANGE [change]. I drove from the Midwest to California (which was not too scary for me because my family was from California). But I had family in California. I began a career I loved, and with family and friends began a wonderful period of travel and discovering new goals. I traveled to many snow ski areas, including the powder in the mountains of Utah, Heavenly Valley in Lake Tahoe, [and] Denver, Colorado.
Again, while there is nothing wrong with beginning a sentence with a conjunction, you have to know when and how to do so. "But" is something called a adversative conjunction, and can be unclear at the start of a sentence. If "and" can be substituted, "but" is probably the wrong word word to use. The sentence to me just seems tossed in to show your family is from Cali, but the way it's placed doesn't sound right. The sentence I put in parenthesis (or rounded brackets) seems to be the message you're trying to tell. Use parenthesis around it to set it off from the rest of the sentence. Finally, the "and" before Denver, Colorado is crucial in that last sentence, so it doesn't sound like you're listing Denver as a separate place from Colorado.
Paragraph 5: There is fear when you push yourself and ski black diamond trails[,] but when you are exhausted at the end of the day, you feel accomplishment. And there [There] is no trading the joy of standing at the peak of a mountain, alone. It is truly a spiritual joy. And racing to get to the bottom of a mountain when the snow is falling and falling, and you have been told there is danger from a storm [is exhilarating].
A semi-colon should be used as a weak period, not a strong comma. I'm starting to see "and and and". While it's ok to begin a sentence with "and", if there's an "and" repetition, minimize the occurrences by changing how your sentences begin. The last paragraph sounded incomplete, so I added "is exhilarating" based on the experiences you were conveying.
Paragraph 6: The fear that bothered me the most for years in my life was CHANGE [change]. Perhaps it was sadness or extreme anxiety, rather than fear. I resisted change as long as possible - but learned many lessons about the inevitability of change. I felt I would lose a comfortable place, where I belonged somehow. Friends were never permanent in the military. Folks moved every 6 months. So later I resisted my friends moving[;] I resisted graduating from college. I feared CHANGE [change].
Either add the word "and" or change the comma to a semi-colon in the second to last sentence. While leaving out "and" as being implied by a comma in a list can be considered a stylistic thing, do not do so when linking what would otherwise be two separate sentences.
Paragraph 7: Older -
"To you my brothers and sisters, I confess to what I have done, and to what I have failed to do....."
Since this is ending a quotation mid-sentence, there are only 3 ellipsis points, not 4, and never 5 or more under any circumstance. (Barring one situational exception in poetry and verse drama, which is irrelevant here.)
Paragraph 8: My fear comes from: "all [All] I have failed to do". It is a heavy burden on my heart. I do not fear death, I have been at the bedside of my Mother [mother] and sister when their spirits passed on. I FELT felt [those] angels, [their] spirits[,] and felt their souls, their presence move from a living body to a spiritual joyfulness. I felt joy for them. However, I fear if, in death I will be worthy to see Jesus, to have a place in His Father's Mansion. [However, I fear that when I die, I will not be worthy to see Jesus and have a place in His Father's Mansion.] - I felt this paragraph was poorly phrased, particularly the last sentence, so I have included my suggestions (in brackets) on what I think you meant to say.
Paragraph 9: What has helped me IS [is] Faith. Without Faith, we might as well admit life is a sham. "Do not be afraid"...........Jesus, The Blessed Mother, Angels sent to Joseph and Mary.....these words were spoken each time. Jesus assured his Apostles after his resurrection, not be have fear - Jesus said, "I will be with you until the end of time..". Over and over, He comforted those who had Faith. "Your faith has saved you....". I also read The [the] Psalms[.] I [can] open to any page and read poems praising God, asking for mercy, declaring confidence and faith in God's promises. And when I pray at night, I ask the Lord......."Oh Lord, please take away my anxiety and despair, remove any fear, and come into my heart to restore my faith. Thank you for this day, and all the days of my life..."
Do not use more than 3 ellipsis points unless you are omitting 1 or more paragraphs in a quotation; In which case, you would only use 4, never more. Do not include a period after the end quote of a sentence ending with ellipses. "
Jesus, The Blessed Mother, Angels sent to Joseph and Mary" - is this part of the quotation or your addition. I'm not sure how to edit this one without knowing what exactly it is. If it's part of a quote, it's missing quotations. If yo're saying it, then it's phrased oddly.
Final Thoughts: An essay like this should receive a higher rating than I am giving it. While I think this is strongly written and succeeds in communicating your thoughts, the reason I don't rate it higher is that the issues I found make it come across as if it's written in a sloppy manner. Always make sure you are using things (like ellipsis) correctly. Let me know when the corrections are made. As soon as I see those revisions, I will gladly raise my rating.