Hi, bandit:
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This is my way of introducing myself to you, fellow writer. I swing by ports, looking for something to keep me occupied on a quiet Tuesday night. Fortunately for you, I find the title of this submission intriguing. So, let me stop in, take a read and offer you a review.
Here are some comments you might consider when you decide to revisit it for tightening and improvement. My observations and suggestions are enclosed in brackets and color-coded green.
*Content
This is a beautiful tribute you wrote about your mother. I can relate to the ordeal you went through in caring for her. It pleases me to see caring adult children who take care of their parents during this critical time of their existence. I empathize with you truly. You see, I took care of my mother, as well, during the last year of her life when she could not take care of herself any longer. She was independent. She did not want to be a burden to her children until she realized she had no choice but to depend on me. She was ninety-four-years old who suffered acute heart failure.
To top it off, I was also caring for my eighty-nine-year-old husband, who was suffering from prostate cancer, dementia, and heart failure. So, I took care of them both. Last year, 2019, was a challenging year for me. I had them both under Hospice Care in my home.
My husband gave up his fight for his dear life on May 25, 2019. He was ninety years old, which was five months short of his ninety-first birthday. Three months later, on August 29, 2019, ten days after we celebrated her ninety-fifth birthday, my mother gave up the ghost, as well.
Caring for them and seeing them go was bitter-sweet for me. Their first death anniversary will soon be here and here I am, still wishing they are still around to care for.
So, you see, you can count your blessings because you are not alone. At some point in our lives, we go through the same ordeal. Yet, we are left with beautiful memories that will live on until our appointed time comes.
Thank the good Lord for giving you good health, with a loving and caring heart that withstood all challenges of providing love and care for a beloved mother.
As far as *Mechanics,*Syntax,*Punctuation,Spelling, and all the nitty-gritty of wordsmithing go, here are some snippets I cut and pasted that may need tweaking for clarity and readability:
"oh well she's going to die anyway".[Note Open and Close Quotation Marks]
Punctuation Marks and Closing Quotation Marks
Typographical convention in the United States requires that periods and commas always be inserted before the closing quotation marks – regardless of whether a direct quotation consists of an entire sentence, a phrase, or a single word.
They finally after eight hours of neglect moved my mother upstairs to the transitional unit.
[These two sentences may sound better revised this way:]
After eight hours of neglect, they finally moved my mother upstairs to the transitional unit.
It was amazing the difference in attitude after she was moved.
The difference in attitude was amazing after she was moved.
The months that I had spent taking care of her were now coming to [and][an] end.
Also: Try to read your work aloud, or have someone read it aloud for you, so you can hear the tone and voice. There may be punctuation marks needed for pauses and things of this nature that would enhance clarity and readability of your narrative. I see commas that you can insert in some of your sentences. Check it out. Take a second look. Revision is the secret to good writing.
*Dialogue
To add action, dazzle and sizzle, and sparkle to your story, try to employ dialogue to show your characters interacting with each other.
*Disclaimer
I hope my observations and suggestions can help you tighten some loose ends relating to the mechanics in writing. Keep in mind, though, that these are from one reader's point of view. As such, take it with a grain of salt. The decision to adopt or discard suggestions is your prerogative.
*Over-all take away
Your story is so poignant. It touches our emotions down to the core. Thank you for sharing your struggles and forbearance in dealing with your loved ones' transition from this earth to life eternal on the other side.
Keep your pen and paper handy. Or in today's reality, put your fingers on the keyboard and write away.
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