Happy Account Anniversary BScholl ,
I came to review your writing in acknowledgment of your 14th anniversary here. I couldn’t find anything new or updated in over a year, skimmed your IRA article before finding this short story.
"Farewell My Child" is a poignant exploration of the bittersweet emotions surrounding the departure of a child for college. The narrative unfolds with a reflective tone, allowing readers to connect with the universal experience of letting go. The story deftly captures the nuances of family dynamics, the impact of change, and the reassurance that love remains a steadfast companion.
The hook is emotionally resonant, immediately drawing one into the heart of the story. The opening paragraph, with the departure of Brittany for college, sets the stage for a narrative rich in introspection and the complexities of family relationships. The line, "After eighteen and a half years of being her daddy, all I felt was -- my heart breaking," encapsulates the emotional core of the piece, creating an empathetic connection with parents like myself who've faced a similar milestone.
The theme here revolves around the inevitability of change, the challenges of adjusting to an "empty nest," and the enduring nature of familial love. The story adeptly navigates the emotional landscape of the characters, delving into the mother's grief and the father's attempts at comfort. The theme is relatable, offering readers a mirror to their own experiences or those they anticipate.
The use of dialogue is a notable strength for this story, capturing the authenticity of familial interactions. The exchange between the husband and wife at Bill's Steakhouse provides a window into their emotional struggles, fears, and attempts to find solace. For example, the wife's line, "It’s just that she won’t be part of our daily lives. She won’t be our little girl. She won’t be Brittany. She’ll change," reflects the poignant realization of a parent grappling with the transformative nature of their child's departure.
The ending brings a heartwarming twist with Brittany's text message, introducing a sense of hope and continuity. This unexpected moment serves as a positive resolution, offering solace for the parents and reinforcing the idea that change can also bring new forms of connection. The line, "Farewell my child, you've grown up today," beautifully encapsulates the sentiment of letting go while cherishing the memories of childhood.
Suggestions for improvement:
1. Consider further exploration of the father's internal thoughts and emotions. Providing insight into his perspective during key moments could deepen the emotional impact and enhance the reader's connection with his character. I can tell you as a father, all kinds of scenarios play out…good and bad.
2. Utilize sensory details to evoke a more vivid setting. Enhancing descriptions of the restaurant, characters, and surroundings could contribute to a more immersive reading experience. For example, elaborating on the ambiance of Bill's Steakhouse or incorporating more visual details during key moments could enrich the storytelling. Sometimes, the setting triggers our subconscious thought, intermingles with those moments in ways we can’t separate from in memory.
3. Explore the theme of resilience and adaptation. While the story touches on the challenges of change, further emphasis on the characters' resilience and their journey toward adapting to the new phase of life could add layers to the narrative. Sometimes, it’s about what you can’t foresee, ultimately over-prepare for. A comparative I’ve had is either a vacation or camping trip, having supplies for every situation, yet we overpack and still omit the necessary.
In conclusion, as a father of a college dropout, "Farewell My Child" successfully captures the emotional complexities of a significant life transition for me. The story effectively balances introspection, dialogue, and a heartwarming resolution, providing readers with a relatable and moving narrative. In my case, this could have been a horror story ramp up, including the financial advisor (real) who got me into an annuity to hide my money to preserve his potential for federal funding/grant opportunities. My annuity is still worth the initial seed money. No longer enjoying that 10% annual bump. And a year of wasted college money. Worse, impact on my son who couldn’t tell me he was failing, out of fear. He was not ready. I image most think about the cost and value of college over what the investment will bring.
This story gave me plenty to recall and consider. Lots of planned money for college not being used now. If any of the 80k remaining wil ever be used by either kid…and what to do with this non-taxed money…dunno. At least I have a big annuity and a bunch of Roth’s for her and me, other investments, properties, her life insurance, her 401k that rivals all our savings, and cash on hand. My kid is working full-time, stays at home, earns 4% on the 30k he’s already saved…in 3 years time. He says he’s paying me back. So many things with this story reminding me, and I’m only thinking of money as parent.
Your story was a trip down memory lane, and was happy to discover. Have a great WDC Account Birthday/Anniversary!
Sincerely,
Brian
WDC Super Power
and Anniversary Reviewer
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